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SCURLOCK's photo
Mon 08/11/08 07:49 AM
i have a freind on here that's found a lady that sem to have caught his eye and i am afraid that she is going to hurt him in some way well his feeling or his pocket she says she is in nigeria she is separated from her husband and she just wants to be happy for the rest of her life she is 31 he is in his early 50's she wants to come here and stay with him as for now he is all open with her tell her everything and i try to tell him just see what she is about first dont open up like this she has kids i as him to ask her where was her husband since they were separated thats not good at all maybe i am reading too much into this what do you think she says she is in love with him already and she just started alking to him twodays ago he is a good man for real he is a gentleman that had some bad breaks but women seem to always use him for his money for real what can i do to help him let him find out the hard way or how do you catch some of these people in their own webs

adoubleby's photo
Mon 08/11/08 07:51 AM
somehow i've heard this situation before...be careful! ohwell

njmom05's photo
Mon 08/11/08 07:51 AM
The africa/nigeria people are always scammers...tell your friend to stay away!!!!!

Jules0565's photo
Mon 08/11/08 07:52 AM
Nigeria? I'm thinking this woman may be a "scammer" looking for money.. becareful.

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Mon 08/11/08 07:52 AM
This is a scam......there is a complete business over in Nigeria that foucses on this website!!! I currently have one that's bugging me, but I've run across this before so I am trying to find out about her and have enough to pass on warnings!!!

TheCaptain's photo
Mon 08/11/08 07:52 AM
Its probably a scam.grumble

redhead44613's photo
Mon 08/11/08 07:54 AM
SCAM!!!!!

markc48's photo
Mon 08/11/08 07:55 AM
You got one of those too. Mine wanted $2500.00noway NOT

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Mon 08/11/08 07:55 AM

i have a freind on here that's found a lady that sem to have caught his eye and i am afraid that she is going to hurt him in some way well his feeling or his pocket she says she is in nigeria she is separated from her husband and she just wants to be happy for the rest of her life she is 31 he is in his early 50's she wants to come here and stay with him as for now he is all open with her tell her everything and i try to tell him just see what she is about first dont open up like this she has kids i as him to ask her where was her husband since they were separated thats not good at all maybe i am reading too much into this what do you think she says she is in love with him already and she just started alking to him twodays ago he is a good man for real he is a gentleman that had some bad breaks but women seem to always use him for his money for real what can i do to help him let him find out the hard way or how do you catch some of these people in their own webs


IT'S A SCAM!!! Do whatever you have to do to convince your friend to get rid of her or at the very least, not to send her any money! I found a website to check out IP addresses if anyone is ever unsure about whether a person is a scam or not.

http://www.ip2location.com/free.asp

Hope this helps anyone, cause it did help me!flowerforyou

plk1966's photo
Mon 08/11/08 07:56 AM
SCAMM!! BE VERY CAREFULflowerforyou

JusWannaSayHi's photo
Mon 08/11/08 07:56 AM
Edited by JusWannaSayHi on Mon 08/11/08 07:58 AM

i have a freind on here that's found a lady that sem to have caught his eye and i am afraid that she is going to hurt him in some way well his feeling or his pocket she says she is in nigeria she is separated from her husband and she just wants to be happy for the rest of her life she is 31 he is in his early 50's she wants to come here and stay with him as for now he is all open with her tell her everything and i try to tell him just see what she is about first dont open up like this she has kids i as him to ask her where was her husband since they were separated thats not good at all maybe i am reading too much into this what do you think she says she is in love with him already and she just started alking to him twodays ago he is a good man for real he is a gentleman that had some bad breaks but women seem to always use him for his money for real what can i do to help him let him find out the hard way or how do you catch some of these people in their own webs


Well, I have found that usually all you can do is be his friend. He will have to find this out on his own unfortunately.
He may not WANT to listen to you telling him what is so obvious to you .
I have been in this same situation for the last 6 months. I have a friend who has decided she is gay. GREAT no prob with me as long as she is happy, but then her new Gal tried to talk her into leaving her child who is already messed up without having this on her plate.
So, now because her CRAZY gal is the jealous and controlling type we are not allowed to be true friends, only text buddies. It hurts , but I know that as long as I am her friend and I am there for her when she needs me to be , then thats all I can do.
Just be there for him hun.
I hope this helps you .
He does know that most women from other countries are just trying to find sugar daddies? And all they want is $$$$$$$ sometimes, they will kill for it.
flowerforyou

SCURLOCK's photo
Mon 08/11/08 07:58 AM
see they all come in different colors also itsn not just the black there

merlin2525's photo
Mon 08/11/08 07:59 AM

You got one of those too. Mine wanted $2500.00noway NOT

Wow. I got a deal. Mine only wanted $800.00

JusWannaSayHi's photo
Mon 08/11/08 08:00 AM

see they all come in different colors also itsn not just the black there


True very True...
They come from ALL over! Even here in the U.S.

SCURLOCK's photo
Mon 08/11/08 08:01 AM
i will give it to my friend thanks

BlueskyJ's photo
Mon 08/11/08 08:02 AM
Not only is this a SCAM, there is no guarantee the person your friend is talking with is even a female....eventually she will ask for money, they always do.....

SCURLOCK's photo
Mon 08/11/08 08:12 AM
that is what i told him that he could be talking to someone totaly different than who they say they are

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Mon 08/11/08 08:17 AM
He will know it is a scam when she asks him for his bank account number or for money for a plane ticket. That will be his first clue.

JB

BlueskyJ's photo
Mon 08/11/08 08:18 AM

that is what i told him that he could be talking to someone totaly different than who they say they are

anyone can post a picture on most sites since there really are no controls....that's why I always say that until you actually meet the person face to face you just don't know....

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Mon 08/11/08 09:20 AM
Edited by michiganman3 on Mon 08/11/08 09:21 AM
Scamalicious.grumble
She's hott-hott.
Scamalicious, grumble
Get a taste of what she got.
laugh laugh rofl laugh laugh

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