Alrighty. Well, I have this friend of mine, and his cousin really likes
me. he's cute and everything, and he's nice when he's around me. But he
has a EXTREMLEY bad reputation. Such as raping girls, fighting with
friends, and shop lifting. I am kind of uncomfortable when i'm around
him, and my friend keeps telling his cousin really wants to see me. I
dont what I should do. Should I forget that he even exists, or give him
a chance? Its stupid i know, but its really a problem over here.

Raping girls? And you're wondering what you should do?

Someone, please...just shoot me now. I can't take anymore. LOL.

But then again, seriously. They could be rumors but im not sure about
it. He seems nice and everything, but idk. Like i said, thats what I've
heard, not what i know for sure.

as a man, I';d have to say, if you respect the people who are tlling you
these things you have to take their options in consideration. If they
dont matter find out for yourself, but be careful

arrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!!!!!!! [pulling at my hair]

come on sweetie!!! you need to think better about yourself!!! Run away
from the creep!!! There are plenty of guys without that horrible rep!

Go with your gut feeling, if you don't feel comfortable around him then
even bother.

-.-''' I've never been in a scituation like this before,
honestly. Should I confront him about it, not the kid that likes me, his
friend. Or should i just blow it off.

OMG , girl there are thousands of nice looking guys in prison that are
there for murder. Hellllllllloooooooo wake up before you are his next
victim. Sorry but rumors of someone raping someone humm think I would
take that rumor serious.

Well i suppose i could just not talk to him. Lol. Im just going to find
out the facts first and then debate.

it was a legatimate. question. Believe the hype or not? If they were
saying he was a good guy he had just as much of a chance to be a bad guy

Easy to find out if he has a "record"...Just go down to the police
station or call them...or go to the court house and lookm under public
records...It's free to the public...
and if you don't wasnt to be sneaky about it...Hello...JUST ASK HIM..but
I would not just take his word for it either...
Come on Jayy use your head here...Do you want ot be his next victim???
Find out the facts girl..
Personally...NO WAY...would I even bother...(but that;s jsut me, I have
children to look out for) Be careful and best of luck...

rapist's often have girlfriend's as do pedofile's niether of which i
think you should date

those LITTLE red flags should be telling you something ... BUT if the
curiosity over comes you and you go to see him DO NOT GO ALONE ...
PERIOD .

if you find out that they are just rumors you have to realize that they
will continue while you are dating him and you'll have to decide then if
you're willing to put up with them.

i have been in situations like that and it can put a strain on you as
well because whoever started the bull**** will try everything to
discourage you.

What part of run like hell as fast as you can as far as you can do you
fail to understand.

Ask your friend about it. It could be that these are just rumors, but I
doubt it. Trust your instincts. If you don't feel comfortable around
him, that should tell you that he's not the guy for you, whether he is a
rapist or not.

you should give him a chance as a friend first, then see what happens. .
. besides your beautiful . . you don't have problem finding someone

If this person has such an EXTREMELY bad reputation why would you even
consider getting into any kind of relationship w/him. Yes they may be
rumors but then again they might not be and that would be putting
yourself into grave danger.

There are plenty of other guys out there w/o the reputation that you
should be considering for a relationship.


If indeed these rumors are true, he is not worth your time and effort.
If you feel uncomfortable around him this should be telling you
something!....


Your best bet would be be to turn and run!