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Topic: True love
MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Tue 08/12/08 03:32 PM
If you truly love a person, you'll want him/her to be happy even though you can't be with him/her, right?

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Tue 08/12/08 03:32 PM
Yep, and it sucks.

OpenWounds Joined Wed 08/06/08 Posts: 335	Tue 08/12/08 03:35 PM
Oh boy, i've been there. Seems, rather unrewarding, dont you think?

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Tue 08/12/08 03:35 PM
Yep, and it sucks.

voxsteven Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 1813	Tue 08/12/08 03:35 PM
Well, that is how its supposed to go , yeah.

rainysky39 Joined Sun 01/20/08 Posts: 4071	Tue 08/12/08 03:35 PM
Sadly yes. Their happiness means more than mine to me.

ljcc1964 Joined Fri 10/19/07 Posts: 8298	Tue 08/12/08 03:36 PM
Yes.

cflbikedog Joined Sun 04/13/08 Posts: 2361	Tue 08/12/08 03:36 PM
Yep, and it sucks. That about sums it up........ but I do wish her all possible happiness

JusWannaSayHi Joined Sun 06/29/08 Posts: 2743	Tue 08/12/08 03:40 PM
I suppose , but after 16 years , crap gets old and sometimes ya just wanna get on with your life... If I left him tomorrow, yes , I would want him to be happy.

moonlight_ride62 Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 4414	Tue 08/12/08 03:41 PM
Yep, and it sucks. sure does...and the funny thing is he always comes back around when he wants someone to talk to or needs a shoulder..or advice..

OpenWounds Joined Wed 08/06/08 Posts: 335	Tue 08/12/08 03:42 PM
Hah, mine turned out to be a lesbian. Go figure.

mscherbear Joined Fri 03/07/08 Posts: 15104	Tue 08/12/08 03:43 PM
Yes, no matter how much it hurts

JulieMP Joined Sat 03/01/08 Posts: 1249	Tue 08/12/08 03:43 PM
If you truly love a person, you'll want him/her to be happy even though you can't be with him/her, right? right. they suck at love and you have to let them suck at it. Never try to convince them to be with you...let time go by. I promise that heart aches will stop.

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Tue 08/12/08 03:43 PM
I think what we are talking about is unconditional love... and that's pretty hard to find/have for someone besides your family and your children especially.

alonenotlonely Joined Thu 01/03/08 Posts: 2957	Tue 08/12/08 03:45 PM
If you truly love a person, you'll want him/her to be happy even though you can't be with him/her, right? You got it Mirror. It takes quite the moral fiber though and I must admit sometimes don't find it easy to want that for them.

alonenotlonely Joined Thu 01/03/08 Posts: 2957	Tue 08/12/08 03:46 PM
Hah, mine turned out to be a lesbian. Go figure. In that case, great name you've got. Ouch!

alexiateigra Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 1326	Tue 08/12/08 05:18 PM
Naturally! On the other hand, I would not allow myself to cling onto false hopes so that I could also move on.

Marley Joined Mon 10/02/06 Posts: 3922	Tue 08/12/08 06:10 PM
If you truly love a person, you'll want him/her to be happy even though you can't be with him/her, right? Not necessarily. Shades of grey glass.

sparkleplenty424 Joined Mon 07/21/08 Posts: 463	Tue 08/12/08 06:15 PM
Love means wanting life's best for another, even if it does not include you.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Tue 08/12/08 06:17 PM
I think what we are talking about is unconditional love... and that's pretty hard to find/have for someone besides your family and your children especially. true