is it OK for a lady to come on to a man or does she loose the power and
respect of that man

Hit on him babe!! We love that!!

I actually have MORE respect for her if she does it the right way.

And Lex what is the right way?

i love an aggresive women. i would love it for women to approach me
first.

"R-E-S-P-E-C-T Tell you what it means to me. SOCKITTOMESOCKITTOME
SOCKITTOMESOCKITTOME"

It's fine if you wish to come over and introduce yourself.
After all Some times in public places men like myself dont know if a
woman is involved or if one is single.

Hell I like it when a women comes on to me It show's she can handle
herself I think there are a few women that would like to be that way but
are a litte afraid to express that side of them

Let me be honest. There is a difference between hitting and flirting.
Flirting is great no matter who or what. I always take it as a
complement. And I love it.
Hitting is different. Hitting is about sending a specific message.
Personally I am not the hitter type. I never hit on anybody but I flirt
all day long.
For me---- If a woman is hitting on me and I find myself attracted to
her then its wonderful.
However if I do not find that I am attracted to her then I feel like I
am in an awkward and uncomfortable position.
Women hit on me a lot and I am usually not that comfortable with it.
I would say that its OK for you to do it because it makes your
intentions clear. There is nothing wrong with that.
Dont take it to heart if you dont get the responce you are looking for.
Good Luck