Topic: nice guys vs. aholes
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Wed 08/13/08 04:12 PM


Attention Men Who Like to Generalize Women:

STOP IT.


Woah...not trying to start anything here. But men are "generalized" just as much as women are.


I was just being a smartass.



well it is (im)possible to manage without generalizations.

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Wed 08/13/08 07:13 PM
So what ARE you attempting to come to grips with here? spock

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Wed 08/13/08 08:04 PM

So what ARE you attempting to come to grips with here? spock


the things i've posted about in the last year

death

suicide

eating

fcking

sexes and roles

incest

abuse

family

cooking

religion

God

sex dating relationships and rage

rock n roll

coochie coo

connection

coping

the maps

ownership

i'm not sure grip is my word. my work is technical.

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Wed 08/13/08 08:09 PM
ive said it before and im tired of typin it..


heres the link!



http://www.justsayhi.com/topic/show/135261

please click the above link... it will state my feelings on this matter..



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Wed 08/13/08 08:10 PM

no the trut his this

girls fall for the asshole cause the ywant to mold him into the nice guy, and break his spirit, and then once you finally get us to be that perfect guy for you
you break up with us why, cause we've changed




CHRIST ON A STICK, I'M TIRED OF THIS SH*T....

The women who go for and stay with the a-holes are BROKEN women... so all of you nice guys who b*tch and moan about why don't they love you...it's because you are chasing BROKEN women. Is that what you want, a needy dependant woman who can't take care of herself??? GREAT GO FIND THEM. BUT STOP CLASSIFING ALL OF US AS "THOSE" WOMEN....

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Wed 08/13/08 08:13 PM
Do you ever think that maybe you didnt think you "deserved" a nice guy thus shredding all the nice ones and going for the ones who would treat you bad????huh

Somewhat like the fear of success......Ive thought this out for a long time.....

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Wed 08/13/08 10:05 PM


no the trut his this

girls fall for the asshole cause the ywant to mold him into the nice guy, and break his spirit, and then once you finally get us to be that perfect guy for you
you break up with us why, cause we've changed




CHRIST ON A STICK, I'M TIRED OF THIS SH*T....

The women who go for and stay with the a-holes are BROKEN women... so all of you nice guys who b*tch and moan about why don't they love you...it's because you are chasing BROKEN women. Is that what you want, a needy dependant woman who can't take care of herself??? GREAT GO FIND THEM. BUT STOP CLASSIFING ALL OF US AS "THOSE" WOMEN....


Wow and the truth shall set u free,nicely said..being a nice guy is how u take care of a woman,not kissing up to her or saying im sorry all the time, thats not nice,just pathetic.Different women have different needs,but none of them are going to go for a needy man groveling for love..point of all being,be a man, and treat her right and she will respond.Unless she is the afore mentioned broken type,than in that case...run for your very life

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Wed 08/13/08 10:56 PM
Gotta get a grip on the idea of a nice guy vs. a wuss... No one but strippers and whore like a wuss, cause they're easy to peel.

Wusses might be "nice guys" but not all nice guys are wusses. Girls dig nice guys who aren't wusses, but will prefer and @$$hole to a nice guy who is also a wuss.

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Wed 08/13/08 10:59 PM
How many is it now...12...thousand? Can't you all just look at past posts and find the answer?

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Wed 08/13/08 11:00 PM
ok that didnt make any sense!!!

Here is a thought.......how about I get to be bad and you get to be good and then we can take turns and I can be bad and you can be good!!!bigsmile drinker

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Wed 08/13/08 11:05 PM
Nice guys SHOW GREAT,,,but bad boys PLAY LATE!!

drinker So im a Nice guy by day and a bad boy at play,wink,,,loldrinker smokin

izzie's photo
Wed 08/13/08 11:05 PM

Gotta get a grip on the idea of a nice guy vs. a wuss... No one but strippers and whore like a wuss, cause they're easy to peel.

Wusses might be "nice guys" but not all nice guys are wusses. Girls dig nice guys who aren't wusses, but will prefer and @$$hole to a nice guy who is also a wuss.
drinker

Lakersfan4eva's photo
Wed 08/13/08 11:07 PM
I'm personally attracted to nice guys cause I'm a nice girl!:wink:

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Wed 08/13/08 11:39 PM
oh I had to erase what I was going to say........what was the question again???laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Wed 08/13/08 11:47 PM
I'm such an A-Hole.laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Thu 08/14/08 07:46 AM

Do you ever think that maybe you didnt think you "deserved" a nice guy thus shredding all the nice ones and going for the ones who would treat you bad????huh

Somewhat like the fear of success......Ive thought this out for a long time.....


yeah it comes down to personal standards

which leads to another question

why men and women become hostile and arrogant when attempting to come together

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Thu 08/14/08 08:20 AM


Do you ever think that maybe you didnt think you "deserved" a nice guy thus shredding all the nice ones and going for the ones who would treat you bad????huh

Somewhat like the fear of success......Ive thought this out for a long time.....


yeah it comes down to personal standards

which leads to another question

why men and women become hostile and arrogant when attempting to come together
because even though we like their differences....in the back of our minds we wish they were more like us!!!laugh noway laugh

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Thu 08/14/08 02:54 PM
Edited by ak0 on Thu 08/14/08 02:56 PM



Do you ever think that maybe you didnt think you "deserved" a nice guy thus shredding all the nice ones and going for the ones who would treat you bad????huh

Somewhat like the fear of success......Ive thought this out for a long time.....


yeah it comes down to personal standards

which leads to another question

why men and women become hostile and arrogant when attempting to come together
because even though we like their differences....in the back of our minds we wish they were more like us!!!laugh noway laugh


lol. right! and it just isn't so for the most part.

maybe we should just focus on what we actually need from each other and cut the rest of the crap.. which could range from person to person

which leads back to the topic of roles which i and others have posted on on several occasions and it was a hot topic with everyone trying to be man-woman combos and we don't need each other and on and on it goes. which leads me to believe traditional roles have their place in a balanced life and are meant to be part of the ecosystemsmokin

now all the women will come along to slug me out and prove how much better they are at being men than me.. and the men will find new and improved methods to ensnare me in their traps. yaps.


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Thu 08/14/08 03:09 PM


So what ARE you attempting to come to grips with here? spock


the things i've posted about in the last year

death

suicide

eating

fcking

sexes and roles

incest

abuse

family

cooking

religion

God

sex dating relationships and rage

rock n roll

coochie coo

connection

coping

the maps

ownership

i'm not sure grip is my word. my work is technical.


This are things that hapen in life. Well, life happens. the question is. Are you learing anything from it?

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Thu 08/14/08 04:06 PM



So what ARE you attempting to come to grips with here? spock


the things i've posted about in the last year

death

suicide

eating

fcking

sexes and roles

incest

abuse

family

cooking

religion

God

sex dating relationships and rage

rock n roll

coochie coo

connection

coping

the maps

ownership

i'm not sure grip is my word. my work is technical.


This are things that hapen in life. Well, life happens. the question is. Are you learing anything from it?


learning. yes. thank you for the reply shadow :)

there has just been so much to process i guess