Okay, I've friends who are gay, who are bi, who are straight. I myself am pretty straight, as far as that goes. Just not completely vanilla in my fun and games.

But when I'm online, I keep getting into conversations with men who somehow assume I'm bi and would be interested in 'group' things.

Okay, I'm kinda quirky and a bit off the wall. But I don't know where they keep getting this idea about me.

Or do a lot of men think that women who are a bit on the kinky side are just automatically bi or like group sex? Personally, I don't like to share.

You don't....... its just a fantasy most guys have.........

I think a lot of men have that "fantasy" and wished us women were bi. Perhaps it's something you are mentioning in your conversations? dunno ::shrug::

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No, I don't bring anything up. It never fails. Chat with a guy for a day or two, suddenly, he wants to know if I'm into girls and so on and so on. When nothing we have talked about before has been of a sexual nature. They just seem to jump into that discussion out of the blue.

my daughter is in a gay relationship, and she not even gay its just the way her partner acts and treats her. but i did question it before as she had a friend that would hang around alot that is gay, but i never did tell her what i was thinking untill resontly when she told me about this new person.. its my daughter choice and i feel she just going through changes which she is...

i also have friends that are gay including cousins but i was never ask if i was, for im not

i had one guy ask me if i was, and the reason was his wife was and he divorced her..

When I look at you I only think of the two of us in the moonlight of a secluded beach. Myself, looking into those pretty eyes before softly kiss your lips.

Just you and I Sweetheart.

scientists say that 80% of women are bi-curious

hmm..then I'd ask them why are they asking you such a question?

ack! no way

It isn't even that I protest because I'm repressing anything. A few friends are the touchy feely type, and I've had the impression that one or two wished I was bi. But it doesn't really do anything for me. So I'm just not interested.

Which is why it's so weird that I keep getting asked this.

Although, I sometimes wonder if it is a case where the guy is actually hoping I have a friend I like to 'play' with for an occasional threesome. Or that I'm open to the swinging lifestyle and if I go both ways, then I'm probably okay with things.

But that is terribly presumptious after one or two conversations. I don't even know if I want to meet the person yet, let alone think about a relationship or sex with the person.

Well the girl on girl action is a fantasy of almost every guy..really.
I like the guys that dont't mind having another man getting kinky in the same room..I am not into the chicks idea....but two dudes w/ me umm that would be pretty hot.

I would ask them if they were honestly interested in getting to know YOU personally or your sexual preferences? Then I think they'd be gone "poof"

It could be they are married and fishing for women interesting in a threesome. Always assume the worst. Most men are jerks.
I'd be asking : "Who is this third woman?"

maybe you have that bi look......

I won't ask.

~~~correction!!!~~~~~

not all guys want a threesomes
my ex is an ex because of this!!!!

if the pressure for performance isnt bad enough.....the last thing I want is someone else there sayin "Your not doing it right .....let me show you"




Arrrggg!!!!

Some PEOPLE are bi curious. Some chose not to act on it. Just like some PEOPLE at one time or another have fantasized of killing someone. They just don't act on it. It's not just a girl thing. It's just more acceptable for a guy to fantasize about two women than to fantasize about two men.