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Topic: Tolerance
lil_bit Joined Fri 01/25/08 Posts: 1685	Mon 08/25/08 06:47 PM
If someone that you are involved with has asked you to wait, and you knew the complications...could you? Would you?

JoLynn Joined Sun 10/07/07 Posts: 516	Mon 08/25/08 06:49 PM
depends...what are you waiting for? what would the complications be?

taboo365 Joined Thu 08/23/07 Posts: 2999	Mon 08/25/08 06:49 PM
wait for what?

somewhatshy2 Joined Sat 03/29/08 Posts: 1758	Mon 08/25/08 06:50 PM
I would

lil_bit Joined Fri 01/25/08 Posts: 1685	Mon 08/25/08 06:51 PM
Wait for the availability of that person....

taboo365 Joined Thu 08/23/07 Posts: 2999	Mon 08/25/08 06:52 PM
NO

JoLynn Joined Sun 10/07/07 Posts: 516	Mon 08/25/08 06:53 PM
oh...no, I don't think I could wait. not if you mean availability as in, they are involved with someone else relationship wise right now.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Mon 08/25/08 06:56 PM
What is their reason for wanting me to wait?

LouLou2 Joined Sun 04/13/08 Posts: 1685	Mon 08/25/08 06:56 PM
No...wouldn't be involved with someone I had to 'wait' for...

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Mon 08/25/08 06:59 PM
Oh, I see. Wait because they are with someone else. No, absolutely not. Wouldn't have gotten involved with them in the first place so it wouldn't be an issue.

heartSoul Joined Sun 08/26/07 Posts: 6038	Mon 08/25/08 08:29 PM
If someone that you are involved with has asked you to wait, and you knew the complications...could you? Would you? Life is TOO short to put it on hold for anyone or anything!

FreeToB Joined Wed 07/02/08 Posts: 1332	Mon 08/25/08 09:41 PM
i've never left one for another or been the catcher of a woman on the trailing edge of a bad relationship. I ain't waiting for anyone because I wouldnt be involved with them to begin with. And yes, I AM a man. lol

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Mon 08/25/08 09:45 PM
No way. But I don't persue married women who ask me to wait.

Socratease Joined Wed 07/30/08 Posts: 417	Mon 08/25/08 09:50 PM
If your involved with someone unavalaible,and your waiting for them to be available to you who is avaialble so u both can be unavailable, than dont that make the situation itself unavaliable?Because after your both unavailable to others wont u worry that she will find herself available to another available,leaving u once again available?..confusing right,so run away

littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Mon 08/25/08 09:52 PM
Oh, I see. Wait because they are with someone else. No, absolutely not. Wouldn't have gotten involved with them in the first place so it wouldn't be an issue. Exactly.

JustAGuy2112 Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 18033	Mon 08/25/08 09:53 PM
If your involved with someone unavalaible,and your waiting for them to be available to you who is avaialble so u both can be unavailable, than dont that make the situation itself unavaliable?Because after your both unavailable to others wont u worry that she will find herself available to another available,leaving u once again available?..confusing right,so run away Wow....I must be REALLY fuc*ed up cuz I actually UNDERSTOOD that...lmao

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Mon 08/25/08 09:53 PM Edited by No1sLove on Mon 08/25/08 09:55 PM
Absolutely! I would wait as long as it took to be with the right person. That is only if the complications were something other than a relationship. I would not have gotten far talking to them if that were the case.

littleredhen Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6837	Mon 08/25/08 10:06 PM
If your involved with someone unavalaible,and your waiting for them to be available to you who is avaialble so u both can be unavailable, than dont that make the situation itself unavaliable?Because after your both unavailable to others wont u worry that she will find herself available to another available,leaving u once again available?..confusing right,so run away Wow....I must be REALLY fuc*ed up cuz I actually UNDERSTOOD that...lmao

Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Mon 08/25/08 10:10 PM
I'm out like the fat kid in dodge ball,

Redshirt Joined Tue 02/26/08 Posts: 2109	Mon 08/25/08 11:30 PM
Life is not black and white. It would depend on the reason/why for the waiting, how open and honest both parties were, and the quality of the communication. If the later is one sided it would be difficult to wait. One could feel as though they were being played. JMO.