My last ex dumped me via Yahoo IM...lol

My infamous email was thru myspace..."its not you its me."....how much cornier can you really get ya know ??

Funny how those emails and IM's seem to lack creativity..

This begins in 1980.I was at this party with my girlfriend. Things seemed a little strange between the two of us. Usually when we first saw each other we would hug and kiss each other.

This night we both came to the party driving our own cars. We were suppossed to meet at the party.

Well anyway, as the party progresses, things keep getting weirder and weirder. Have you ever had that feeling that something just isn`t right.

She didn`t want to sit by me, turn her face away from me when I tried to kiss her. I finally asked her if something was wrong. She said that we needed to talk.

We go out to my van and she starts to talk. She tells me that she doesn`t want to see me anymore. She cares a lot about me, but she doesn`t want to see me anymore. I ask why? Things were going great for us before this night.

She was going through a divorice, I was her shoulder to lean on. She told me that she never meant for our relationship to go where it did. She only wanted to be friends not lovers.Thats when she tells me that she doesn`t want to see me no more. We were together for almost 8 months.

It hurt like hell. Yes ladies some men do have feelings. We are all not "Macho Men". She didn`t want to see me anymore, but for the next 4 months she would call me on the phone wanting to see how I was doing. This lady was the first woman that I was truly in Love with. I felt in this relationship like I had never felt before.

I never got over this girl for almost a year. Didn`t date, wasn`t sure I wanted to get into another relationship.The whole nine yards.

How I got over this hurt in my life, I was introduced to the lady that I married 2 years after we first started dating.Nancy and I started dating in the summer of 1981. We were married on July 8th,1983. We had a wonderful 24 married years together. We were together for 26 years.
My wife passed away on Jan. 29th 2007. Will I ever get over this hurt in my life? Eventually. I know that my wife would have wanted me to start my life over again.

I have met a very great and fantastic lady on this program. We live 120 miles apart. Deb is a very dear friend of mine. I`m so thankful that she is in my life. Thank you Deb.

i got dumped after being stood up a total of three times at various dates by a rather dim-witted, flaky, and all-together inconsiderate shrew of a woman. the flaky wench would go to great pains to set up a date, only to totally flake out, then want to reschedule dates and times for a date, and then just flat-out NOT show up or even call to cancel come that other date.

the wench ended up sending me a dating site mail (NOT mingle2... another site) and gave me this long, drawn-out, and thoroughly unintelligible diatribe about how she just wasn't interested in me from the start and how she played along with me to not hurt my feelings. it was almost like she thought she was doing me a favor by jerking me around the way she did.

then one of her friends called me a "terrorist" (a rather nervy dig on my line of work- i work as a special effects pyrotechnician for the film business) in the site's forum, which admittedly got me a little steamed. this resulted in my chewing out both the flaky wench and the buffoon who insulted not only me, but my profession that i work quite hard to accomplish.

so- needless to say- i don't do second-chances when i get stood up at a date anymore. you screw up, and that's it- you're done. no if's and's or but's.

phone conversation and i quote " i dont want anything to do with you anymore...nothing..." hang up

no more than 7 hours later

" i hope you are happy you got what you want...i smoked so much crack i aborted our child."

end of transmission.

You too?

That's bad. It totally sucks.

I got knifed that way. Like being an arm chopped off by a sudden axe blow.

WHAM!

16 years of marriage...26 years of living together total. We grew apart & both made our own choices and were affected seperately by life...a seperate life for him...me being 'Cinderella', never attending the ball, but keeping the home fires burning...mountain climbing & hiking trips for him...me caring for my aged mother...another woman for him...a major health crisis for me...10 months of weighing options for him...10 months of lies and deception for the other woman & I. Me regaining my health...him enjoying his cake with abandon...me realizing my own options...him wanting me to do the dirty work of ending the marriage...me deciding to live for me again!

It sure was ugly, but I love a happy ending, don't you?

A lot of crying and hurt. I got over it in time and have now met a wonderful man after years of being alone

The relationship really started when she gave me a piece of paper with her number on it and telling me to call her that weekend if I wanted to do something. We went out for about a month. We had fun on the dates, or so I thought.

Then I find out that she told her friends that I'd stolen her number out of her phone, and I was stalking her. I called her when I was supposed to pick her up for our dates. I texted her like twice (I'd just got a cell phone for the first time and was playing with it), and the only time I followed her home was when she told me to so I would know where to pick her up.

I still work with her. (yeah I know don't date at work)

I love to tell this story, well now anyway, then it sucked.

I had been seeing this lady for about 16 months, we met at work originally, but she took a different job shortly after meeting me. Now the two of us hit it off immediately, and did everything together after that. I really loved her. Now she had started dropping hints about "needing a bigger commitment," and I will admit, I had been dragging my feet a little. But something was about to make a change in the way I looked at it.

Our offices' sent us in different directions. I got sent west to spend a week in Steamboat Springs, CO. I called her every night because I missed her something awful. About halfway through the week, she told me she wasn't going to be home when I got back, she was leaving the Sunday I was coming home to go to Vegas for a convention that her medical supply company was sending her on. Well, after about 12 days without her, I decided I didn't want to have to do that anymore. I went ring shopping (a rather nice one at that).

I remember her calling me the morning she was coming home. She told me her Dad wanted to pick her up at the airport, but she really wanted to see me when she got in. Well, that afternoon, she called. "I'm home now, you've got to come over here, I've got big news," was they way she told me she'd made it back to her apartment. I of course responded with "I've got something I want to discuss with you."

Well, I head over there, ring in my pocket, to meet the woman I loved and ask her to marry me. She greets me at the door with the same big hug and kiss I always got, and just immediately started talking about her trip. She gave me the highlights about how she was thrilled to be selected to go (remember we hadn't spoken in person since she found out she got to go), and how she got to go test out some of the equipment. Then she hit me with "Oh God, you'll never guess what happened while I was out there." I of course didn't know, then she hit me with it...

"I met a guitar player and look (shows me her hand) we got married!!!"

She hit me with that like I should have been happy for her. My heart was crushed like a used up pop can. Destroyed like a shattering vase really, but I plastered on a fake smile with fake excitement and let her tell me all about it. When she finished, she did ask "so what did you want to discuss?" I lied, told her that I was going to tell her that I couldn't spend the afternoon with her because I needed to come into work for an assignment that they gave me, told her we'd chatted so long, I was going to be late.

I left her house, went straight to Juanitas, a good bar/restuarant. Got there a little after three in the afternoon, they kicked me out when they closed. I think that's about the harshest way I've ever been dumped.

Totally agree with that attitude.
That is valuing yourself and your time.

Oboy... that was ugly...

Run.... she is psycho.
Count your blessing that you got away intack

OMG I knew there are still of you good ones left out there that's why i refuse to give up on love no matter what jerks i keeping dating

I totally agree i was basically treated like that too but dont give up b\c of her
i got dumped after being stood up a total of three times at various dates by a rather dim-witted, flaky, and all-together inconsiderate shrew of a woman. the flaky wench would go to great pains to set up a date, only to totally flake out, then want to reschedule dates and times for a date, and then just flat-out NOT show up or even call to cancel come that other date.

the wench ended up sending me a dating site mail (NOT mingle2... another site) and gave me this long, drawn-out, and thoroughly unintelligible diatribe about how she just wasn't interested in me from the start and how she played along with me to not hurt my feelings. it was almost like she thought she was doing me a favor by jerking me around the way she did.

then one of her friends called me a "terrorist" (a rather nervy dig on my line of work- i work as a special effects pyrotechnician for the film business) in the site's forum, which admittedly got me a little steamed. this resulted in my chewing out both the flaky wench and the buffoon who insulted not only me, but my profession that i work quite hard to accomplish.

so- needless to say- i don't do second-chances when i get stood up at a date anymore. you screw up, and that's it- you're done. no if's and's or but's.

they say the best way to get over someone is to get under someone new

The worst way..... I suppose it was in an e-mail titled "yo". In that, I found out the time he'd asked for to care for his very ill dad in a city about an hour away.... that time was spent getting reacquainted with his ex.

That was awesome.

that is what i am trying to do!!