Previous 1 3 4
Topic: Are All Guys Jerks
LIlithsfury's photo
Wed 09/10/08 05:43 PM
Ok. So I've been talking to this guy for the last 4 days or so. I met him on this website. We had so much in common, talked for hours on the phone, and he had even said he wanted to come visit me from WA. I live in FL. Everything is going good. We even talked about if it would be ok for the both of us to do a long distance dating relationship for now and see how things go. Then today, I get an email, not a phone call, but an email telling me that he has too much going on in his personal life right now, and has no time for me, and that he would love to pursue more, but can't. UM OK......You didn't have all this stuff going on in your life 4 days ago? I felt totally blown off. I know not all guys are like this, but enough with the head games already. I guess I just attract the jerks.

Riding_Dubz's photo
Wed 09/10/08 05:44 PM
welcome to single, and ready to mingle,

flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

bergeia's photo
Wed 09/10/08 05:44 PM
dont sweat it. only most of us are assholes. bear with it and dont settle for a jerk, find a good man.

no photo
Wed 09/10/08 05:44 PM
It's not your fault!! Not all guys are like that and you don't only attract jerks. With fresh air comes dust and mites.

alicat4213's photo
Wed 09/10/08 05:47 PM
Not all men just 99.9% of them....

trying_to_fly's photo
Wed 09/10/08 05:48 PM
Well, I put up with the same stuff from girls so...I know how you feel....I get blown off too....:cry:

Mayhem_J's photo
Wed 09/10/08 05:50 PM
Hell yeah...I'm 100% jerk. And the ladies love it. I have the women throwing themselves at me so much i got beat off with a stick!!

Ok....so maybe that was me being sarcastic.

galendgirl's photo
Wed 09/10/08 05:50 PM

welcome to single, and ready to mingle,



Figuring out the "rules" to the game is hard! It's different with everyone and who really knows what ends up turning someone off or scaring them away. Sooner or later, you are bound to meet the right guy!:smile:

Curbsid3Proph3t's photo
Wed 09/10/08 05:50 PM
You're not the only one who attracts jerks. Don't worry though, you'll find someone even better than that guy!

SkaryKoolAide's photo
Wed 09/10/08 05:51 PM
<<<not a jerk...no seriously

Soulful's photo
Wed 09/10/08 05:52 PM
Maybe, Try not to go for looks every time

Mrtap's photo
Wed 09/10/08 05:53 PM
sorry flowerforyou flowerforyou

trying_to_fly's photo
Wed 09/10/08 05:53 PM
I'm really sorry that happened to you too....no one cares about peoples feelings anymore....just themself and it's way too bad!! I love ALL the people on here and off!!! You'll be fine.. Keep your chin up hun....you'll find someone who'll make you smile again....it'll be okay...I'll pray for you....flowers flowers

ahuhalicious's photo
Wed 09/10/08 05:54 PM
not all of us are, us good guys are looking for a good woman also we just have to be patient :)

shoesmonkey's photo
Wed 09/10/08 05:57 PM

not all of us are, us good guys are looking for a good woman also we just have to be patient :)
You look like a fine pick to me.

Socratease's photo
Wed 09/10/08 05:57 PM
Not all,but he certainly was..i cant know all the details of you guys,but sounds like he was just carrying u along till he found perhaps another or his wife found out hehe.Nothing ends so abruptly without a reason, just like in 4 days u cant reason him too be a good guy wanting too move to you.Stay with it,if nice honest people were easy to find, dating sites wouldnt be filled to the brim...

no photo
Wed 09/10/08 05:58 PM
Well I'm happy if someone even answers my email. :smile:

Sorry things didn't work out, but then again it may have saved you serious pain in the long run. flowerforyou

Justuw8nsee's photo
Wed 09/10/08 05:59 PM
So was his name Ryan? lol!

Riding_Dubz's photo
Wed 09/10/08 06:00 PM

So was his name Ryan? lol!



i think i know your x im calling him right now,telling him your on here,


laugh laugh laugh laugh :wink: flowerforyou



baggles's photo
Wed 09/10/08 06:01 PM
lillith, I think most of the men on here are already fixed up, or just playing games and are still in the playground stage and just haven't grown up yet, don't really know how to play with the BIG GIRLS, because only a man could do that lol...just remember your not the one with the problem....

Previous 1 3 4