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Topic: How many?
BobbyJ's photo
Tue 09/16/08 11:33 AM
Okay, I'm dating three women at the same time right now. I think I've tied the most I've dated at any one time for any given point in my life. The hardest thing is to keep the names straight and what we've talked about in sync. I try to keep the same topics of conversation as much the same to each as I can. I also avoid calling them by their name to avoid any slip-ups.

Anyone shuffle dates like this? Gotta say, it's not only a challenge, but a blast!

Jill298's photo
Tue 09/16/08 11:34 AM
my first question before I offer any advice... do any of these 3 women think that you are dating her exclusivly?

star1972's photo
Tue 09/16/08 11:35 AM

Okay, I'm dating three women at the same time right now. I think I've tied the most I've dated at any one time for any given point in my life. The hardest thing is to keep the names straight and what we've talked about in sync. I try to keep the same topics of conversation as much the same to each as I can. I also avoid calling them by their name to avoid any slip-ups.

Anyone shuffle dates like this? Gotta say, it's not only a challenge, but a blast!



On-line dating??
Or face to face??
Ur a tart lol

itsmetina's photo
Tue 09/16/08 11:36 AM

my first question before I offer any advice... do any of these 3 women think that you are dating her exclusivly?
yep was wondering.I could never date 3 people

jnbuglady's photo
Tue 09/16/08 11:36 AM

Okay, I'm dating three women at the same time right now. I think I've tied the most I've dated at any one time for any given point in my life. The hardest thing is to keep the names straight and what we've talked about in sync. I try to keep the same topics of conversation as much the same to each as I can. I also avoid calling them by their name to avoid any slip-ups.

Anyone shuffle dates like this? Gotta say, it's not only a challenge, but a blast!
Do you mean physically dating, or internet dating?

papersmile's photo
Tue 09/16/08 11:37 AM
call them all 'babe'

and don't talk; either just listen and nod your head, or get them into bed where you don't have to say much

MyrtleBeachDude's photo
Tue 09/16/08 11:37 AM

Okay, I'm dating three women at the same time right now. I think I've tied the most I've dated at any one time for any given point in my life. The hardest thing is to keep the names straight and what we've talked about in sync. I try to keep the same topics of conversation as much the same to each as I can. I also avoid calling them by their name to avoid any slip-ups.

Anyone shuffle dates like this? Gotta say, it's not only a challenge, but a blast!


One is a pinky finger, one is the middle finger one is the ring finger Hell you got room for 2 more dates before you have to switch hands

BobbyJ's photo
Tue 09/16/08 11:37 AM

my first question before I offer any advice... do any of these 3 women think that you are dating her exclusivly?


Each thinks they have me exclusively. Hey, it's dating, right? Why should I waste a lot of my time being with just one when I can so easily increase the odds of finding the "right" one?! Gotta watch those caller id's! LOL!

itsmetina's photo
Tue 09/16/08 11:38 AM
trying to keep the same topics of conversation ?slaphead

BobbyJ's photo
Tue 09/16/08 11:39 AM


Okay, I'm dating three women at the same time right now. I think I've tied the most I've dated at any one time for any given point in my life. The hardest thing is to keep the names straight and what we've talked about in sync. I try to keep the same topics of conversation as much the same to each as I can. I also avoid calling them by their name to avoid any slip-ups.

Anyone shuffle dates like this? Gotta say, it's not only a challenge, but a blast!
Do you mean physically dating, or internet dating?


These are all in-person dates. Some of the in-persons I do meet from online.

itsmetina's photo
Tue 09/16/08 11:39 AM


my first question before I offer any advice... do any of these 3 women think that you are dating her exclusivly?


Each thinks they have me exclusively. Hey, it's dating, right? Why should I waste a lot of my time being with just one when I can so easily increase the odds of finding the "right" one?! Gotta watch those caller id's! LOL!
thats sad you can't be honest

Jill298's photo
Tue 09/16/08 11:39 AM
Edited by Jill298 on Tue 09/16/08 11:40 AM


my first question before I offer any advice... do any of these 3 women think that you are dating her exclusivly?


Each thinks they have me exclusively. Hey, it's dating, right? Why should I waste a lot of my time being with just one when I can so easily increase the odds of finding the "right" one?! Gotta watch those caller id's! LOL!
. Dating is not supposed to be about lying to get as much as you can.

itsmetina's photo
Tue 09/16/08 11:40 AM
If I was one of those women I'd feel like a fool

papersmile's photo
Tue 09/16/08 11:41 AM
you guys/gals actually believe him ?


Jill298's photo
Tue 09/16/08 11:42 AM
While you're out there trying to "increase your odds" once they find out... and they will find out... You'll be left with nothing.

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Tue 09/16/08 11:42 AM
Dude, this is kinda effed up. (JMO)devil

Jill298's photo
Tue 09/16/08 11:42 AM

you guys/gals actually believe him in that he has three women dating him?


plk1966's photo
Tue 09/16/08 11:43 AM

you guys/gals actually believe him in that he could find three women who'd want to date him?



:laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

itsmetina's photo
Tue 09/16/08 11:44 AM
it's one thing if you are honest to the women but lying to them is just not right

BobbyJ's photo
Tue 09/16/08 11:44 AM

trying to keep the same topics of conversation ?slaphead


Yes, I do try to guide the topics as best I can. For instance, talking about each other's families to all three as close to in sync as I can. A really hard part is if they tell me their kids names. Yikes, try to keep those straight, especially if they have a few! And yes, I do keep notes in my pocket that I read when they call or before we go out! LOL!

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