too much estrogen in here

You like it.

Nooooooo, you have to stay. We need your input!

Hey Ruth, it's Sunday. Let's tackle em!!!!!

I'll go left. You go right.

well you ladies pretty much covered what i would of said anyway so i dont want to seem repetitive,so i dont want to seem repetitive

well one is 30 another 32, another 38 ... just a random sampling ..

Thank youuuuuuuuu! Now I know where to look.

I fully understand what you're saying baby! As far as finding a TRUE relationship, the pickns are slim. It's easier to meet ms rightna, than a lady interested with any substance!!! Wish you well for what you seek lady.

I'm completely comfortable being single!!

I am not getting older just a whole hell of a lot better.........Age has nothing to do with it...it's the frame of mind and how you feel about you that matters.

Thank you! 48 and single 17 years and I've just gotten better, IMHO

...of course, Murphy's Law could strike at any time and you know what happens when you aren't looking...

Men wanting Sex isnt going to change with Age. They may want it less at times, but they are going to want it. The Men that i know in their 40's, or ones that are out of marrages and long relationships, are very afraid to invest again. Most of the time Woman classify them as being Bitter. Some are, but some have too work so hard to get back on their feet, and learn who, and what they want out of life, it makes them very cautious. It doesnt help that their are more Woman now a days that are willing too have Sex without a commitment. It takes time for some Men too get over the Fear, but many are still using the saying,Why buy the Cow, when your getting the Milk for Free But please trust that their are pleanty of Men that are looking for that Special Someone

Nicely put Brian. Excepting in my case, my ex made out like a bandit. He's a disabled Vet, ended up being bumped from 60% to 100% AFTER the divorce was final. Also reaped SSI. Can't work anymore due to PTSD (lucky ducky)

I go to work every day, raised all 4 of 5 kids alone, while he was checked out on pot and the emotional dysfunction.

He was able to buy a house out in the middle of nowhere for zilch, while I had to live in one of the higher middle class neighborhoods so I could keep my kids in the schools they needed to be in.

Needless to say, I lease. He owns.

He didn't lose anything but respect for a long time from the children. He has since pulled it together.

So ya .. the guy doesn't always pay the biggest price for divorce babe.

Oh did I mention he's remarried? LMFAO. Altho I don't envy the woman. She is sweet but they are both "older thinking" and I live on the young edge.

Ya .. in the end I guess I'm STILL the winner.

I think you kind of just explained how you dodged a Bullet. Nice story though