just when things start to fall in place, someone from the past comes back into your life that you once had feelings for and actually loved and tells you that he is still in love with you and has missed you. just wasnt a good time in his life to tell you cause of his job. now he is afraid he will loose you again he tells you how he feels..... what would you do if you might have feelings for another man??? i will take any suggestions you have.

do you have feelings for another?

you can only love one person look in your heart go with what you feel

i think there is something there

go with your gut instinct

Then be honest with the guy from the past. He can't honestly think you've been sitting around pining after him when you have a life to live.

Ask him to give you some time.

Thank you all for the advice!!!

it`s a test,...

Yep, you need a serious pow-wow with him. If he can't do THAT then, he's full of bs you don't need to hear. Are you doing well? Does he know that? Maybe he's not and, you need to Run, Forest, Run!

Um....did this renewed interest in you suddenly occur since you got online here and were able to meet somebody new?

let your answers be yes or no, thinking that you may have a feeling is just an escape route. good luck.

Emotional Vampires that come around for another drink of your heart should be avoided like the plague wheather this new person interests you or not. This creep was so selfish to put you through the wringer once WHY would you give him another shot. Your life is moving forward and you have so much to offer a quality person don't start walking backwards now young lady. Please you have to not only think of yourself but those darling babys that will suffer if you hurt; self inflicted or not.

if he hurt you once,..chances are he`ll hurt you again,..

ok well let me be completly honest with you then, this guy that i said i might have feeling for, well the truth is i am head over heels in love with him. we just havent used the L word yet lol, he is a great person on the inside and out. we have been talking for about 4 months and he has drove 4 hours on his motorcycle just to come see me 2 times. the other guy dont even compare to him.

well,..there`s your answer,.then,.

for you !