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Topic: question to the females.......
awolf1010's photo
Wed 10/15/08 03:49 PM
You screwed up!!!!
the only way to get back across a river once the bridge has been burned, is to build a new bridge!!!

unfortunatly.....that doesnt mean she will be waiting on the other side!!!!

you really need to look at yourself though...as great as you think you were to her......
you are as much to blame as her......you were chasin the dollar,causing your own stress!!!
when you could have been building on your relationship!!! JMO!

Lily0923's photo
Wed 10/15/08 03:49 PM


Everyone has problems. And everyone can overreact.

I think you are looking for enough women to say they would take the man back....in hopes that the law of averages will dictate that your woman will take you back.

Let me make this very simple:

IF YOU LOVE HER...DO WHATEVER YOU HAVE TO DO TO WIN HER BACK. GET DOWN ON ONE KNEE....STAND OUTSIDE HER WINDOW PLAYING "YOUR" SONG...WHATEVER. YOU GOTTA ASK YOURSELF: HOW BAD DO I WANT HER BACK.

Just be careful not to cross that razor-thin line between the grand gesture and stalking.


i have treid that...but she says she needs space and time...to think things thru...but keeps tellin me she loves me...then other day send sme an emailsayin how she was out of cigs...kids didnt have this or that...knowing i love all of them and sent her $$$


Well then she ain't as dumb as you seem to want to portray her as sugar...Sounds like she's pretty f'n smart to me.....

She gets cash and doesn't have to see you in the process...win/win.

jayboy07's photo
Wed 10/15/08 03:50 PM



Everyone has problems. And everyone can overreact.

I think you are looking for enough women to say they would take the man back....in hopes that the law of averages will dictate that your woman will take you back.

Let me make this very simple:

IF YOU LOVE HER...DO WHATEVER YOU HAVE TO DO TO WIN HER BACK. GET DOWN ON ONE KNEE....STAND OUTSIDE HER WINDOW PLAYING "YOUR" SONG...WHATEVER. YOU GOTTA ASK YOURSELF: HOW BAD DO I WANT HER BACK.

Just be careful not to cross that razor-thin line between the grand gesture and stalking.


i have treid that...but she says she needs space and time...to think things thru...but keeps tellin me she loves me...then other day send sme an emailsayin how she was out of cigs...kids didnt have this or that...knowing i love all of them and sent her $$$


Well then she ain't as dumb as you seem to want to portray her as sugar...Sounds like she's pretty f'n smart to me.....

She gets cash and doesn't have to see you in the process...win/win.


lol...typical....thanks....

itsmetina's photo
Wed 10/15/08 03:50 PM
move on get a divorce

Riding_Dubz's photo
Wed 10/15/08 03:51 PM

the only way to get back across a river once the bridge has been burned, is to build a new bridge!!!

unfortunatly.....that doesnt mean she will be waiting on the other side!!!!



that's pretty good, imma have keep that in ma back pocket for future refrence,


drinker drinks


SimplyElla's photo
Wed 10/15/08 03:51 PM

i have treid that...but she says she needs space and time...to think things thru...but keeps tellin me she loves me...then other day send sme an emailsayin how she was out of cigs...kids didnt have this or that...knowing i love all of them and sent her $$$


well duh if you are going to fold and hand over money so easily to her anytime she itches and complains then hell why would she want to change anything... she had her life set you took care of everything financially... she doesnt want things to be different now...

er and hello... who cares if she is out of smokes... if money is tight go with out smoking or cut back... hello duhh...

Lily0923's photo
Wed 10/15/08 03:51 PM


All this whining over a woman that you probably didn't even know...move on with your life brodrinker drinker drinker


maybe ur right....but u know....i do love her...and still do...just going thru some things....tryin to get it all out now...


Yep, his name is Steve, or Bob, or Mark, and you're still footing the bill....

Riding_Dubz's photo
Wed 10/15/08 03:51 PM

move on get a divorce



does this mean where over,


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jayboy07's photo
Wed 10/15/08 03:53 PM



All this whining over a woman that you probably didn't even know...move on with your life brodrinker drinker drinker


maybe ur right....but u know....i do love her...and still do...just going thru some things....tryin to get it all out now...


Yep, his name is Steve, or Bob, or Mark, and you're still footing the bill....


u might be right....but then if ur are wrong....look, i love her and her kids...i cannot sit back and know they are doing without...it is my wife...and i do love her

itsmetina's photo
Wed 10/15/08 03:53 PM


move on get a divorce



does this mean where over,


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jayboy07's photo
Wed 10/15/08 03:54 PM



move on get a divorce



does this mean where over,


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i guess so...im sorry for the bashi ealrier...just was lookin for some conversation about all this.....

SimplyElla's photo
Wed 10/15/08 03:55 PM
shocked shocked How did you think she would be doing once you told her to pack up and go to her parents with her two grown butt kids and her with no job or education?????shocked shocked

Voluptuous's photo
Wed 10/15/08 03:55 PM
I don't think you should be expected to pull all of the weight.
She needs to GROW up and be a WOMAN!
I don't think you know it but maybe she married you for the money. This is a woman that lives with her momma...She thought she could continue staying at home.
Your request wasn't unreasonable...
Work...the FAMILY needed the help.

jayboy07's photo
Wed 10/15/08 03:56 PM

shocked shocked How did you think she would be doing once you told her to pack up and go to her parents with her two grown butt kids and her with no job or education?????shocked shocked


i figured she had her mom to help her out, and i told her i would also help out if she needed...

Lily0923's photo
Wed 10/15/08 03:56 PM

shocked shocked How did you think she would be doing once you told her to pack up and go to her parents with her two grown butt kids and her with no job or education?????shocked shocked


hmmmmm wonderful to ponder isn't it Ella?

Now he wants her back...hmmmmmmm I wonder why?

jayboy07's photo
Wed 10/15/08 03:57 PM

I don't think you should be expected to pull all of the weight.
She needs to GROW up and be a WOMAN!
I don't think you know it but maybe she married you for the money. This is a woman that lives with her momma...She thought she could continue staying at home.
Your request wasn't unreasonable...
Work...the FAMILY needed the help.



thank you...finally osme sence...if i need help and ask...why couldnt she just help me...??

Riding_Dubz's photo
Wed 10/15/08 03:57 PM
Anyone wanna get a game of chess going,:wink:



what what what what what


SimplyElla's photo
Wed 10/15/08 03:58 PM


shocked shocked How did you think she would be doing once you told her to pack up and go to her parents with her two grown butt kids and her with no job or education?????shocked shocked


i figured she had her mom to help her out, and i told her i would also help out if she needed...


You really think her mom would just drop all and start supporting her grown daughter with two kids?!?!

Her moms time has past with that sort of crap.. ha ha...

Plus mom wont be helping her out like the way she is used to be cared for by you...

listen huh... she needs to just get her act together and learn to support her self and her children... she got away with way too much as it is...

itsmetina's photo
Wed 10/15/08 03:58 PM
I think if you love someone you don't talk about breaking up or tell the other person to walk out the door

Voluptuous's photo
Wed 10/15/08 03:58 PM
...You better hope she isn't dragging this sh!t out as long as possible to get more money!

...You send her money for cigs?!?!?!surprised
I'm sorry...sounds like your being SUCKERED!

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