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hello there i am in a bit of a pickle and i need a little advice. i meet someone and i like her but she fell in love with me in like a couple of weeks and i asked her when her last relationship was to see if i hit a rebounder or not but she told me it had been like three years.
should i tell her to slow down or cut bait and fish in a new spot. ps. i like so i don't want to hurt her either |
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your use of metaphors is astounding
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are you saying she smells funny?
dude, follow your gutt instinct. |
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Slow it down.
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Well anyone that falls in love in two weeks I would be asking if they were sure it was love and not lust.
All you can do is go at the pace you are most comfortable with. I also believe in hurting someone quickly than dragging it out and hurting them more later. |
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a couple weeks is not enough time to know if you are in love with someone.They don't even know you yet.
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Ok so you like her or so you say and you don't want to hurt her- if you really like her just be honest with her- tell her that you like her but you aren't in love with her and see where it goes. not everyone falls in love at the same time- if you really care about her just see what happens
don't go fishing anywhere else- that would just be immature to do that without talking to her first. |
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 Ask of her what you asked of us Communicate
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Wow, 2 weeks is not enough time to fall in "love" with someone. It seems to me that maybe she has some issues. I would definatly put the brakes on. I'd would also hide your pet rabbit if you decide to break it off!!
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Not everyone falls in love at the same pace....definitly talk to her and make the communication is open and strong....or she is falling inlove with the wrong you! Trust your gut, and once you have talked about it and realize that it isn't love for you maybe it is time to move on!
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You have beautiful eyes sir
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Ask of her what you asked of us Communicate |
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You have beautiful eyes sir  
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Ask of her what you asked of us Communicate He has the correct answer! |
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I would slow things down, if you think that there could be a chance to have a relationship with her. If you don't, then tell her so and just be friends if you can. In the end I'm sure she would rather know early on how you feel than to end up finding out later, after her feelings are even deeper. I don't think that she can really know she's in love, but her feelings are still involved.
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Edited by
kaleb
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Tue 11/11/08 11:25 PM
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thanks guys i am going to talk to her about it in tomarrow and i will keep you posted if you wish
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ok i ended it nicely and then i got a im from a friend on her account
 saying that she tried to kill herself then she gets on and says the same thing..... is it just me or did i find a crazy one |
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ok i ended it nicely and then i got a im from a friend on her account saying that she tried to kill herself then she gets on and says the same thing..... is it just me or did i find a crazy one Don't answer her, in fact cut off all ties with her. She is just using this as an excuse to get attention and to get you back. |
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ok i ended it nicely and then i got a im from a friend on her account saying that she tried to kill herself then she gets on and says the same thing..... is it just me or did i find a crazy one does that mean she shot herself and missed???? took exlax instead of sleepin pills jumped on a cliff instead of off it??? she's lookin for attention.....get out of there!!! |
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ok i ended it nicely and then i got a im from a friend on her account saying that she tried to kill herself then she gets on and says the same thing..... is it just me or did i find a crazy one Crazy. Definitely crazy. Count your blessings, precious. 
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