Topic: Online dating sucks for me. What should I do?
Neoloverboy22's photo
Wed 11/19/08 04:01 PM

Find the two best dating site forums you can.

I know of a couple of good ones. Then put up a nice well written profile, a nice picture, then post on the forums.

Post interesting topics. Answer others people's topics with your comments and be a gentleman. Don't be rude and ignore the trolls.

After a while you be able to contact other forum girls and they probably will reply and you will have a greater chance of success. I can't promise success, I don't know you, but you chances will be better (unless you're a forum jerk).

Don't be in a hurry either. Once you've been on the forums for a while you become a living breathing person instead of just another one of 100's of random messages girls get every week.

Try it...it works....just be patient. You'll find someone when you stop trying so hard.






What are the best two forums on this site my dear?

moonlight_ride62's photo
Wed 11/19/08 04:02 PM
just get drunk and forget all about it..works for me...drinker

Neoloverboy22's photo
Wed 11/19/08 04:03 PM
I am in college my friend. Believe me, there are so many girls out there and I tried. LOL

OneTiredMind's photo
Wed 11/19/08 04:15 PM
maybe you havent tried on the right one?

markc48's photo
Wed 11/19/08 04:16 PM

I am in college my friend. Believe me, there are so many girls out there and I tried. LOL
I went back to college at 40 and found some dates. :wink:

Jill298's photo
Wed 11/19/08 04:20 PM
It only sucks for you... laugh you're right. EVERYONE else in the dating scene is having the time of their lives.

Tazz42's photo
Wed 11/19/08 04:25 PM
You're only 23...this takes time and your young. Quit trying to be in a hurry......There are alot of great people here. Get to know us and "The One" will come along.
In the meantime......Welcome to the Mingle family!

Neoloverboy22's photo
Wed 11/19/08 04:25 PM
frustrated Hmm..... I see

Jill298's photo
Wed 11/19/08 04:31 PM
I'll give you some tips. First... no woman (well self respecting woman) wants someone desperate. And you... come across as very desperate. Women also don't like all the negative attitudes. Why are you searching high and low... just on the internet?? Why aren't you out there being a regular 23 year old?? You know, having a life. Going out with friends. Hobbies. Women like guys that have their own lives too. Don't make it such a priority. Go out there, have fun. Be yourself. Make friends. Love comes to you, you don't come to love.

Neoloverboy22's photo
Wed 11/19/08 04:31 PM
Perhaps I will try and maybe things will get alot betterflowerforyou

Neoloverboy22's photo
Wed 11/19/08 04:34 PM
I know I know I know. I am a good artist. I go to school to become a animator. I do have a life like everybody else. I'm not saying I'm desperate. I just wanted to see if I have successes at it.

Jill298's photo
Wed 11/19/08 04:35 PM
I had success. I met my bf on here. But that's not what I was focused on. I was focused on being me, having fun, still living my own life.

Jill298's photo
Wed 11/19/08 04:36 PM

I know I know I know. I am a good artist. I go to school to become a animator. I do have a life like everybody else. I'm not saying I'm desperate. I just wanted to see if I have successes at it.
Your post made you seem very desperate.

justme041167's photo
Wed 11/19/08 04:39 PM
Only 499 nigerians? You are one of the lucky ones!
Start with a nice profile, that reflects who you are, NOT who you would love to be. Post decent pictures and actual ones not 20 years 500 pounds less than the actual you.
Do not trust messages from people that tell you i love you the first email (or the first month for that matter) There are either spammers or they have some mental issue. Do not go out on dates expecting to find love or sex. And most important NO MONEY TO ANYBODY....
Furthermore...
My first dates.... DUTCH

Riding_Dubz's photo
Wed 11/19/08 04:39 PM
Stay single it's cheaper,


laugh laugh laugh laugh flowerforyou

PATSFAN's photo
Wed 11/19/08 04:40 PM
drinks online dating sucks for most of usdrinks

Laurluvssteelers's photo
Wed 11/19/08 04:51 PM
That does it I am getting a total body makeover. I can't even get the Nigerians to hit on me...tears

cuppy59's photo
Wed 11/19/08 04:51 PM
grumble Im seriously thinking now that the convent might just be the answer after all, of course, the last time I talked to the reverend mother, she handed me a lacy thong and said, "Honey, you cant leave these in the garden" Geez, I was so glad to get them back.:banana: ...and then I was asked to leave.rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl


hunky62's photo
Wed 11/19/08 04:52 PM
Wah...Wah...Wah...I am such a loser...nobody likes me...Wah...why can't I find love on this site...Waah...does anybody have any advise for me...wah..I'm gonna jump off the roof of my 3-story apt. building...wah...wah...pease feel sorry for me...

Does this crap drive anybody else as crazy as it does me???...wah...wah...wah...can't we send these whiners to 'time-out' in the Whiner Room?

Neoloverboy22's photo
Wed 11/19/08 05:02 PM
frustrated I will take these advices. BTW, I am a introvert. Pretty much shy.