Topic: Are you an "Alpha"
motowndowntown's photo
Thu 11/27/08 09:18 AM
Do you change the subject of a conversation to something more of your liking, or follow the flow?
When in a group, do you: Keep in front? Stick in the middle? Stay in the back so straglers won't get lost?
Do you: throw open a door and walk through? Hold it open for the person behind you? Wait for someone to open it for you?
Do you: Try to be the first to welcome a new person into the group and make sure they "fit in"? Let someone else do it? Let them fend for themselves?
When at a social or family function where you are not the host/hostess; Do you try and make sure everyone is having a good time, getting enough to eat drink etc? Help out the host/hostess where ever you can? Try not to step on anybodys toes and stay out of range of any food fights?
Would you rather; Be an alpha? Be somewhere in the middle? Don't care either way?
If you are/aren't an alpha type do you think it helps or hurts your finding a relationship?
Would you rather; Be in a relationship with an alpha? Not sure? Stay away from that type as much as you can?
Try and be honest.

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Thu 11/27/08 09:24 AM
nope

I'm no alpha. packs of people get on my nerves

I'm the quiet loner type that hangs on the peripherary picking off the alpha's harem

oldsage's photo
Thu 11/27/08 09:25 AM
I go with my moods.
Know I am a person of "alpha" characteristics.
Chose to be laid back 7 watch before making my true self known.

Was raised to be a "go to guy."

Twitch's photo
Thu 11/27/08 09:41 AM
Edited by Twitch on Thu 11/27/08 09:42 AM
Do you change the subject of a conversation to something more of your liking, or follow the flow?
When in a group, do you: Keep in front? Stick in the middle? Stay in the back so straglers won't get lost?
Do you: throw open a door and walk through? Hold it open for the person behind you? Wait for someone to open it for you?
Do you: Try to be the first to welcome a new person into the group and make sure they "fit in"? Let someone else do it? Let them fend for themselves?
When at a social or family function where you are not the host/hostess; Do you try and make sure everyone is having a good time, getting enough to eat drink etc? Help out the host/hostess where ever you can? Try not to step on anybodys toes and stay out of range of any food fights?
Would you rather; Be an alpha? Be somewhere in the middle? Don't care either way?
If you are/aren't an alpha type do you think it helps or hurts your finding a relationship?
Would you rather; Be in a relationship with an alpha? Not sure? Stay away from that type as much as you can?
Try and be honest.

I try and follow a topic; if it's something I know nothing about I do try and learn something.
I stick in the middle.
I will always look behind me when walking through a door and holding it open for the next person (doesn't matter if it's a man or woman.
Always try and help out.
I am in the middle.
Me in the middle doesn't hurt a relationship.
No alpha for me; I'd like someone who is also in the middle; can take charge when needed. Have been with an alpha and it's not for me.

shoesmonkey's photo
Thu 11/27/08 09:41 AM
I'm more of an Alpha than I used to be. Tired of bs throughout the course of my life. Howerver, it does not allway's hold true. Do I want an Alpha? Not nessisarily. I don't want my show run for me. I want to AGREE through both perspective's.

horsegirl55's photo
Thu 11/27/08 01:07 PM



I really hadn't thought about it. I think sometimes I am alpha but most of the time I'm standing in the middle of the road.

Greyhound's photo
Thu 11/27/08 02:46 PM
I'm singing out loud and off key
'Dead skunk in the middle of the road'
:banana: drinks :banana:

horsegirl55's photo
Thu 11/27/08 03:10 PM

Greyhound's photo
Fri 11/28/08 02:49 PM




How nice...you have my baby pictureblushing

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Fri 11/28/08 02:54 PM
rofl you ladies are too muchrofl

I know I have Alpha characteristics, but sometimes it's nice not having to lead the way.