dont you wish this was a real place. and we all could just meet for coffe, drinks, and chit chatting?

if it was real we would'nt be on here

If it were, half of us would be too afraid to breath, nevermind actually speak to one another.

are you really all antisocial computer nerds

i HAVE met at least a couple of dozen of these posters, most of them all in the same place at the same time, and did sit down for coffee, drinks, and chit chat with them.

antisocial????? I think we are very social, since we can't meet everyone because of being located all over the world, we have our social meetings on here. If we happen to meet someone who we connect with, then arrangements can be made to meet in person. I have met quite a few from here.

well one person said they wouldnt socialize, let alone be able to breath. hence why i inferred that the antisocialness.

At the same time it is also good to not have the pressure to meet up with eachother. If we all lived close-by some people would feel compelled to meet up with someone even if they didnt really want to.

But we can all meet for a coffee or whatever anyhow, you just have to travel fursther for some people. Ive been to the states a couple of times and have met over 50. Many of them are on this site now(such as papersmile up there), but i met them through another.

In my opinion on what said, it is like being on here and not having the courage to email someone you like. In person the shyness would come out like when you go to a club and see someone you think is attactive, but don't have the nerve to go up and say something to them.

I am not an anit social person at all. I have met people after a single email....

However, I have come to realize that many men feel much more comfortable aproaching me here, than in the grocery store.

So I beleive that if we were all in a room most would say nothing.

Futhermore, you may come to see that the person that one presents to the world online is quite different from the real person. They may be extroverted and funny online, when in reality, they have very little outside interest and are quite a bore.

Give yourself some time to judge what I am saying.

I don't know, a lot of us have gotten a good feel for each other on the forums and would have some fun I think.

I agree if it were some of the regular forum posters in a room...but if your talkin just a big singles bar with Mingle2 people in it....well it would be pretty quiet.