Yes sir thank you, I did like to play hide and seek when i was younger. I have many very close friends. My best friend, she takes care of me no matter what, her husband also helps out.

I know what your saying there invisible, I'm there too.

NO The withdrawal won't last forever. Hang in there!! Any time you need cheering on just drop a post. We'll all jump on it.

But I do like the friends that I have met here and hope to meet many more.

Sorry, I just imagined all of you jumping on my post.



But thank you, all your support is really appreciated.

Why thank you Carol!

Based on our remark, What a good woman is looking for is not a good man 50 out of 100. She, like all of us want the best and knows what damage goods are. Let me give you and example. Would you or any one of us go to the grocery and buy damage vegetables? Of course not. We weed out the bad, the good and the ugly. We are truly convinced that what is spoiled is of no use to us. No one out of pity, buy goods, and won't have second thought on this matter. As a matter of fact, we even tend to tell others on how these products are displayed, so as to be purchased. I think, and I'm a 'halve wit', we do the same when we look for a possible mate. In our case, we can't touch and squeeze, (much to my dislike), but we can view and read, behind words. We can all do that. If we can stop and smell the roses, then we can stop and read what is written. A funny things about reading people. Its been said, we humans can't read minds. Maybe thats true. God, knows, I don't want anyone reading mine...lol. But in the Good Book, its states that what comes out of the mouth, its what the heart feels. So if that is true, anyone wanting to know whats in anyones heart, just listen or read what is said or read or not written. We all do this on a daily basis and don't realize it. Take a man who for the most part talks about baseball. Baseball in the morning, noon and night. Whats is close and dear to his heart? Baseball of course. We do this on a daily basis and sometimes we don't realize it, but other do. For that reason I bring this up, (and only God knows why I did, because I forgot why), is that when looking and searching, we tend to let our eyes look for us and not really read whats in someone else's heart. After all, after the looks are gone, all that is left is two hearts betting in writhem.

Sorry as I get carried away, when I right, but as I stated above, you guys already know whats in my heart, as I aso stand in line at Mc Donalds.

Sign: viva_el_amor

PS. how can I copy a previous Quote so as to send it alone with my remarks....anyone?

Thank you Flame, it good to be welcomed and wanted...lol. Hope to hear from you soon on this forum....

sign: viva

Yeah I'm here and there back and forth on the 50s forum like talking to all my friends.

Thanks viva looks like God put that on your heart.

Hey Motowntown,

With your permission and along with others, I like to summit the following I wrote to myself some time ago, when I asked myself that same question. It was a solem night when coming home from a party and everyone there had there partner, and I was 'solo'. Feeling sorry for myself, just had to pull for my friend Jack (Daniel) for advisement. All my sorrows, (for that night) were all but over. Hope you and others like it and useful.


There was a time when we all thought the world was ours and we could do not wrong. But time has a way in doing with us what it wants. In the manner of love, no one owns, posses or controls it. Not even money. I once hear a man say, “money does not buy love, but I can ride in a Cadillac and look for it”. He is is still looking and the Cadillac is over ten years old now. No one posses the power in love or 'who' will be there right mate and much less, where they may be found. Maybe there was a logic in the old days where ones parents chose there life long mate. For the most part, they stayed together. Notice I said stay together, not happy together. That will not work in our days. We want what we want, and throw a way what we don't want. Marriages today, are treated much like todays 'throw away society'. When we tire, we throw it away. But in the manner in looking, ...it was just as hard to find our first as it is our second or there after. We could be standing in line at McDonald and our perfect mate is there by our side. But we all know that, right? Coming from a Latin culture, we have a saying that says, “Better being alone, than in bad company”. But we seek and not fine. There is also an old saying that says, “If you want to fine a good man or woman, go to church and you will find one.” The bad thing about that is that they may not conform to our likes or dislikes...lol. But I think, the worst anyone could do, in looking for that perfect mate, is 'Stop Looking'. I remember once reading about a smart and wise man who once said, “Seek, and you shall find”. As for me, I'm still standing in line at McDonald and just maybe, yes, maybe show 'up at the church on time'. So for what it worth, from a man who is still looking, let me hang in there and once in a while I will stick out your hand and reach for a possible candidates. If anyone scared in finding the wrong man/woman,... so are they. Looks goes so far, but the inner beauty, last for ever. We will keep on looking.... and we shall surely find.

Sign:
viva_el_amor

Gee...I get sick and sleep all day. And I missed all these nice new people. Someone will have to catch me up.

Viva...Welcome hope to get to know you.

Tazz...Welcome, please pull that parachute, don't want you to hit the ground.


My friends....Hi hope you'll had a great day.

Music and Invisible....I am going to miss you all in the mornings...but will look forward to talking when you get off from working with the kiddies.

That was a good write viva, your word really do ring true.

Viva welcome to mingle, if nobody answered you yet, just need to hit the quote in the lower right hand corner of the post you want to respond and type below it, or over as some do.

Thanks Choclablova

I also notice how one quote is over another and another, how is this done?

And how, much like you just did, take a sentance or two and make that your quote to send along with onces remarks?

Thanks from: Viva

I always hit the ground. Thank you!!

Just looking out for you! Didn't want you to splat!

That was always a joke with many of us.

I had deleted most of your written text to quote and answer what I was going to help with, the quote over quote is when people add to quotes successively by quoting a previously added on quote. Wow was I making any sense.

Tried to email this to you but not being a female I couldn't due to your mail restrictions

You would look cute as a girl!