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Topic: Friends with the person who broke your heart?
MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 12/23/08 11:26 AM
flowerforyou Can you ever be friends with an ex boyfriend or girlfriend who broke your heart?brokenheart

SimplyElla's photo
Tue 12/23/08 11:29 AM
too many memories when looking in his eyes... to much hurt ... it would be hard... no matter how much time has past ohwell

newarkjw's photo
Tue 12/23/08 11:31 AM
I am really trying to but it is very hard to do. The anger always pops up it's ugly little head. smokin

Urg04es's photo
Tue 12/23/08 11:32 AM
I am good friends with my ex husband. In fact.....his girlfriend is my best friend now.(She wasn't in the picture when we were married.) We were terrible as a married couple but now we get along great.

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 12/23/08 11:33 AM

too many memories when looking in his eyes... to much hurt ... it would be hard... no matter how much time has past ohwell
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Jtree43's photo
Tue 12/23/08 11:35 AM

flowerforyou Can you ever be friends with an ex boyfriend or girlfriend who broke your heart?brokenheart
I'm friends with all my ex's (except 1 ) I think it might come from being friends before lovers. Perhaps I just make a good friend.. not sure

no photo
Tue 12/23/08 11:36 AM
you can try to be friends but .... it never really works out sure there are a few times it might for someone but on the whole... its best to live for your future not the past,flowerforyou

therapy30's photo
Tue 12/23/08 11:36 AM

flowerforyou Can you ever be friends with an ex boyfriend or girlfriend who broke your heart?brokenheart

not feasible for me

MeChrissy2's photo
Tue 12/23/08 11:37 AM
No. A friend wouldn't break my heart.

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 12/23/08 11:41 AM

No. A friend wouldn't break my heart.
flowerforyou trueflowerforyou

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 12/23/08 11:42 AM
smokin Negativesmokin

lilith401's photo
Tue 12/23/08 11:43 AM
Yes, I am now. It took a while, but we finally made it to friends. It's been over a year now. I'm actually introducing him to the guy I am now dating....

mariposakc's photo
Tue 12/23/08 11:50 AM

Yes, I am now. It took a while, but we finally made it to friends. It's been over a year now. I'm actually introducing him to the guy I am now dating....


I agree. It is possible. Like Lilith, it took time. We are meeting in a couple of days for lunch. Friendship suits us much better than the romantic relationship we struggle so terribly at.

darkowl1's photo
Tue 12/23/08 11:51 AM

I am good friends with my ex husband. In fact.....his girlfriend is my best friend now.(She wasn't in the picture when we were married.) We were terrible as a married couple but now we get along great.


that is truly awesome!!!!! drinker

lilith401's photo
Tue 12/23/08 11:51 AM
Edited by lilith401 on Tue 12/23/08 11:52 AM


Yes, I am now. It took a while, but we finally made it to friends. It's been over a year now. I'm actually introducing him to the guy I am now dating....


I agree. It is possible. Like Lilith, it took time. We are meeting in a couple of days for lunch. Friendship suits us much better than the romantic relationship we struggle so terribly at.


I totally agree.... plus we can make such snide jokes to one another without starting a fight.... the same ones we made when we dated and would piss us off!

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 12/23/08 11:52 AM


I am good friends with my ex husband. In fact.....his girlfriend is my best friend now.(She wasn't in the picture when we were married.) We were terrible as a married couple but now we get along great.


that is truly awesome!!!!! drinker
bigsmile yepbigsmile

freeonthree's photo
Tue 12/23/08 11:53 AM

flowerforyou Can you ever be friends with an ex boyfriend or girlfriend who broke your heart?brokenheart


That would depend on how they broke my heart. If you mean cheated on me, no way !

darkowl1's photo
Tue 12/23/08 11:54 AM
Edited by darkowl1 on Tue 12/23/08 11:56 AM
i am friends with my ex, but kind of on her terms, so it's not really a true friendship, so if i lose it, it's no big deal. i think i was in love with the "idea" of her, more than her, if that makes sense.... and that's what broke my heart....the end of a dream that was supposed to be.

no photo
Tue 12/23/08 12:00 PM
I am..... I'm pretty sure he is gay, laugh at least everyone else thinks so too!

Sarawr's photo
Tue 12/23/08 12:06 PM

flowerforyou Can you ever be friends with an ex boyfriend or girlfriend who broke your heart?brokenheart


too early to tell.

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