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...if you've been dating someone who seems really great. Everything clicks, you've got a lot in common, have the same sense of humor, and you think you might be falling for this one.....
and then during a light-hearted conversation about favorite bands, they drop this bombshell.. "Oh I love listening to this band when I'm baked. Yeah..btw, I occasionally smoke a little pot. Just to help with the pain though." What the Hell??? ![]() |
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Don't smoke it around me. I can't handle it anymore.
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I look at pot no more harmful than liquor
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Edited by
Totage
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Thu 01/01/09 07:39 PM
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I look at pot no more harmful than liquor ![]() Some people have very bad reactions to pot, alot worse than liquor. |
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you either accept or or move on it's your choice
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I don't care for pot...it would be a deal breaker for me
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If its a deal breaker, its a deal breaker. You can't change someone.
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Edited by
quiet_2008
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Thu 01/01/09 07:44 PM
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you have to either accept it or not. depends on you're preferences.
It wouldn't be a big deal to me. But to some people it is |
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...if you've been dating someone who seems really great. Everything clicks, you've got a lot in common, have the same sense of humor, and you think you might be falling for this one..... and then during a light-hearted conversation about favorite bands, they drop this bombshell.. "Oh I love listening to this band when I'm baked. Yeah..btw, I occasionally smoke a little pot. Just to help with the pain though." What the Hell??? ![]() then you got to have EVERYTHING in common .that parts to ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Edited by
nogames39
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Thu 01/01/09 07:49 PM
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It smells nasty to me. People put "non smokers only" all the time in their ads.
Pot is a lot nastier. I kind of like the smell of cigarette, but pot has this super-sweet smell that follows you to the point where you start feeling sort of sickness. It is amazingly stinky, meaning potent. I once had a friend who forgot a tiny little bit of afghani at my place. I was crazy for a month trying to find the stupid grass crap. It filled the whole house with it's smell, even though whatever he forgot was in a plastic bag and inside a pill container. Bad stuff. |
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They are letting you know them a little bit more about them. I quit in my early 20's so, I'm not an advocate for it or, against it. Personally however, I would not want to date a man that use's it. I don't want any drug's in or, near my life.
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Edited by
SweetnFunny
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Thu 01/01/09 07:55 PM
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I guess I'm just feeling kinda disappointed tonight and needed to vent a little.
I met a guy, I really liked him, and then found out that he enjoys doing something that I'm very much against. ![]() More than likely I'll be moving on. In the meantime, I've got the "What the Hell?" going on right now. ![]() (edited to add: Thanks to all who've responded so far. I appreciate the input! It helps confirm the choice to move on. ![]() |
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at least he's not a killer, or a pedophile, or a scammer
he just enjoys an intoxicant that you disapprove of |
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They are letting you know them a little bit more about them. I quit in my early 20's so, I'm not an advocate for it or, against it. Personally however, I would not want to date a man that use's it. I don't want any drug's in or, near my life. |
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End of relationship.
In my profession I don't date these three things Anyone that is involved with Drugs or booze. Anyone that has been charge and convicted of a D.V. Anyone that is a convicted felon. Those are absolute deal breakers for me I have no choice in the matter. |
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ive personally never smoked it, but have friends who do. its not something im interested in but feel that its thier buisness not mine. nobodys a perfect match, but if your 100% anti pot? then i guess your choice is clear for you :) talk it over with them first tho and let them know why! least thats my advice
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I have zero tolerance for being around anyone who uses any type of illegal drug, or who abuses any legal legal ones.
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ive personally never smoked it, but have friends who do. its not something im interested in but feel that its thier buisness not mine. nobodys a perfect match, but if your 100% anti pot? then i guess your choice is clear for you :) talk it over with them first tho and let them know why! least thats my advice Good advice, thank you. ![]() |
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End of relationship. In my profession I don't date these three things Anyone that is involved with Drugs or booze. Anyone that has been charge and convicted of a D.V. Anyone that is a convicted felon. Those are absolute deal breakers for me I have no choice in the matter. A social drinker doesn't bother me, I like to have a glass now & then. But the others..yeah, I'm with you on those. ![]() |
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