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Topic: 50 and lonely
july7553's photo
Wed 01/28/09 08:11 AM

That's a tough one. My new favorite quotation is -- When God closes a door he opens another one. But there's hell in the hallway. So hang in there until the other door opens.

You could go to the library and check out some books, organize your pictures, work on your family history, learn to crochet or knit. Of course, this is my third day of being iced in. I have all kinds of things I could be doing, but don't want to do any of them!!! But I think I'm gonna have to iron.

I absolutely love this one!!!! Also agree with all of the subsequent thoughts on the issue. I think it comes down to is the glass half full, or half empty?

oldsage's photo
Wed 01/28/09 08:20 AM
When my glass gets half full, I pour some more in.

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Wed 01/28/09 08:20 AM

Thanks for the warm welcome everyone. Tell me how do you get your mind off things? Right now I am laid off work, have to live in my daughters basement, and have soooooooooooo much time on my hands. I have cleaned, cleaned, and cleaned some more but there are always those times in the evening when you realize just how quiet it is. That is when you feel so alone, so can anyone suggest anything? You can only watch so much TV, I have worked far too many Sudodu puzzles. Suggestions please.


You have to find a hobby for yourself, there are so many things you could do.
And there is always voluntary work in organizations that feed the poor and things like that. It takes you out of the house, and you get to meet people.

polypeasant's photo
Wed 01/28/09 11:25 AM
Agree strongly with invisable. You got to leave the house. For me, its get out of the house before 10am...kind of sets the pace for the day. Do your sudoku at a coffe house where one cup and a refill will give you chances to meet people.

Check out all the bulletin boards in the area for work or group meetings. Some bookstores have free scrabble nites. Lots of shut in older people need help with chores and they need help and can't get any from the their local charities. Catholic Charities, and Meals on Wheels are 2 organizations that come to mind.

Keep the faith, you'll see better times!

pjlikes's photo
Wed 01/28/09 06:33 PM
iam 59 years old and in the same boat tired of being alone all the time and watching others find someone to be with take a look at my profile and drop me aline

carold's photo
Wed 01/28/09 06:37 PM
All you guys from Iowa. No one close :) And I live in the 4th largest city :)

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Wed 02/04/09 10:53 PM
Edited by maggiemarie on Wed 02/04/09 10:58 PM
Hello :banana:
Widowed since 1991
Turning 53 Sunday
Looking forward to spring
Ready for road trip:banana:

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Thu 02/05/09 01:44 AM
U have been single since the age of 25?? what

Rikk52m's photo
Thu 02/05/09 08:11 AM
Hello all...I am lonely too...oh well guess it is why we are all here

horsegirl55's photo
Thu 02/05/09 08:15 AM
Hello Rick and Maggie,

Welcome to Mingle!!!flowerforyou

You will never be alone on the 50 and over site, even if you don't find a love match. You can make the best friends and someone is always here.
Stick around and start posting and get to know us. We are alot of fun for old folks:laughing:

Right now everyone is on the Topicless Thread come join us.:wink:

Drago01's photo
Thu 02/05/09 08:20 AM
Hello Rik, Maggie, and Teresa.
Welcome to the boards.

carold's photo
Thu 02/05/09 08:36 AM
Old folks :) who, not here :) 25 years who :) HI Maggie and Rick :)

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Thu 02/05/09 08:42 AM
Hi Rikk, Maggie. Welcome to the forums. Keep posting, get to know folks. You'll never be lonely again. happy

Rikk52m's photo
Thu 02/05/09 10:17 AM
I have my buddy....

carold's photo
Thu 02/05/09 10:27 AM
Ahhh :)

Rikk52m's photo
Thu 02/05/09 10:32 AM
another buddy....(darn feather...I called make-up)...lol..

carold's photo
Thu 02/05/09 10:57 AM

another buddy....(darn feather...I called make-up)...lol..

smiles sweet :)

Rikk52m's photo
Thu 02/05/09 11:01 AM
ok carold...for you...and no kiss...yet///


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Thu 02/05/09 01:12 PM
thanks for the kiss Rikk :wink:

carold's photo
Thu 02/05/09 02:07 PM

ok carold...for you...and no kiss...yet///


smiles :)

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