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Topic: When someone says I love you..
tantalizingtulip's photo
Fri 04/20/07 12:03 PM
Do you run for the hills?bigsmile

no photo
Fri 04/20/07 12:09 PM
It depends who says it

I might blushing

Or just say Thank Ya happy

Fry13's photo
Fri 04/20/07 12:09 PM
*runs screaming, arms flailing about*

sad sad sad

ArtGurl's photo
Fri 04/20/07 12:21 PM
Why are people so afraid of the word 'love'?

When I say I love you, I mean just that. I love you. I love the who of
you.

That does not mean I want to sleep with you. It does not mean I want to
bear your children. It does not mean that I want to marry you or change
you or control you.

It just means that I see you for the beautiful spirit you are and I love
what I see reflected in you...man or woman ... no gender...no agenda ...
just love.

flowerforyou

Fry13's photo
Fri 04/20/07 12:29 PM
I suppose there is context that needs inflection and tonality to impart
your meaning. If you use the word love as you use it for a kitten or a
beer, than there is nothing to fear. If you use it on a first date and
cut off a lock of that persons hair so you can add it to the hair doll
you are making of that person, so then you can tell the hair doll how
much you love that person, then it's somewhat scary.

Those are really the only two scenarios the word is used right?

:wink:

crazysillygirl's photo
Fri 04/20/07 12:33 PM
dont say it unless you mean it.....and saying ilove you doesnt
necessarily mean in love with you...theres a difference!!!

ArtGurl's photo
Fri 04/20/07 12:34 PM
Well the lock of hair is just creepy and yes I would run! laugh

And yes, of course, there is always context Fry flowerforyou

Fry13's photo
Fri 04/20/07 12:35 PM
For the record, the previous posts have been farce. I have no fear of
that word. Coincidentally, if anyone should want a hair doll, please
email me with contact information.

izzie's photo
Fri 04/20/07 12:36 PM
im with silly on this one.. there is a huge difference between loving
someone, and being in love with them..
and im thinkin a relationship wont work unless you love them and are IN
love with them...

tantalizingtulip's photo
Fri 04/20/07 12:37 PM
When someone says it to me 3 days into dating them ya ,sherrie I wanna
run.....real fast!noway

tantalizingtulip's photo
Fri 04/20/07 12:38 PM
oh oh oh Then I have to sit them down and explain the difference
between, lust, love infatuation etc........


And I don't date dum dumsgrumble flowerforyou

ArtGurl's photo
Fri 04/20/07 12:39 PM
I love you Kim flowerforyou










are ya runnin? bigsmile

tantalizingtulip's photo
Fri 04/20/07 12:39 PM
fry lollaugh

tantalizingtulip's photo
Fri 04/20/07 12:40 PM
um....... no but have thank gaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaauuuuuuud

for long legs...laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh



sherrie lol

tantalizingtulip's photo
Fri 04/20/07 12:40 PM
sherrie I am lustfully yours:wink: bigsmile :wink:

ArtGurl's photo
Fri 04/20/07 12:40 PM
laugh

no photo
Fri 04/20/07 12:48 PM


Well I'll answer this in the context of someone I ...ummm... well...
like.. a lot...
Its the first time he utters it, and I ~




Well, no, unfortunately I don't weep and collapse in his big strong arms
~ just don't have it in me.
I am sincere in how I respond though... but rarely have I repeated it
(remember the scenario - I don't mean alllll the time..)

Would rather wait for the right time in my heart to say that; definitely
not something to say spontaneously.

Hmmm - well, at least I'm sincere.

ohwell

tantalizingtulip's photo
Fri 04/20/07 12:56 PM
sounds like you have it covered goddessflowerforyou

sassystacey69xx's photo
Fri 04/20/07 12:57 PM
sometimes i tell my friends i love them,does this mean they have to
run...i think not!!!

Styx's photo
Fri 04/20/07 12:58 PM
ArtGurl said:

Why are people so afraid of the word 'love'?

When I say I love you, I mean just that. I love you. I love the who of
you.

That does not mean I want to sleep with you. It does not mean I want to
bear your children. It does not mean that I want to marry you or change
you or control you.

It just means that I see you for the beautiful spirit you are and I love
what I see reflected in you...man or woman ... no gender...no agenda ...
just love.

***************************************************************

and I have to agree...

I loved your words...

my thoughts exactly...

flowerforyou

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