I became a member a while back but have just recently re-activated my account.

Anyway, I consider myself a good catch, I've got a good job, I have a good personality, I don't think I'm bad looking yet I haven't gotten anybody to show any interest.

So clearly I haven't presented myself in a manner that women generally respond to.

SO SOMEONE GIVE ME SOME CLARITY!!! PLEASE I'm interested in everyone's feedback but......

To the guys, you may want to give your advise but I'm primarily interested in a womans point of view since they're the one's I'm trying to attract.

Thanks :)

Good set of photos. Use pic #2 for your main profile as it has you smiling.

You have some grammatical, spelling and punctuation errors to correct. Look particular at your use of the comma, lack of the word "and", run on sentences and spelling. If you need help, let me know or ask mchstiger06.

Remove "Oregon boy's know how to treat women with respect and kindness."

Remove "I'm not perfect".

Good profile overall.

I agree with the women that you need to start posting on the forums and start using the search function up top. You live in a heavily populated area so there should be quite of few profiles to browse through.

If you find someone that interests you, send her an brief email and end it with a question. Example: "Hi, I had a chance to view your profile and found it interesting. You mentioned that you collect sea shells from around the world. How many beaches have you visited so far?" That's a cheesy example but you get the point. It's an ice breaker and allows her to discuss something she is passionate about.

If you've been on this site before, then rejection is nothing new to you. You'll get those who look at your profile but don't email, those who email you only once and those who chat with you awhile and then stop. No biggie.

Good luck with your search.

Thank you everybody for your comments.......

Good set of photos. Use pic #2 for your main profile as it has you smiling.

You have some grammatical, spelling and punctuation errors to correct. Look particular at your use of the comma, lack of the word "and", run on sentences and spelling. If you need help, let me know or ask mchstiger06.

Remove "Oregon boy's know how to treat women with respect and kindness."

Remove "I'm not perfect".

Good profile overall.

I agree with the women that you need to start posting on the forums and start using the search function up top. You live in a heavily populated area so there should be quite of few profiles to browse through.

If you find someone that interests you, send her an brief email and end it with a question. Example: "Hi, I had a chance to view your profile and found it interesting. You mentioned that you collect sea shells from around the world. How many beaches have you visited so far?" That's a cheesy example but you get the point. It's an ice breaker and allows her to discuss something she is passionate about.

If you've been on this site before, then rejection is nothing new to you. You'll get those who look at your profile but don't email, those who email you only once and those who chat with you awhile and then stop. No biggie.

Good luck with your search.




great advice and effort made into helping this gentleman..

roco