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Topic: Need advice about a dude I just met!!!
lizziebiz's photo
Thu 01/29/09 09:04 AM
Ok, so I met this guy on sunday and we ended up hanging out, going out, and spending the whole night together. We made out and that sort of thing, but nothing really sexual. He was really fun and really sweet and he said something like "we should do this every sunday" and other things that made it sound like he wanted to hang out in the future. The next morning he left before I woke up and I texted him and asked him what time he left and hope he had a good day. In the text he wrote back "let me know when you're bored again haha especially during the day"

Does this mean he actually wants to hang out and if so what's with the "especially during the day" thing...or is this just one of those things guys say when they're being nice but they really have no intention of seeing you again? I've heard a lot of those, but I'm not sure about this one.

Derekkye's photo
Thu 01/29/09 09:07 AM
he's just stating a preference - perhaps he's just more available during the day

Sudburybabe's photo
Thu 01/29/09 09:07 AM
I think it means he does not want any kind of lasting relationship, but just a sexual thing... although, who the hell really knows? lol

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 01/29/09 09:07 AM
That's a tough one, it's sounds like there is more to the story

no photo
Thu 01/29/09 09:08 AM
Edited by 2KidsMom on Thu 01/29/09 09:08 AM
Maybe FWB. -what flowerforyou Sounds sad.

buttons's photo
Thu 01/29/09 09:09 AM
that is a strange thing to reply back to you... almost sounds as if he has somewhere else he is supposed to be at night.. hummm

TBRich's photo
Thu 01/29/09 09:09 AM
Yeah it sounds like he does not want to waste his nights with someone who does not "put out".

no photo
Thu 01/29/09 09:09 AM
i wouldn't look too deep into it
just give it a few days
then casually ask him to 'hang out' again

Anne408's photo
Thu 01/29/09 09:10 AM
sounds like hes got to be home at night if you know what i mean

Shagwell's photo
Thu 01/29/09 09:11 AM
he is saying for you to call him when you are bored and want to jump his bone (funny bone) :laughing:

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 01/29/09 09:12 AM
Ask him?

Shagwell's photo
Thu 01/29/09 09:14 AM

sounds like hes got to be home at night if you know what i mean


most of you women think about the worst! brokenheart

lizziebiz's photo
Thu 01/29/09 09:14 AM
Well if you girls that are saying "maybe he has somewhere to be at night" are implying that he's like married or something...gah that would be bad. I really don't think he is. He kept talking about his roommate. Also, I was thinking the whole "day" thing might mean something other than sex...usually those that want just sex wanna hang out at night, right? In general.

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 01/29/09 09:15 AM

Ask him?

no photo
Thu 01/29/09 09:16 AM
does he work? maybe he's implying that you tired him out and he was dragging at work?

Roco's photo
Thu 01/29/09 09:17 AM
dog dream

roco


lizziebiz's photo
Thu 01/29/09 09:17 AM
Edited by lizziebiz on Thu 01/29/09 09:18 AM
"does he work? maybe he's implying that you tired him out and he was dragging at work? "



Yea I guess that could be it. I don't know...And right before I posted this, I called him to see what he was doing today, cause its daytime and I'm bored. He didn't answer, I left a message.


And dude with the spikey hair, I can't ask him anything until I talk to him!

Roco's photo
Thu 01/29/09 09:18 AM
means nothing

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 01/29/09 09:19 AM

"does he work? maybe he's implying that you tired him out and he was dragging at work? "



Yea I guess that could be it. I don't know...And right before I posted this, I called him to see what he was doing today, cause its daytime and I'm bored. He didn't answer, I left a message.


And dude with the spikey hair, I can't ask him anything until I talk to him!


...doesn't change the fact that he can give you the answer we cannot. You're asking us to read minds, and we simply cannot do that.

lizziebiz's photo
Thu 01/29/09 09:20 AM


"does he work? maybe he's implying that you tired him out and he was dragging at work? "



Yea I guess that could be it. I don't know...And right before I posted this, I called him to see what he was doing today, cause its daytime and I'm bored. He didn't answer, I left a message.


And dude with the spikey hair, I can't ask him anything until I talk to him!


...doesn't change the fact that he can give you the answer we cannot. You're asking us to read minds, and we simply cannot do that.


Umm no I'm just asking for adivce/tips..obviously you have none, so SHUSH!

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