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Topic: Men Think?
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Thu 01/29/09 02:53 PM
We all think about the same thing?

So give me your opinion?What do you want?

Beside's a women you can Trust,a Good women<<<What is this?...You Explain the question i ask?...

Don't need a smart a888 answer?

Dah men step up,an be real?

motowndowntown's photo
Thu 01/29/09 02:56 PM
Simplicity, rationality, even temperment, no drama.

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 01/29/09 02:59 PM
Ooo one of these topics






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Thu 01/29/09 03:00 PM

So give me your opinion?What do you want?


In terms of a relationship....?

OK....

Someone I can talk to, in my own terms, on my own level, without having to stop and define every fourth word I use....

Someone I can spend time with, and enjoy spending that time, without feeling like it's my job to solve all of her problems so she can take off as soon as her life is all good again....

Someone who understands the creative instinct, who knows what it means to be inspired to create, to draw to write, to sing, to do something with her life other than take in alcohol and spew out offspring....

Mainly, someone who won't lie and say "You're perfect, I love everything about you" as a prelude to trying to CHANGE all of the things she "loves" about me....

I am not here to be domesticated....

Acceptance is a two-way street. From here on out.


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Thu 01/29/09 03:06 PM


So give me your opinion?What do you want?


In terms of a relationship....?

OK....

Someone I can talk to, in my own terms, on my own level, without having to stop and define every fourth word I use....

Someone I can spend time with, and enjoy spending that time, without feeling like it's my job to solve all of her problems so she can take off as soon as her life is all good again....

Someone who understands the creative instinct, who knows what it means to be inspired to create, to draw to write, to sing, to do something with her life other than take in alcohol and spew out offspring....

Mainly, someone who won't lie and say "You're perfect, I love everything about you" as a prelude to trying to CHANGE all of the things she "loves" about me....

I am not here to be domesticated....

Acceptance is a two-way street. From here on out.


agree ... and yes to be loved and return that love unconditionally

scoundrel's photo
Thu 01/29/09 03:06 PM
Sparkling eyes, reflexive smiles, natural urge to hold and hug and feel heartbeats together; lots of small talk and nontalk just being happy; truly knowing the indefinable sounds of each other in waking and in sleep; daring to endure and hold still for the long slow bite that increases as a dare to break the moment; walking hand in hand in the park and then sitting still together, just as a natural duo, whispering to each other that all the wise people around wish they were so lucky; knowing the joy of joys, to be joyful that your mate is enjoying each moment of whatever they are doing, each morsel of crabmeat and buttered cob corn, each trilling of the birds flitting near, and just the joy of being joyful for them is the overflowing of your heart for the reason that life doesn't have to make any other sense; being openly grateful for love to the point of blushing red embarrassment in public and in private; letting the hot tears of said embarrassing need and fulfillment flow freely and without worry of the untidy sniffles and ringing ears; giving forth the aching groan of animal rawness that is unlike any other human sound, confident of being unleashed and yet also sated and unguarded; take me for granted with each breath, and equally dire depend and hunger silently for me as the next breath which you also unconsciously inhale; live with me until my every breath smells of your own essence and we are not so different that it then is obvious that we are incomplete without being together.

what do I want?

nothing.

No cards, candies, flowers, candlelight dinners, circled dates on calendars, umpteen phone calls or text messages. I want none of that.

if you do not know what I want and need, then it is foolishness for me to respond, for you cannot be the one.

Shagwell's photo
Thu 01/29/09 03:11 PM
I want it all! ohwell

OrangeCat's photo
Thu 01/29/09 03:12 PM

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Thu 01/29/09 03:13 PM
can't indulge too much on this topic.........i keep total control of me by keeping my mouth closed..........drinker bigsmile

DTHRomeo's photo
Thu 01/29/09 03:14 PM
I want it all and i want it now!bigsmile

Timis76's photo
Thu 01/29/09 03:21 PM

We all think about the same thing?

So give me your opinion?What do you want?

Beside's a women you can Trust,a Good women<<<What is this?...You Explain the question i ask?...

Don't need a smart a888 answer?

Dah men step up,an be real?



Someone like me, down to earth, nature lover, pet lover, Good Lover! My Other half. my opposite

Totage's photo
Thu 01/29/09 03:28 PM
Edited by Totage on Thu 01/29/09 03:28 PM

We all think about the same thing?

So give me your opinion?What do you want?

Beside's a women you can Trust,a Good women<<<What is this?...You Explain the question i ask?...

Don't need a smart a888 answer?

Dah men step up,an be real?


huh Are you asking what I want or what I think?

ljcc1964's photo
Thu 01/29/09 03:34 PM

Sparkling eyes, reflexive smiles, natural urge to hold and hug and feel heartbeats together; lots of small talk and nontalk just being happy; truly knowing the indefinable sounds of each other in waking and in sleep; daring to endure and hold still for the long slow bite that increases as a dare to break the moment; walking hand in hand in the park and then sitting still together, just as a natural duo, whispering to each other that all the wise people around wish they were so lucky; knowing the joy of joys, to be joyful that your mate is enjoying each moment of whatever they are doing, each morsel of crabmeat and buttered cob corn, each trilling of the birds flitting near, and just the joy of being joyful for them is the overflowing of your heart for the reason that life doesn't have to make any other sense; being openly grateful for love to the point of blushing red embarrassment in public and in private; letting the hot tears of said embarrassing need and fulfillment flow freely and without worry of the untidy sniffles and ringing ears; giving forth the aching groan of animal rawness that is unlike any other human sound, confident of being unleashed and yet also sated and unguarded; take me for granted with each breath, and equally dire depend and hunger silently for me as the next breath which you also unconsciously inhale; live with me until my every breath smells of your own essence and we are not so different that it then is obvious that we are incomplete without being together.

what do I want?

nothing.

No cards, candies, flowers, candlelight dinners, circled dates on calendars, umpteen phone calls or text messages. I want none of that.

if you do not know what I want and need, then it is foolishness for me to respond, for you cannot be the one.


Whew! Be still my heart....

scoundrel's photo
Thu 01/29/09 04:10 PM
Edited by scoundrel on Thu 01/29/09 04:41 PM



if you do not know what I want and need, then it is foolishness for me to respond, for you cannot be the one.


Whew! Be still my heart....


I just realized that was sarcasm. indifferent

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Thu 01/29/09 04:16 PM
They want cable......laugh

Mr_Music's photo
Thu 01/29/09 04:18 PM

They want cable......laugh


FINALLY! A woman who gets it! :laughing:

MeChrissy2's photo
Thu 01/29/09 04:19 PM

I want it all! ohwell


I can give you that.:wink:

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Thu 01/29/09 06:32 PM
Can i go about my business an cook,an step to the side an give you a peck on the cheek as we listen to the JAZZ that is playing on the stereo?

countrybelle6471's photo
Thu 01/29/09 06:39 PM
well I have a teenager girl..seems everyday is a different kind of drama..but no issuses..its life..and fun..and a family..I just dont want someone to have a "come a part" because there may be a bit of drama here or there..Sorry But thats life..Its how you deal with it.. And not let it get out of hand..I just don't try & spread it around..

Deadline's photo
Thu 01/29/09 06:42 PM
What do YOU want?

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