No, I haven't seen her use one yet.
(lol, now I have a new gift idea for her. A giant box of changing pads. )

Wow, I have never or even considered changing my child on a kitchen table. That's just wrong!

I have changed it on a bed, couch, in the crib, or on the changing table. And those changing pads do work great!

Can we have car in there too? I've done that.

I would hope she's at least considerate enough to put the dirty diaper in a little shoppin bag and tie it up before she puts it in ur trash can. I always kept them in the diaper bag just for that use.

Hmmm. The easiest solution would be to offer to change the baby's diaper yourself and then you can do it where ever you want to.

Here is a thought~
Ever used the restroom and not washed your hands? Has company ever used your restroom and not washed their hands?

Where a baby gets changed is not as unsanitary as you think. The baby doesn't even touch the floor or surface in question. There are wipes involved too.

But it is not at all rude to dictate what goes on in your house. You live there... it is your kingdom!

I do not believe it is anyones responsibility as a hostess to change my infants diaper.

Not unsanitary? You are kidding right? Fecal matter wheather it is adult or infant is NOT sanitary and if anyone thinks they can change their infant and still have clean hands is either doing a lousy job of changeing the infant or is deludeing themselves. You should ALWAYS wash your hands throughly after changing your baby for the baby's sake and everyone else.

I am dissappointed when I hear things like this.

I have noticed that many young parents have completely skipped the concept of carrying a diaper bag to meet their babies needs while dragging around extreamly young infants whereever.

As a mother I think you have every right to ask your friend to change her infant in your bathroom and dispose of the diaper in a sealed container.
In reality you will be doing her a favor because a parent who diapers in the bathroom has a much easier time potty training a child.

The likelyhood that she will be offended and consider you uptight is highly likely. Might actually end the friendship which you might want to consider if this is a close neighbor or and a dear friend who sees your home like her own.

New parents seem to think that it is such a privilege to see their offspring that you should endure turning your entire home into a toilet like many who pull the same stunt in a resturant booths or other equally obnoxious locations until their friends shun them often enough they figure it out.

Some never catch on and use the same bad parenting techniques as their child goes from toddler to teen demolishing your home everytime they come through the door. If you are not up for eating the expense of a stained bedspread, sofa, or carpet, and endureing the smell through out your home includeing where you eat, then by all means speak up.

Unless you are this woman's Mother or the Godmother to this child I don't think she will honor your advice and you have a tough choice to make about continueing the friendship. Whatever you say she is likely to take as you saying she is a bad mother. You might just want to avoid the whole situation and stop having her as a guest.