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Agree with both Paper and Dan. There are many stories with many different outcomes. Hey Dan .. good times @ the Dublin House eh?  Yeah, except when i spoilt it.. http://s178.photobucket.com/albums/w268/TBone_067/?action=view¤t=af80cdb7.flv |
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Agree with both Paper and Dan. There are many stories with many different outcomes. Hey Dan .. good times @ the Dublin House eh? Yeah, except when i spoilt it.. http://s178.photobucket.com/albums/w268/TBone_067/?action=view¤t=af80cdb7.flv It was only spoiled by the fact that the beginning, which is the bit in where u dedicate the song to me, wasnt recorded!! |
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Anyhoo, back to the original Q, it is possible, but imo, only if u go about things the right way.
I would never 'announce' my love for another online, and certainly not when ive never met them, and i say this because i have met 2 others online before Dan, i cared about them and thought my feelings were romantic, but upon meeting, i discovered those feelings were more of a friendship love than romantic as i didnt feel the chemistry. Feelings can be elevated online as thats all u have to work with, and imo, ppl can rush into thinkin they r 'in love', but the reality is, its prob more of a 'being in love with the idea of love' situation. My advice to anyone who is just entering a new level of romance online would be this....Take ur time, work on the friendship/social element, and dont have expectations or make promises. If the friendship deepens, then meet, and if u dont have chemistry, then u still have a good friendship. |
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is it hardly possible to happen?and why? I do not believe you can fall into true love by the internet alone. But I do believe that you can meet someone on the internet that you can later meet and then fall in love with. |
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I believe it can, and does, happen. It certainly did for me. Without any doubt at all, I loved my partner before I met him. I think it depends on how wide your definition of love is. If you've got 'love' and 'relationship' all neatly defined in a tiny little box and can't see any other angles besides all the pre-conceived ideals you hold, then I doubt falling in love in non-conventional ways will work for you. |
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Anyhoo, back to the original Q, it is possible, but imo, only if u go about things the right way. I would never 'announce' my love for another online, and certainly not when ive never met them, and i say this because i have met 2 others online before Dan, i cared about them and thought my feelings were romantic, but upon meeting, i discovered those feelings were more of a friendship love than romantic as i didnt feel the chemistry. Feelings can be elevated online as thats all u have to work with, and imo, ppl can rush into thinkin they r 'in love', but the reality is, its prob more of a 'being in love with the idea of love' situation. My advice to anyone who is just entering a new level of romance online would be this....Take ur time, work on the friendship/social element, and dont have expectations or make promises. If the friendship deepens, then meet, and if u dont have chemistry, then u still have a good friendship. Very good and sound advice! |
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It can happen.
Your level of caring and hope and anticipation builds up so much for that person. It certainly isn't something you plan on happening. I was shocked that it happened to me, but it did. |
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Honestly I won't hold my breath. Seems to be all a facade sadly. Meeting someone online is more an envision of what you think they are like rather than the real person they are.
I met someone online before and that lead to friendship and then a relationship only to find out he was a liar and fatmouth and everything was based onlies. This happens in person too so could just be my ****ty dating life! LOL |
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I believe it can, and does, happen. It certainly did for me. Without any doubt at all, I loved my partner before I met him. I think it depends on how wide your definition of love is. If you've got 'love' and 'relationship' all neatly defined in a tiny little box and can't see any other angles besides all the pre-conceived ideals you hold, then I doubt falling in love in non-conventional ways will work for you. met my bf on here.. loved him before i met him.. was friends first and grew to more as time went on.. when we met.. the feelings just intinsified. |
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Agree with both Paper and Dan. There are many stories with many different outcomes. Hey Dan .. good times @ the Dublin House eh? Yeah, except when i spoilt it.. http://s178.photobucket.com/albums/w268/TBone_067/?action=view¤t=af80cdb7.flv Having been a karaoke host for nearly ten years....I can officially say..... I have heard worse, Dan. |
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