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anyone notice her account has been deactivated? Well now that you mention it.....I also noted she edited her post in 2009, hahahhaa, but interesting that this thread was found from so far back. But i do think it is a great topic actually. Weird though someone would pull a thread up from so long ago. . .Now that is BORED! |
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Methinks anything can Kill Love If you let "It" kill it.  Methinks you are right 
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Methinks anything can Kill Love If you let "It" kill it. Methinks you are right True, Luis. But also, sometimes people learn an important lesson too. That lesson can allow the same love to blossom again. You can't force it to, but you have to keep faith. When you see it re-kindling, you have to be willing to fight for it like you will never have another chance. At least, that is what happened to me. I am very glad I learned what I did. I am very glad I was given a second chance. And I am very glad I fought for it, just as I will need to continuing doing from here on. The will to fight for it might be there The chance to use the will to do so ... might not Good luck to you man! |
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No! Distance CANNOT kill love. Neither can time. ...real love lasts. It ain't easy and it ain't for the faint of heart. It hurts but feels sooooo right. It is feeling lonely when you hang up....but that is better than feeling lonely sleeping in the same bed with someone who just doesn't care anymore. Being close is no guarantee..... If you ain't willing to suffer and endure for what you desire....then you want convenience.... An eye opener for me.  On the verge of giving up in this LDR but my man constantly eases negative feelings I sometimes have about this...bracing myself for a longer battle 
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I'm not sure if distance can kill love, but most of us need some sort of physical contact (even if a hug) in a relationship. Not being there in person can create all kinds of issues. Personally I need a person to be living close to me for me to want to start a relationship, otherwise it's kind of a joke. I don't live in dreamy dreamy land so I can't imagine falling for somebody far away, but I know that many others on dating sites can. I'm too much of a realist. I don't believe that people can be so rarely wonderful that I would'nt be able to find one nearby.  Damn I have always lived in Dreamy Dreamy land, probably how i ended up thinking this can work..  But I love him so it doesnt matter, and he is so rarely wonderful that i know i wont be able to find anyone like him anywhere. Josie, you sound like someone else I know (at least she is in private). And now I feel the same way about her.  It's a great feeling, isn't it?   For sure
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Methinks anything can Kill Love If you let "It" kill it. Methinks you are right True, Luis. But also, sometimes people learn an important lesson too. That lesson can allow the same love to blossom again. You can't force it to, but you have to keep faith. When you see it re-kindling, you have to be willing to fight for it like you will never have another chance. At least, that is what happened to me. I am very glad I learned what I did. I am very glad I was given a second chance. And I am very glad I fought for it, just as I will need to continuing doing from here on. The will to fight for it might be there The chance to use the will to do so ... might not: Good luck to you man! Sometimes, people are to scared to take the chance or arnt ready to commit,and if one is and one isnt then it's hard and wont work, only friendship will. 
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I understand, Luis....but who knows? Things could change. If not, there must be someone else out there for you. In the meantime, you have all of us.
 (Psst. Ladies, the line forms to the right...) |
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Edited by
josie68
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Sat 04/09/11 05:38 PM
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I understand, Luis....but who knows? Things could change. If not, there must be someone else out there for you. In the meantime, you have all of us. (Psst. Ladies, the line forms to the right...) Like anyone is going to jump on Romeo's line, It's too long to see the end, everyone is lined up for miles waiting for him to glance their way 
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Yeah, I just wanted to give him a laugh.
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Yeah, I just wanted to give him a laugh. yep his picture is soooooo serious, come on Romeo, give us a smiley face
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Am here for u luis don't worry everything will be fine
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if the love by heart then u feel flying like bird. then u sleep every day with them. if u feel hang then don,t sleep with them and distance increase love and heart beat, more attention
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Am here for u luis don't worry everything will be fine Yeah, Luis....here is someone for you!!! A match made in Heaven, DTHRomeo and Romeo4reel!!  
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Am here for u luis don't worry everything will be fine Yeah, Luis....here is someone for you!!! A match made in Heaven, DTHRomeo and Romeo4reel!!  |
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Edited by
josie68
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Am here for u luis don't worry everything will be fine Yeah, Luis....here is someone for you!!! A match made in Heaven, DTHRomeo and Romeo4reel!! What and break all the girls hearts... Nope romeo has to stay single , just to keep everyones hopes up. |
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Edited by
krupa
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Sun 04/10/11 04:27 PM
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Don't be b!tches and break the young guys spirits yet...
:) (That comes later) |
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No! Distance CANNOT kill love. Neither can time. ...real love lasts. It ain't easy and it ain't for the faint of heart. It hurts but feels sooooo right. It is feeling lonely when you hang up....but that is better than feeling lonely sleeping in the same bed with someone who just doesn't care anymore. Being close is no guarantee..... If you ain't willing to suffer and endure for what you desire....then you want convenience.... An eye opener for me. On the verge of giving up in this LDR but my man constantly eases negative feelings I sometimes have about this...bracing myself for a longer battle Think about where you are...think about what you need...think about what you desire..... If your man still soothes you with a simple call.....you are headed in the right direction. Distance is never easy......ask the men who discovered new worlds. |
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Thank you guys  There is no need for any sort of analytical responses , and forget about those who do the "you may/you may not" sort of thing, because that will leave you where you are right now. Here is the answer: yes It will die off after a while and it will go off faster, the longer you won't see him. Emails, chit-chats, phone calls are no substitute either. Forget about the whole thing, if you or your loved one has no plans and no way to move together within months. |
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Thank you guys There is no need for any sort of analytical responses , and forget about those who do the "you may/you may not" sort of thing, because that will leave you where you are right now. Here is the answer: yes It will die off after a while and it will go off faster, the longer you won't see him. Emails, chit-chats, phone calls are no substitute either. Forget about the whole thing, if you or your loved one has no plans and no way to move together within months. After all this time, we still disagree on this matter.....Captain and I are still together and still 2500 miles apart after 3 1/2 years.
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Edited by
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Thank you guys There is no need for any sort of analytical responses , and forget about those who do the "you may/you may not" sort of thing, because that will leave you where you are right now. Here is the answer: yes It will die off after a while and it will go off faster, the longer you won't see him. Emails, chit-chats, phone calls are no substitute either. Forget about the whole thing, if you or your loved one has no plans and no way to move together within months. After all this time, we still disagree on this matter.....Captain and I are still together and still 2500 miles apart after 3 1/2 years. Ok, but it depends on what kind of a relationship we are talking about. Others wouldn't be comfortable in that sort of relationship. No offense. I couldn't do it, and I won't.
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