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tessa68 Joined Sun 10/01/06 Posts: 1699	Thu 02/12/09 05:23 AM
how to get rid out of the past and move on?how to gain back "trust" as well?

Citizen_Joe Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 4036	Thu 02/12/09 05:25 AM
how to get rid out of the past and move on?how to gain back "trust" as well? Have a klondike bar.

Puffins1958 Joined Tue 02/27/07 Posts: 13637	Thu 02/12/09 05:29 AM
Trust is a big thing. I'm sure it won't be easy, do it slowly, a little at a time.

galendgirl Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 24728	Thu 02/12/09 05:31 AM
how to get rid out of the past and move on?how to gain back "trust" as well? With the same person???

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Thu 02/12/09 05:32 AM
how to get rid out of the past and move on?how to gain back "trust" as well? Can you be a little more explicit?

aLittleBird Joined Sat 01/05/08 Posts: 2515	Thu 02/12/09 05:35 AM
trust no one.

Alzeimer Joined Thu 10/23/08 Posts: 2268	Thu 02/12/09 05:35 AM
how to get rid out of the past and move on?how to gain back "trust" as well? Very hard but have no choice, understand the reason why and accept it and as for the trust your the only one that can lose it or gain it other people can influence you but your the last one to decide.

TheresMyFriend Joined Sat 05/19/07 Posts: 2565	Thu 02/12/09 06:00 AM
how to get rid out of the past and move on?how to gain back "trust" as well? T I M E !

Mayhem_J Joined Mon 07/21/08 Posts: 14265	Thu 02/12/09 06:05 AM
Go get a kick ass tattoo.

74Drew Joined Thu 01/22/09 Posts: 4901	Thu 02/12/09 06:06 AM
you don't get past your past, you embrace it. it makes you who you are. if you don't like who you are, make changes so that you can become someone that you like. if you've made errors in your past, reflect on those errors and try not to repeat them.

Krimsa Joined Fri 04/25/08 Posts: 9960	Thu 02/12/09 06:13 AM
how to get rid out of the past and move on?how to gain back "trust" as well? You cant and to deny your past would be an exercise in futility. Your past life experiences, both good and bad, create who you are today as an individual. Its up to you to now move forward and to access these life experiences when you need them. You may not realize that you are even doing this yet you are constantly on a subconscious level. You touched the stove and you got burned. Now you know not to touch the hot stove again, even if it looks red and pretty. Remember, you will make new mistakes and vast errors in judgment. That is part of being human.

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Thu 02/12/09 06:19 AM
how to get rid out of the past and move on?how to gain back "trust" as well? You cant and to deny your past would be an exercise in futility. Your past life experiences, both good and bad, create who you are today as an individual. Its up to you to now move forward and to access these life experiences when you need them. You may not realize that you are even doing this yet you are constantly on a subconscious level. You touched the stove and you got burned. Now you know not to touch the hot stove again, even if it looks red and pretty. Remember, you will make new mistakes and vast errors in judgment. That is part of being human. does your brain ever rest

tessa68 Joined Sun 10/01/06 Posts: 1699	Thu 02/12/09 06:26 AM
how to get rid out of the past and move on?how to gain back "trust" as well? You cant and to deny your past would be an exercise in futility. Your past life experiences, both good and bad, create who you are today as an individual. Its up to you to now move forward and to access these life experiences when you need them. You may not realize that you are even doing this yet you are constantly on a subconscious level. You touched the stove and you got burned. Now you know not to touch the hot stove again, even if it looks red and pretty. Remember, you will make new mistakes and vast errors in judgment. That is part of being human. does your brain ever rest

Krimsa Joined Fri 04/25/08 Posts: 9960	Thu 02/12/09 06:29 AM
Common sense is not always so common I guess. Anyway Im not telling you anything you dont know. Just open yourself up to it is the best advice really. The alternative is living a nice, safe little existence locked up in an apartment with 15 cats.

agbbieannie Joined Thu 02/21/08 Posts: 942	Thu 02/12/09 06:31 AM
Trust is earned. Moving on takes time. And in doing it make yourself a priority. Take time to pamper yourself. And take time to realize how imporant you are. Healing does not happen over night. Trust is earned.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Thu 02/12/09 06:35 AM
By making several threads about it

markc48 Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 5536	Thu 02/12/09 06:41 AM
trust no one. Always have a backup plan.

tessa68 Joined Sun 10/01/06 Posts: 1699	Thu 02/12/09 06:43 AM
trust no one. Always have a backup plan. back up plan?

aLittleBird Joined Sat 01/05/08 Posts: 2515	Thu 02/12/09 08:11 AM Edited by aLittleBird on Thu 02/12/09 08:18 AM
trust no one. Always have a backup plan.

aLittleBird Joined Sat 01/05/08 Posts: 2515	Thu 02/12/09 08:12 AM
Go get a kick ass tattoo. for sure!! (haven't started the new one yet...soon though!!)