And cute to boot!

That's true too!

Sometimes it is better not to know. If they want out, I have to let them out. I would not badger them on why.

When it comes to a time within a relationship that one or both wants out honestly what more can be said that has not already been said or done. Is there any thing else that could in fact change that persons feelings and make them want to stay?

When it comes to that point, it does not matter what you say or do if they no longer have the feelings for you that at one time they did or thought they did there is nothing that will make them see any different.

If that person does not want to be with you any longer and they are miserable within the relationship. No matter what you say you will do to keep them there it will never work. If in fact it was due to something you either did that bothered them or did not do. Regardless in the long run one will go back to being the person they are.

If it is due to and affair with someone else then once the trust and respect goes out the door it's very hard for most to get past those issues.

Not saying they can not but I will bet about 85% that do try to continue the relationship after and affair end up going their own ways in the end.

Just because you love someone and don't want it to end there is nothing you can do to make another love you back the same way. Either they love you and want to be with you or they feel as if they are trapped and want out.

As the saying goes set them free and if they come back to you then it is because they realize it is you they wanted after all. But if in fact they leave and never look back then what you thought was there was not what it seemed.


This only works if in fact one is willing to take the other one back after they walk out the door.

My self when I reach that point and tell someone it's over then it's over. For at that time I have already done and said all I can to try to make it work. Once I have analyzed it to death and see no other solution to the problems that in fact have caused me to have a change of heart about the one I'm with then my mind is set.

You can't make anyone love you and I don't want anyone to stay with me that does not want to be there. Nor will I stay with another that throws respect and trust out the door and makes the choice to sleep with someone else when in fact they are in a relationship with me.

Yeah right. Cute.

Hey I don't hand out compliments lightly! Maybe a tad bad at spelling.lmao You seem like a nice guy put yourself out there!

While I wouldn't ever let it get to the point of stalking and/or having them require a change of address and phone number, neither would I be willing to let the one I love go without making some sort of effort and demonstration of my love.

My relationship and my guy are far too special and I would not ever want to look back and wonder if it could have been saved, but for my unwillingness to show and admit my need and love for him.

If he were able to look at me and tell me that he did not love me any longer, and that he did not need or want me in his life, then I'd go.