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Topic: Some Advice Would Be Nice.
SimplyElla's photo
Wed 03/04/09 08:50 PM
Edited by SimplyElla on Wed 03/04/09 08:58 PM
Girl meets boy.

Boy and girl hit it off.

Boy and girl hang out often at local pub.

Friend warns girl boy might be married with kids.

Boy has no ring and is openly flirty, openly.

Girl and guy become more friends than strangers at pub.

Others see the flirtiness and comment on its a positive thing.

Girl and boy share a nice kiss and closing time.

Boy goes in for more than pauses.

Boy tells girl he never felt like this before.

Boy says he is married with kids.

Girl throws up right there, literally.




Who is at fault for the stupidity, girl for being warned and ignoring it or boy for not fully being upfront? Replies Please.


And why does this always happen to this girl... its not the first guy to end up married! Men, grr, I mean married men grr...

Mon1957's photo
Wed 03/04/09 08:53 PM
Both are at fault. When girl was warned she should have asked him about it straight up. Guy is at fault for putting himself in that position without advising girl of it.

Dan99's photo
Wed 03/04/09 08:54 PM
Im not sure who is the most stupid, but throwing up there and then is some reaction.

Hopefully you got it all over his shoes.

CleanBathroom's photo
Wed 03/04/09 08:57 PM
Depends what she ate. Maybe it was just food poisoning.

Seriously though, I think he is more to blame. Ignoring the friend's warning is not a moral offense. She is only to blame for hurting herself. The relationship not being viable is totally - 100% - HIS fault.

SimplyElla's photo
Wed 03/04/09 09:00 PM
Girl noticed no ring and Boy's openess on flirting with the girl at a very popular pub. Girl simply took it as if Boy was married Boy would not be so stupid to be so bold with Girl.

Thanks my loves... hope more info comes along....

no photo
Wed 03/04/09 09:05 PM
95%him and 5% you but when your looking for a mate its hard no to see the truth.flowerforyou

ReddBeans's photo
Wed 03/04/09 09:07 PM
I personally would have asked him after bein told he was married. He's so far in the wrong it ain't even funny. He knew full well what he was doin.smokin

Adamal29's photo
Wed 03/04/09 09:09 PM
Had the same thing happen to me once, but the only thing I was mad at was the fact that I bought her so many drinks.

Voluptuous's photo
Wed 03/04/09 09:11 PM
Girls that hang out at local pubs and kiss strangers dont have the right to feel betrayed or be angry with boy.
Girl shouldn't be doing such if she knows better.
Boy is just gross.
Boy thinks with little head.

Muchacho's photo
Wed 03/04/09 09:12 PM
he should have kept his ring on the dummy

awolf1010's photo
Wed 03/04/09 09:13 PM
I agree with CB next time skip the sushi before going out!!!

SimplyElla's photo
Wed 03/04/09 09:14 PM
After the kiss and whole shabang Boy stated that he didn't know how it got to that point and hopes Girl has no hard feelings and nothing changes with them, that all stays normal... There was no normal.. it started weeks ago with fliritng and enduendos(ms?).. wth ha ha.. Ok ok.. Girl at some fault.. for thinking Boy could have a brain up there and Boy at fault for rest.. BS man..

Beans is right it's not funny.. It's embarassing and uncalled for

SimplyElla's photo
Wed 03/04/09 09:15 PM

Had the same thing happen to me once, but the only thing I was mad at was the fact that I bought her so many drinks.


laugh dang yeah... it's crazy.. luckily for Girl no one bought anyone one else anything.. so no money lost..

darkowl1's photo
Wed 03/04/09 09:18 PM
Edited by darkowl1 on Wed 03/04/09 09:21 PM
you really threw up?laugh laugh on him i hopelaugh laugh laugh right on his tentlaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh and he had to go home to his wifelaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh with puke-wenislaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

daddy, what's that??rofl rofl rofl rofl :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: <--bananas holding puke wenis

SimplyElla's photo
Wed 03/04/09 09:20 PM

Girls that hang out at local pubs and kiss strangers dont have the right to feel betrayed or be angry with boy.
Girl shouldn't be doing such if she knows better.
Boy is just gross.
Boy thinks with little head.


So it is okay what happened on his side because of the girl he met was at a pub? Girls who enjoy social scenes and spend well deserved time with friends at pubs, don't deserve to have negative feelings?

The two weren't strangers. Was noted above how they became closer. The two knew each other for weeks as in almost two months and shares one deep kiss.. and she should know better?

SimplyElla's photo
Wed 03/04/09 09:23 PM

you really threw up?laugh laugh on him i hopelaugh laugh laugh right on his tentlaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh and he had to go home to his wifelaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh with puke-wenislaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

daddy, what's that??rofl rofl rofl rofl :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:


rant offtopic rant

OWL!!! Stop it!!! Ha ha.

You missed the whole point. Ha ha. Glad you got some amusement out of it, tisk tisk. Yes though, girl threw up between Boy and herself. Luckily Girl had shorts and flip flops on. Girl thought is repulsive that Boy was married. Yuck!

tongue2

darkowl1's photo
Wed 03/04/09 09:24 PM
Edited by darkowl1 on Wed 03/04/09 09:28 PM
girl was single, guy wasn't. girl just wanted a date, horny maybe. guy just a damn dog..........he should leave the wife before he gets them all hep C. guy 90% at fault, girl, 10%


Ella, nt ntt ntt......... you know i don't miss a thing. my spirit is that of an extinct velociraptor implanted in this body.......

SimplyElla's photo
Wed 03/04/09 09:26 PM

girl was single, guy wasn't. girl just wanted a date, horny maybe. guy just a damn dog..........he should leave the wife before he gets them all hep C. guy 90% at fault, girl, 10%



grumble I am not liking your advice tonight.

Ha ha Er, Thanks for sharing it though..

darkowl1's photo
Wed 03/04/09 09:32 PM


girl was single, guy wasn't. girl just wanted a date, horny maybe. guy just a damn dog..........he should leave the wife before he gets them all hep C. guy 90% at fault, girl, 10%



grumble I am not liking your advice tonight.

Ha ha Er, Thanks for sharing it though..


girl not at fault! nnoooo maaammm! what don't you like about that? i call em as i see em, and i don't judge the guy either, a fact's a fact. we all know that most cheaters follow their wenis to the girls, like too-can sam follows his nose to the fruit loops

Jimmy59's photo
Wed 03/04/09 09:33 PM
Nothing wrong with making friends. The fact of the matter is that it is his bad noit yours. We live and learn hun so take what you have learned and move on to the next one !!smokin

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