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Topic: how do you know
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Thu 03/05/09 07:22 AM

how do you know that the person you have met online doesnt have herpes,i mean lets face it eventually with hope there will be sex,but how is one to know that the person isnt carrying a disease that will effect you for the rest of your life..
do you go down there with a miner's hat and inspect,is there any kind of test like a strip of litmus paper that you can insert and check against the color strip on the bottle that will tell you
do you have them show up with the results of a recent doctors exam..are there dogs that sniff it out(o.k a bit extreme)lol..hmmm maybe not..
the thought of contracting a life time disease has totally put me off from sex (damn)..and lets face it asking someone and expecting the truth relies too much on other peoples honesty..
so the question is:how do you assure yourself that the person you are about to have sex with isnt carrying a disease:

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Thu 03/05/09 07:23 AM
Yeah like Riahna

DragonFlyTat's photo
Thu 03/05/09 07:26 AM
Hopefully you would get to know this person very well before it moves to that point and can trust them if not suggest that you both get check out and give the results to each other. I am sure they are wondering the same thing about you.

Mr_Music's photo
Thu 03/05/09 07:28 AM
What's the difference if it's somebody you meet online, or somebody you meet in the grocery store?

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Thu 03/05/09 07:31 AM
Yeah, really. How is it going to be any different no matter where you meet someone?

franshade's photo
Thu 03/05/09 07:38 AM

What's the difference if it's somebody you meet online, or somebody you meet in the grocery store?


no difference but cheaper in grocery store laugh


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Thu 03/05/09 07:40 AM

sing..because if its someone youve met on-line its less likely that you will see them enough times to get an idea of their lifestyle unless they live close to you,but if its a relationship spannned by distance then its harder to investigate ..i.e as in stalking,lol checking out friends they hang with..and just basically getting a more indepth idea of what they are about

Winx's photo
Thu 03/05/09 07:52 AM
Edited by Winx on Thu 03/05/09 07:58 AM
Tom,

I have a few friends that got herpes. One lived with the man. One was engaged. One had the long term bf.

Use protection.

Food for thought.



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Thu 03/05/09 07:57 AM


how do you know that the person you have met online doesnt have herpes,i mean lets face it eventually with hope there will be sex,but how is one to know that the person isnt carrying a disease that will effect you for the rest of your life..
do you go down there with a miner's hat and inspect,is there any kind of test like a strip of litmus paper that you can insert and check against the color strip on the bottle that will tell you
do you have them show up with the results of a recent doctors exam..are there dogs that sniff it out(o.k a bit extreme)lol..hmmm maybe not..
the thought of contracting a life time disease has totally put me off from sex (damn)..and lets face it asking someone and expecting the truth relies too much on other peoples honesty..
so the question is:how do you assure yourself that the person you are about to have sex with isnt carrying a disease:

If that has turned you off from having sex, then YOU are not ready to have sex.

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Thu 03/05/09 07:58 AM


sing..because if its someone youve met on-line its less likely that you will see them enough times to get an idea of their lifestyle unless they live close to you,but if its a relationship spannned by distance then its harder to investigate ..i.e as in stalking,lol checking out friends they hang with..and just basically getting a more indepth idea of what they are about


So, you think you can tell that someone has something by seeing them more often?

Jungian101's photo
Thu 03/05/09 07:59 AM
she just not ready, come on, she doesn't even post a picture.

BigGlenn's photo
Thu 03/05/09 08:00 AM
Suddenly I feel like showering.

Jungian101's photo
Thu 03/05/09 08:01 AM
make sure you scrub them chicken mc nuggets laugh

BigGlenn's photo
Thu 03/05/09 08:02 AM

make sure you scrub them chicken mc nuggets laugh


Got the SHAMWOW and I'm good to go.

Jungian101's photo
Thu 03/05/09 08:04 AM
whooo - Yaaaa !!!! :banana:

iamgeorgiagirl's photo
Thu 03/05/09 08:06 AM
For Heaven's sake...it doesn't matter where you meet someone they can still have a disease and not tell you...come on now...you know what to do...either abstain or wear a raincoat when you venture into the wet unknown...


*Geez*


BigGlenn's photo
Thu 03/05/09 08:07 AM

For Heaven's sake...it doesn't matter where you meet someone they can still have a disease and not tell you...come on now...you know what to do...either abstain or wear a raincoat when you venture into the wet unknown...


*Geez*




wet unknown laugh

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Thu 03/05/09 08:18 AM

For Heaven's sake...it doesn't matter where you meet someone they can still have a disease and not tell you...come on now...you know what to do...either abstain or wear a raincoat when you venture into the wet unknown...

VERY VERY SMART WOMAN HERE......GREAT WORDS OF WISDOM.............
*Geez*



Riding_Dubz's photo
Thu 03/05/09 08:20 AM
you think to much, drinker

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Thu 03/05/09 11:57 AM
I usually just ask them....."Do you have herpes or any other communicable diseases"????

In this day and age it is always safer to use condoms. If I were to have sex without I would make us both get tested before any such things occured.

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