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Topic: Marriage
Peccy's photo
Mon 03/16/09 12:20 AM
means you fell in love, so I guess divorce means you climbed out of it?

justinc1431's photo
Mon 03/16/09 12:23 AM
Just means you wasted 6 years of your life... in my case.

Queene123's photo
Mon 03/16/09 12:27 AM

means you fell in love, so I guess divorce means you climbed out of it?


in my case i wasted 2yrs of a relationship with my ex hubby before we got married. only thing that came out of it that was good was my son..
i had kicked my ex hubby out of the house 4 differnt times and the 4th was the last. we didnt even celebrate out 1st annerversary together...

Peccy's photo
Mon 03/16/09 12:30 AM

Just means you wasted 6 years of your life... in my case.
7 in mine.....lol

MmmmHmmm's photo
Mon 03/16/09 12:30 AM
marriage doesnt really mean you fell in love... possibly you got pregnant and didnt have another option???

MelodyGirl's photo
Mon 03/16/09 12:35 AM

Just means you wasted 6 years of your life... in my case.


I am so sorry you had a bad break up. flowerforyou

Don't think of your experience as a waste of 6 years. Think of that time as a lesson! You can learn from it, and grow as a person! You will know yourself better and you won't repeat the same mistakes.

I was in a 6 year relationship. We never married and that was my fault for waiting and waiting. I should have walked after the first year. I know better now but I wouldn't erase those years for anything in the world!

All relationships, even the disfunctional ones, make you the person you are right now! You will meet someone that will appreciate you and benefit from your experience. winking

Warm hugs for you! :heart:

Queene123's photo
Mon 03/16/09 12:35 AM

marriage doesnt really mean you fell in love... possibly you got pregnant and didnt have another option???

say what? you dont have to get married because of a child.... i got married after my son was born..
there is another option.YOU DONT HAVE TO GET MARRIED!!!!!!!!
i didnt marry my daughter dad

Peccy's photo
Mon 03/16/09 12:35 AM

marriage doesnt really mean you fell in love... possibly you got pregnant and didnt have another option???
nope, pretty sure I wasn't pregnant.

MmmmHmmm's photo
Mon 03/16/09 12:37 AM


marriage doesnt really mean you fell in love... possibly you got pregnant and didnt have another option???

say what? you dont have to get married because of a child.... i got married after my son was born..
there is another option.YOU DONT HAVE TO GET MARRIED!!!!!!!!
i didnt marry my daughter dad


that may be true... but at times you dont realize all options... and circumstances do vary...

MmmmHmmm's photo
Mon 03/16/09 12:38 AM


marriage doesnt really mean you fell in love... possibly you got pregnant and didnt have another option???
nope, pretty sure I wasn't pregnant.


i didnt mean you peccy... i meant a girl... and actually was referring to myself.

PacificStar48's photo
Mon 03/16/09 12:38 AM


Just means you wasted 6 years of your life... in my case.


I am so sorry you had a bad break up. flowerforyou

Don't think of your experience as a waste of 6 years. Think of that time as a lesson! You can learn from it, and grow as a person! You will know yourself better and you won't repeat the same mistakes.

I was in a 6 year relationship. We never married and that was my fault for waiting and waiting. I should have walked after the first year. I know better now but I wouldn't erase those years for anything in the world!

All relationships, even the disfunctional ones, make you the person you are right now! You will meet someone that will appreciate you and benefit from your experience. winking

Well said Melody. ^5!
Warm hugs for you! :heart:

CleanBathroom's photo
Mon 03/16/09 12:38 AM
I did 15 hard years. This site is kinda like parole for me; except in here, I'm allowed to hang out with known felons. :tongue:

Peccy's photo
Mon 03/16/09 12:40 AM



marriage doesnt really mean you fell in love... possibly you got pregnant and didnt have another option???
nope, pretty sure I wasn't pregnant.


i didnt mean you peccy... i meant a girl... and actually was referring to myself.
I know, damn I'm not that dense....well all the time at least!

CleanBathroom's photo
Mon 03/16/09 12:40 AM


Just means you wasted 6 years of your life... in my case.


I am so sorry you had a bad break up. flowerforyou

Don't think of your experience as a waste of 6 years. Think of that time as a lesson! You can learn from it, and grow as a person! You will know yourself better and you won't repeat the same mistakes.

I was in a 6 year relationship. We never married and that was my fault for waiting and waiting. I should have walked after the first year. I know better now but I wouldn't erase those years for anything in the world!

All relationships, even the disfunctional ones, make you the person you are right now! You will meet someone that will appreciate you and benefit from your experience. winking

Warm hugs for you! :heart:


I'd bet your hair smells good. bigsmile

MelodyGirl's photo
Mon 03/16/09 12:41 AM



Just means you wasted 6 years of your life... in my case.


I am so sorry you had a bad break up. flowerforyou

Don't think of your experience as a waste of 6 years. Think of that time as a lesson! You can learn from it, and grow as a person! You will know yourself better and you won't repeat the same mistakes.

I was in a 6 year relationship. We never married and that was my fault for waiting and waiting. I should have walked after the first year. I know better now but I wouldn't erase those years for anything in the world!

All relationships, even the disfunctional ones, make you the person you are right now! You will meet someone that will appreciate you and benefit from your experience. winking

Warm hugs for you! :heart:


I'd bet your hair smells good. bigsmile


OMG, you are such an uber goober! :heart:

CleanBathroom's photo
Mon 03/16/09 12:47 AM
According to Merriam-Webster, 5th edition:

Uber Goober: A stallion of a man who secretly pines to wear random womens' St. Patrick's Day hats.

MelodyGirl's photo
Mon 03/16/09 12:53 AM

According to Merriam-Webster, 5th edition:

Uber Goober: A stallion of a man who secretly pines to wear random womens' St. Patrick's Day hats.


Geezus! Now you are making me laugh out loud! rofl

You silly string! tongue2 :laughing:

Jess642's photo
Mon 03/16/09 01:31 AM
Nope...I stepped in 'respectability'... and it took 18 years to scrape off my shoe.

scoundrel's photo
Mon 03/16/09 01:33 AM

means you fell in love, so I guess divorce means you climbed out of it?


Love alone is not sufficient to build upon. Commitment, trust, and wisdom with leadership and daring; above all, the grace of God which brings blessings to bloom amid trials and hardships; shared goals, pursued in unity of faith with each other; and the acceptance of any lot in life as being this: A bowl of meal in a marriage blessed with the above/foregoing is better by far than rich steak in a castle bereft of togetherness.

IndnPrncs's photo
Mon 03/16/09 01:42 AM
I wasn't in love, I just did what I thought was the right thing...

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