Why is it so difficult for a person not to respond back to a email even if it is to say that i am not interested.

its difficult to tell who's honest and sensere and who isnt. jmo

Sometimes I get messages from people commenting on my pictures and then telling me all about themselves. I look at what they said and what they say in their profile and can find no commonalities or anything to start a conversation with.

I have to believe that the person never read my profile or they would have realized there was nothing to catch my interest in even exchanging emails. I don't see the need to email back.

I have a few times. Until I get the same exact thing from to many people in a row and get tired of it.

maybe cuz you haven't written to the right people?
It is a hit or miss thing on the internet
Good luck to ya

1. Some folks are rude.

2. Some are shy.

3. Some may think you're a perv.

It really depends on what you say. If I get someone that says "Hey babe, wanna chat?" Most of the time I'm not going to reply unless there is something about their profile that really jumps out. Or, if I do reply it will be a simple to the point answer.

But, if someone takes the time to write an actual email with a little bit of thought, I'll answer. It's rude not to.

That's just me though.

You are so correct but i do belive in letting a person know that you were thinking about them and maybe wanted top say hello. I guess i am old school. Thanks for your imput

Or maybe some people think they are better than. God created everyone equal the last time i checked

I see these are the new "nice guy" threads.

Ohh... be nice.

Now you see what i mean lol

No response seems to be the method, makes no sense, but that's the way it is

Well damn, Pats... if you would even just send me a damn email I'd reply.

Now i feel like cupid . Go Pats lol

I think its about timing and if you are attracted to the person whi is emailing you...

LMAO Nooooo... Pats just hates me from afar!

You are right but a not interested reply is better than no reply. God bless

Don't ever give up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Actually I do try to respond to all my emails. I have to admit I hate the new nudge feature on here. I forget that one all the time.

I will eventually not respond to a set of emails coming from the same person saying the same things over and over. I had some from a guy that has now deactivated that would send me the same bloody email over and over. I answered it twice the third time I just told him that he needed to come up with something new.. Damned if he didn't send the same one back a gain. LOL...


I don't think it has anything to do with being better than someone else.

I think you gotta point there...not interested reply is better than no reply...it's just down right inconsiderate...jmho

Because they alway want to know WHY you're not interested. Then they think of something mean to say back. Just LET IT GO and move one people!