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Topic: What are we looking for?
slipslide1968's photo
Wed 03/18/09 10:27 AM
Everyone in my age group seems to be looking for the perfect person. Well that's not me. I have alot of good qualities. I'm not well off. I'm not tall. I am handsome. Atleast that's what they say. Why are so many people searching for a dream and not reality. Reality is this. Stop trying to mold a mate and you can have a successfull relationship. Most people can't live up to a majority of standards. So why can't we look in the heart rather than in our dreams. Me! I am looking for a person who can be realistic. I'm a knight, just not the one we're taught to want.

Peace

lilith401's photo
Wed 03/18/09 10:28 AM
Welcome.

prisoner's photo
Wed 03/18/09 10:35 AM
:smile: the taco salad is really good here be seeing you

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Wed 03/18/09 10:41 AM
No one that I know is a looking for a perfect person. Anyone with half a brain realizes perfection does not exist.

People usually say what you're saying because they've not had much success dating. What most of them mean is why is no one that I want looking for me?

7z3r05's photo
Wed 03/18/09 10:46 AM
interesting entrance.

welcome.

PATSFAN's photo
Wed 03/18/09 10:47 AM
I'm not looking for anything

Riding_Dubz's photo
Wed 03/18/09 10:47 AM
he said taco'slaugh devil


hello and welcome :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: waving

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Wed 03/18/09 10:51 AM
love I like soft tacos. love

lilith401's photo
Wed 03/18/09 10:51 AM

love I like soft tacos. love


With sour cream....:tongue:

7z3r05's photo
Wed 03/18/09 10:52 AM
mmmm.... making me hungry...

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Wed 03/18/09 10:54 AM

7z3r05's photo
Wed 03/18/09 10:54 AM
C://skillz

seahawks's photo
Wed 03/18/09 10:56 AM


laugh laugh laugh laugh

Destin2gocrazy's photo
Wed 03/18/09 11:15 AM
awwww u had to go talk about tacos- I had fish for lunch!

BTW- Welcome. I am kinda new here. I am not looking for anyone perfect.. thats scaryhuh

74Drew's photo
Wed 03/18/09 11:16 AM
Edited by 74Drew on Wed 03/18/09 11:21 AM

Everyone in my age group seems to be looking for the perfect person. Well that's not me. I have alot of good qualities. I'm not well off. I'm not tall. I am handsome. Atleast that's what they say. Why are so many people searching for a dream and not reality. Reality is this. Stop trying to mold a mate and you can have a successfull relationship. Most people can't live up to a majority of standards. So why can't we look in the heart rather than in our dreams. Me! I am looking for a person who can be realistic. I'm a knight, just not the one we're taught to want.

Peace


it seems to me that many people, after years of finding what they don't want, up their standards instead of changing their standards. it appears that younger women may have been content with the bad boy even if he didn't have a job or his own place, etc. as those women have gotten older they've grown to realize that they no longer desire the bad boy, and now they want a guy with his own place, a decent job, and decent money. add to that all of the other characteristics that each individual woman wants, and you have many women searching for Mr. Perfect in his blemish free armor, riding in on his white horse, leading a procession of gold filled wagons, coming to pick them up and take them to his castle that sits atop a hill overlooking his entire kingdom.
as for men, i don't know about anyone else, but i used to be content with just an attractive girl. it didn't matter if she was smart or even tempered or chaste. pretty was good enough for me. now, i want pretty and smart and even tempered and a fair amount of virtue. and if she has a job that pays well and can support me so that i don't have to work, that's awesome too.
welcome to fairy tale land.



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Wed 03/18/09 12:07 PM
Im looking for chinese mystical powers........should I go to craigslist???surprised

74Drew's photo
Wed 03/18/09 12:10 PM

Im looking for chinese mystical powers........should I go to craigslist???surprised


you might find some "herbal remedies" that make you think you have chinese mystical powers.
laugh laugh shocked


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SitkaRains's photo
Wed 03/18/09 12:24 PM

Everyone in my age group seems to be looking for the perfect person. Well that's not me. I have alot of good qualities. I'm not well off. I'm not tall. I am handsome. Atleast that's what they say. Why are so many people searching for a dream and not reality. Reality is this. Stop trying to mold a mate and you can have a successfull relationship. Most people can't live up to a majority of standards. So why can't we look in the heart rather than in our dreams. Me! I am looking for a person who can be realistic. I'm a knight, just not the one we're taught to want.

Peace


Wow what an intriguing opening post with the header on your profile stating you are looking for intimate encounter... I peeked since I wanted to know what age group you were in.

Well I fall into this age group I have to disagree with you. I think most of us at this age know what we want and don't want in our lives. I don't think it has anything to do with Perfection I think it has to be with compatiblity. For example I know I am way past then age of casual sex if I was ever young enough I am not sure.

Good luck and Welcome to Mingle.

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Wed 03/18/09 12:25 PM
Did anyone notice the OP is looking for an intimate encounter? Perhaps what he means by everyone his age seems to be looking for perfection is that they don't want to just f*ck and go their separate ways.

7z3r05's photo
Wed 03/18/09 12:30 PM

Did anyone notice the OP is looking for an intimate encounter? Perhaps what he means by everyone his age seems to be looking for perfection is that they don't want to just f*ck and go their separate ways.


but isnt that perfection??

im confused.

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