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Topic: What would you do
Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Fri 03/27/09 03:16 PM Edited by Peccy on Fri 03/27/09 03:16 PM
in the event a partner cheated on you? Would it be a tit for tat situation or what?

Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Fri 03/27/09 03:18 PM
it takes two to tango

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Fri 03/27/09 03:19 PM
it takes two to tango or 3-4 to break dance........lol

Roweanne Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 437	Fri 03/27/09 03:21 PM
I don't know. I guess it would depend on how much time and emotion I had invested in the relationship. And the state of the relationship before he cheated.

Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Fri 03/27/09 03:21 PM
id probbally cry

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Fri 03/27/09 03:23 PM
id probbally cry awwwwwwwwwww there there dubz, it'll be ok.......

ReddBeans Joined Sat 10/27/07 Posts: 6930	Fri 03/27/09 03:23 PM
End it, eat sum chocolate and then get the hell on wit life. He screwed up not me

cityblues21 Joined Sat 07/05/08 Posts: 20033	Fri 03/27/09 03:23 PM
in the event a partner cheated on you? Would it be a tit for tat situation or what? It would just be over... No revenge cheating... Not going to make me feel better about the situation. They did what they wanted and made their choice.

ljcc1964 Joined Fri 10/19/07 Posts: 8298	Fri 03/27/09 03:24 PM
No. Tit for tat is for children. There are too many variables to give an answer. It would depend on many factors. But if forgiveness and working through it were not an option.....walking away is the only alternative. Revenge is a poison that would burn me as well as him.

quiet_2008 Joined Sat 08/30/08 Posts: 11138	Fri 03/27/09 03:24 PM
in the event a partner cheated on you? Would it be a tit for tat situation or what? that is enough to kill it. it would just end

7z3r05 Joined Thu 09/04/08 Posts: 9434	Fri 03/27/09 03:26 PM
it would be a tit situation. i dunno about tat.

Roweanne Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 437	Fri 03/27/09 03:26 PM
I think it's a Chinese proverb that says something like "he who plots revenge digs also his own grave" or something like that.

DTHRomeo Joined Wed 06/20/07 Posts: 43387	Fri 03/27/09 03:26 PM
in the event a partner cheated on you? Would it be a tit for tat situation or what? Probably the opposite i did the last time it happened Naw! no revenge Just walk away

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Fri 03/27/09 03:27 PM
I would just go do her mom and take pics a post them to a few porn sites! Nah...........my ex cheated and all I did was file for divorce. Pretty simple, hurt like hell though

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Fri 03/27/09 03:28 PM
in the event a partner cheated on you? Would it be a tit for tat situation or what? It would be over

lilbug Joined Wed 10/10/07 Posts: 14791	Fri 03/27/09 03:29 PM
Hit the road Jack and doncha come back no more.

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Fri 03/27/09 03:30 PM Edited by SitkaRains on Fri 03/27/09 04:09 PM
in the event a partner cheated on you? Would it be a tit for tat situation or what? Nope I value myself more than that actually. The relationship would be over though in a heartbeat. Since if my partner had to cheat then he didn't really want to be with me.

MelodyGirl Joined Sun 01/25/09 Posts: 9452	Fri 03/27/09 03:51 PM
in the event a partner cheated on you? Would it be a tit for tat situation or what? Tit for tat? That is such a game for ANY situation! If someone cheats, you leave unless you can completely forgive them. Seeking retribution is childish and unhealthy! I guess some people are wired to think 'tit for tat' is an acceptable reaction in life. For me, cheates are useless.

Cutiepieforyou Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 43085	Fri 03/27/09 03:53 PM
in the event a partner cheated on you? Would it be a tit for tat situation or what? No, not for me. I most probably would leave the person who cheated on me.

Redshirt Joined Tue 02/26/08 Posts: 2109	Fri 03/27/09 04:46 PM
in the event a partner cheated on you? Would it be a tit for tat situation or what? Simple answer...it is over!