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Topic: Blind emailing
Dan99's photo
Fri 04/03/09 06:27 PM
Blind emailing is what i call emailing somebody you are interested in solely from seeing a profile.

i.e not someone that you know from the forums.

This isnt something i have done a great deal of, and certainly not in a long time. But when i have tried it, i found it quite disconcerting, as it is really hard to get a response. Even when you say something interesting and witty.

I would say that i got about a 10% response rate, if that. No wonder i gave up on it pretty quickly.

What would you say your response rate is? (lets assume that a response of 'no thanks' or similar doesn't count).


PATSFAN's photo
Fri 04/03/09 06:29 PM
Hmm, my response rate has been extremely lowohwell

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Fri 04/03/09 06:31 PM
Seems to have worked out pretty well in my very limited experience. Didn't keep a tally but over 50%.

Dan99's photo
Fri 04/03/09 06:31 PM

Hmm, my response rate has been extremely lowohwell


Less than 10%?

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Fri 04/03/09 06:33 PM
My Braille Keyboard does a better job...

Dan99's photo
Fri 04/03/09 06:33 PM

Seems to have worked out pretty well in my very limited experience. Didn't keep a tally but over 50%.


I was forgetting that women would probably have a higher rate! Although maybe you are just good at it!


Dan99's photo
Fri 04/03/09 06:33 PM

Seems to have worked out pretty well in my very limited experience. Didn't keep a tally but over 50%.


I was forgetting that women would probably have a higher rate! Although maybe you are just good at it!


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Fri 04/03/09 06:34 PM
I agree. I don't like to get "blind" emails.
If you don't know me then why talk to me?


MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 04/03/09 06:34 PM
laugh I email them and add them to my favorites if they have nekkid pics on their profile or something really ****ed uplaugh

PATSFAN's photo
Fri 04/03/09 06:34 PM


Hmm, my response rate has been extremely lowohwell


Less than 10%?



No but close

Phuque2's photo
Fri 04/03/09 06:35 PM
Your rate may be better if you don't double type everything:laughing: rofl :laughing:

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Fri 04/03/09 06:36 PM

I agree. I don't like to get "blind" emails.
If you don't know me then why talk to me?



Well isn't that part of the purpose here? To get to know people? A good percentage of people don't post in the forums, they are here to find a date through profiles.

JMO, but I don't consider it a bad thing to get an email from someone who saw my profile and would like to get to know each other.

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Fri 04/03/09 06:37 PM
I like it when the lurkers hit me up...drool

beautyfrompain's photo
Fri 04/03/09 06:38 PM
I don't email people much, but I always get a response when I do....so far.

SitkaRains's photo
Fri 04/03/09 06:38 PM
I have only done it maybe a dozen times in over 2 years.

For the most part, a conversation did start. On 8 of them I am the one that drifted away as I got to know then. 2 I got only to a first meet. 2 I dated for awhile.

I rarely ever send out an email to someone unless I have something very specific to say.

woodford's photo
Fri 04/03/09 06:39 PM
this ties into the thought that I had conserning how many women will send off an email to initiate. I would have to agree that responce rate is low. say one in ten. *shrug*

MiiszKitty's photo
Fri 04/03/09 06:39 PM


I agree. I don't like to get "blind" emails.
If you don't know me then why talk to me?



Well isn't that part of the purpose here? To get to know people? A good percentage of people don't post in the forums, they are here to find a date through profiles.

JMO, but I don't consider it a bad thing to get an email from someone who saw my profile and would like to get to know each other.


I agree with what she said. It was excatly what I was thinking....

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Fri 04/03/09 06:51 PM

laugh I email them and add them to my favorites if they have nekkid pics on their profile or something really ****ed uplaugh


you are sad laugh laugh

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Fri 04/03/09 06:54 PM
Edited by trsmith22 on Fri 04/03/09 06:56 PM


I agree. I don't like to get "blind" emails.
If you don't know me then why talk to me?



Well isn't that part of the purpose here? To get to know people? A good percentage of people don't post in the forums, they are here to find a date through profiles.

JMO, but I don't consider it a bad thing to get an email from someone who saw my profile and would like to get to know each other.


I just don't feel like we have anything to talk about. I know absolutely nothing about them. And I am not sure about you, but "how are you doing" isn't much.

At least if they are in the forums, you somewhat get to know them.

Not that it is bad for everyone else, but in my case it has failed.
I have more to talk about with people in the forums.
JMO


TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 04/03/09 06:58 PM
Humm I must say about 80% of the time I have gotten a response but now has it went further then 3-4 e-mails well it does get lower and lower with each one.slaphead :laughing:

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