Well on OkCupid, they match you.......Basically they let you know by
what you put in your preferences, how good of a match you would be with
someone.......That's how I met one of my best friends, Mick. (GoodDr, on
here) and also a friend named John who I went on 2 dates with...........

Hi Bill

PK -- I actually met someone from OKC last year and it was the fourth or
fifth worst experience of my life (I'm a little fuzzy on the actual
ranking procedure).

I'm just looking for friendship...BUT then any good relationship always
starts off with a good friendship...It's the realtionship part that
always screws me up!!!!!!!!!!

Let me give you a story of one date I had, some time ago, not fromany
site, this was from a newspaper personals in one of our local papers.The
woman stated in her profile the same things that the profiles I have
read on these sites for what they were looking for, well the date was
just that one. When I contacted her, too find out how it went, she
stated that I was not what she was looking for, because I paid too much
attention to her, and that I shouldnt be so honest and I wear my heart
on my sleeve. She then proceeded too tell me I shouldnt be so honest and
not pay that much attention to a woman, that just about floored me, when
I heard that.

=P long story short, women want what they cant get.

if they can get it, they dont want it.

women dont know what they want =)

ok accepting hate mail now lol

well people do need to keep a little mystery...


even though it may seem game----ish



just a thought..

Well obviously it was her that didn't know what she wanted...If she
can't be honest with herself about what she wants then...She can't be
honest to anyone else...You will find the right woman Hal...

It's not a matter of quantity...It's a matter of quality and the right
fit with each other!!!!!!!!!!

just2 that may apply to some not me though!

hehe , im only playing around, never take me serious =)

eHarmony rejected me, too, about a year ago, but that's OK, they're much
too religious for me. My ex was a religious nutter, so I'm not in any
hurry to get mixed up with another holier-than-thou type anytime soon.

You guys are both good looking, articulate gents, I can't imagine why
you'd be having problems meeting ladies.

SheNerd :)

I think we all are looking for, basically, the same thing.
ONE person, who excites & blends, with our lifestyle, intelligence,
wants, desires, hopes; just everything. I think most of us push to hard
to try & MAKE this happen. Our present society teaches us to look for
IMMEDIATE success in all that we want & desire. If building ROME now,
we would demand it done in as short a time as poss. Anything REALLY
good, takes time, extreme effort, patience & allowing for mistakes.
Compare it to inventing/building something. How often is the frst. time
perfect. We learn by doing/trying.

I have made lots of mistakes, even after we were together.
I wish all of you what we had. This is where I learned what a
RELATIONSHIP takes, for me.

i am a product of the microwave generation =P

now now now!!!!!!!

I invite all the women on here too please read my profile and tell me
what is wrong with what I put into it. I do realize that most of the
time it is Age (I am eiyther too old for them (to me age doesnt make a
big diference too me) but they fel I am too old, The distance factor and
my situation at this time, by not being able too move right now and
naturaly bank accoubt. please let me know what else I can do, besidws
waiting for the next 20 or so years hoping too find a lady.

Ah Bill..........We never do take you seriously.........LMAO

J/K Luv.......

I want the complete opposite......I want someone who WILL pay attention
to me and show me affection. I didn't have that with my ex..........Nor
with any of my other relationships....I'm the giver and they always
hated it.

well said oldsage!!!!!

I want to be left stammering for words ...

then just smile

i hope they get that matching program on here ... would be interesting
who they match me with.....

nothing wrong wolfy,,,well,,,,,,,,,except,,,you don't have that bond
look goin' on

A Bugatti!! No wonder I'm single!