BAH! Men and women want the same thing. They want someone who will make
them feel special! They want someone who pays attention to them, listens
them when they want to talk, and comforts them when they are down.

Just an interesting point, most women tend to feel that they aren't the
"typical" girl. I've only found very rare instances where ladies
describe themselves as the "typical" girl. Profile descriptions tend to
lose all meaning, because people naturally describe themselves the way
they see themselves - it might be interesting if other people wrote your
profile for you, and you never got to see it .

good idea

mine would say ,,

wtf is wrong with this guy? =P

all i wrote is my interests on mine humm well i wouldnt mind someone i
know to write mine for me any volunteers?

i just don't understand when you do make them feel special they just
want more and more and more but never look on the other side of the
house and return it.

I think that a lot of women want a "bad boy" that they think they can
reform. They look for the same type that was a dismal failure in their
last relationship and expect that things will be different this time
around, but it is foolish to do more of the same thing and expect
differnt results. Still they like the excitement of the bad boy at
first and the instant gratification that comes with a new relationship,
then when things turn sour they wonder what went wrong. This is not a
putdown of you ladies, just my casual observations.

If you figure out that you are being taken, STOP giving.
We all control where we go & what we do.
Never blame someone else for what you allow to happen.
Think with big HEAD always.

sage

wrong garden that really isnt so.....when you get in my age bracket''



We want substance..and for men to hopefully have there lives in order.

And it shocks me when i meat men my age or older and their

finances are in ruins........

foreclosers for no reason??


beeen divorced for years whaz up wit dat.

i kinda have to agree with garden seriously... but after a
woman has put up with so many of those bad boys they may be tired of it
and looking for something new and a change in their life

I meet I mean

tulip means they are still a bad boy lmao!!!

Maybe your looking it the wrong manner, tulip.

no buttons that is NOT what I mean!

I don't date boys.

I dont date people with fake auras.



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I can and will explain my own posts if asked.

it means they arent responsiple even at their age... and they cant blame
that on their ex lol...

What does this woman want?

For I can not speak for my whole gender...

A friend, someone who will 'see' me..all of me, the inconsistencies, the
contradictions, the honesty, truth and the whole of me. I feel, I see,I
think, and I think deeply, I am raw, open, and stripped to the bone
real....and all he needs to do is accept me as I am.

No games, no 'plays', no crap...I don't have time or desire for it , so
why would he?

He doesn't need to be less, he doesn't need to be more...he just needs
to be all of himself.

Bad guy? Good guy? Nice guy? Pfffftt!!! Labels.

He needs to have passion, fire in his emotions,his beliefs, the calmness
of water, the unpredictability of air, and the solidness of earth...for
I am all the elements...and so is he.

He doesn't need to be some Hollywood clone, he only needs to be
aware...of himself, and his place in this world.

And yes he does exist..

if they arent responsible by our age i dont think they ever will be
tulip... just my thought it would be a waste of time to
bother....deb

sage my perspective is fine....


and being in financial ruins has nothing to do with bad boy"

tudes......ugh

Thats the way I feel, Garden. I think what made me start this thread,
was after seeing all those threads, started by women, "Where are all the
good guys" Where have all the good guys gone" "Are there any good guys
left" Are they serious? or just playing a game? Are they saying that
because they think that is what we want too hear?. If they are serious,
why dont we hear from them?

well deb sometimes when you are dating you dont discover these things
off the cuff.....


sometimes it takes awhile to see the whole picture.

when my mind is open I pass no judgement until I realize .....etc......