Hi!

All my life, from my first boyfriend to my most recent, I have never
been able to hold a relationship. The ones I really loved often dumped
me for various reasons such as, too immature, too much drama, too
jealous, etc.
Now... I don't try to. When someone feels right, I put a lot of trust
into them. And I try my hardest to be the best girlfriend I can be.
Now, I don't mean to use this as an excuse, but I'm Autistic, (does
anyone know what that is?), and so it's hard for me to try to be mature
or responsible enough for the male. Even though, I've grown up alot.
I'm great at making friends. I'm just not so great at attracting the
men.
I feel like there's always something wrong, but I can never quite put my
finger on it, and I don't like it.

Can anyone give me any tips and pointers on keeping a good long-term
relationship?
Thank you.

you're 18

it is just an on going process..

most important factor you both must want the same things in the
relationship in order for it to work.


also u must be comfortable with U. And U both have to want the
commitment to each other, with convering etc..


There is tons of advise, but just to name two....

And I am doing so well myself....

Thanks emotional-I really wanted a woman to say that first...

take your time your still young dont worrie you will find the right
person at the right time.

Lots of 18 yr. olds have long standing relationships..


SLG


JUST be sure you know U first.

men will be men sweetLil..doesnt suprize me..and yes u r very
young..gezzzzz give it time..u will prob go thru hundreds of b/f's b4
the right one comes along

Hi there & Welcome to the site!!

Now how good would any of our advice be when must are in
the same boat as you???
All I can say is working on loving yourself gurl!! when your
comfortable with you, you can be more with them..

good luck too you!!

YES,,,,,,,DON'T TRY TO FIND ONE!!!!

Just let LIFE happen and don't worry about forever yet, YOU have ALOT of
time to find YOUR MR. Right,,and the world is FULL of MR.
Wrongs!!!!!

Just Share your heart and Smiles with others and BE "YOU", then when a
real long lasting love finds YOU,,he will LOVE "YOU" for YOU!!
And YOU will SEE him for HIS TRUTH and HEART!!

must = most

I know I'm 18. I know I'm young. But an average 18 year old girl has
already had more than twice as many boyfriends as I've had.
Going at the pace that I am in my love life, by the time I have 100
boyfriends, I'll be 50-something. I'd really rather not be that old by
the time I find Mr. Right...
And I know me. All too well, haha.

Guys are d*cks.

SLG-I married the girl I was with when I was 18...didn't last too long
after that! You have lots of time and lots of guys out there.

just live. don't search, ti's a waste of time and energy.

I was thinking the 25 yrs I had with my ex, and looking at your 18
yrs...hehehehe

that out a minus on it all

negative, zip, nil...

enjoy your life and all that come into it.

This is the code I live by. Others may disagree. But it's the way I see
it.

Don't let yourself be taken for granted.
Tell the truth and expect the same in return
DO NOT TELL LIES even if the truth hurts
DO NOT try to deceive
DO NOT cheat and expect the same in return
Be certain that there is mutual trust.
Try to curb jealousy (I know about this as well. It's hard)
And lastly JUST BE YOURSELF

In your case if a boyfriend really cares for you, then he should realize
this and support, and help you.

Too true Nene, too true..

I did more living between 15 and 18, and 35 to now...(I was married
between ages 18 and 35)..


My reason for this?

Don't rush, get out there and find you!!

Be you, find you, what you like, and don't like, and someone will see
you, and want to be a part of your world.

Enjoy this time, chill out have fun, do some travelling, create goals,
for you...LIVE.

omg youre 18!!!!!live and learn....

...heyyyyyy Sasssssyyyyy

joshy
hugssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss

Girl! step BACK. Take a hard look at the type of MAN your choosing.
Think about it!!