My daugher is 17 and has been on 2 dates. You and my daughter will
probably settle down with the right guys at approximately the same age.
You have just been through a lot more turmoil in your life, but the end
result will be the same. I think you are over estimating how many
boyfriends girls your age have had. It might just look that way to you,
from where you are seeing things. Like others have said, don't make it
the most important thing in your life. Let it happen.

Oh, honey, if I knew at 18 what I know now (at age 46). Just try to have
some fun and not be so serious or dissect things too much.

Sassy makes me sweat.




Giggity goo.

aaaawwwe joshy,i think u have a crush on me

Joshy and Sassy, please go somewhere else to flirt...

And like I said, I do know me. I know what I want out of life, I know
what I like and don't like, I know what I need and don't need and I know
what I want to be when I'm done with college.

Yes. I'm young. It's not like I'm planning to marry anyone within the
next year. But life for many people in my family have ended too early.
and then I think about how my parents have had me so late. And I worry.
I worry about what would happen if I waited till I was in my 30s. I'd
like my family and friends to be a part of my life as much of the way.
I don't know... I guess I don't really know what I'm saying anymore,
haha.

Sorry guys above me here. I know that the person we're all talking about
here is only 18.
Don't forget, she is also autistic. That is also a very hard thing to
have to live with.
So let's stop telling her to grow up.
For somepne sufering from that condition, she should be applauded for
having the courage to ask for help.

Try helping!!!!!!!!

excuse me?

this is a singles site.

with all repect given, we are adults here, and having a disability
doesn't make anyone exempt from reality.

Didn't you leave today?

omg sweetlilgal..wtf is your problem???joshy and all of us have
fun...how dare u or just who do u think u are tellin us to go else
where????uk i hear you,what a stupid brat...mmmmm gees do u own the
forums,omg how dare u tell us to go else where???seroiusly get a
life!!!!!

THANK YOU!!
Because that's what I need: Help.
What I was trying to say, (without really saying it), is I feel that my
Autism tends to interfere with my ability to have a long-lasting
relationship.

Whoa, Sassy, you need to calm down. I said it POLITELY, in case you
didn't notice. Because I'm not one to be mean unless someone is mean to
me back.
And I do have a life, excuse you. I volunteer two to three times a week,
I go to college two times a week, and I go to the gym three times a
week. Is that not a life? 'Cause it sounds like one to me. Plus, here's
the obvious one: I'm breathing. As long as I'm breathing, I have a life.

ok, pass the popcorn... this went from school time to school yard in no
time flat.

tomorrow is another school day for my daughter... I can listen to this
then.
luck to you!

well whatever,u have no right to tell joshy and i to flirt somewhere
else,what died and made you god???

yes the best advice I can give you is to work on yourself. You are very
young and you are still learning about life. When I was your age I was
very insecure and needed a man to survive. I was severely codependant
and as a result I could not be alone. Here are some tips for keeping a
man though.
1. Work on yourself physically, emotionally, and spiritually.
2. When you are confident in yourself men are attracted to you.
3. FOr now since your single work on friendships with girls or guys.
Friendships is where any long lasting relationship start.
4. WOrkout, buy new clothes, read postive material, and truly fall in
love with yourself first.
5. When all of things above fall into place you are more likely to find
the right match.
**And always remember whether friendship or more the person you involve
yourself with should be positive.

It sounds like you are doing everything right. It just takes time, hon.
For all of us not! We are all in the same boat!

Nothing died and made me God! I'm not God of anything, Sassy. It was
just that your little talk with Joshy was off-topic. I'm very particular
about little things like that. I can't help it. Sorry for upsetting
you.... Goodness gracious!

I don't think I want to buy new clothes.

And does non-fiction count as positive material?

sweet hun, dont worry so much about your age and others...
when I was eighteen I had never even had ONE girlfriend yet. My first
"real" firlfriend was when I was 19 or 20.
My second firlfriend cheated on me with my best friend, or so she
claimed when she became pregnant, and my thirdo ne I married. But you
can see what happened withthe third one, lol. And so here I am looking
for number four, and I am 32.
Oh I had the chance for a g/f while married to my third, but refused to
go that route.
The other thing is, do not let your autism stop you from enjoying life.
Yes it can be an issue at times, but it will not stop you from having
boyfriends and dates and such.
I promise you this hun.

WOW,,Sassy "THAT" was rude! And you two ARE flirting on this young
lady's post, so WTF? And YES SHE, (SweetLilgal) did ask YOU TWO to go
flirt else where, but SHE GAVE TRUTH to her VOICE
Not RUDE with it and SHE does suffer Autisiam, and SHE REALLY does need
some honest advice and REAL answers to her REAL post HERE!!
What everyone here fails to see is that SOME people on HERE and IN SOME
posts,,,,ARE REAL,,,, and NEED ,,,REAL HELP IN LIFE,
I know for some here its ALL play,,,but to be REAL,,we ALL need to
READ,,,and THINK, before we just blow on another's post unless THAT POST
is ALL BS, Then yeah,,,,who cares..
Peace, Love , and Be REAL..

your right iam4u so right.