Topic: minimum wage
galendgirl's photo
Sun 04/12/09 05:04 PM

When they ask how much I make... its a done deal...I am out of there. to many people who claim to be looking for a relationship base it on material things/ finances.


I can support myself and even 1 other person if need be. to me its an issue I have about dating sites.


I've supported myself and two others for about 20 years...
I am just really surprised that anybody would even ask this! I apparently am seriously out of touch...

On the other hand, asking what someone does for a living seems natural (we tend to spend a lot of time at work) and that too has been shot down in a couple of forum threads as being gold-digger-ish.

I guess I'll never figure out the rules! tears

misstina2's photo
Sun 04/12/09 05:05 PM
flowerforyou I've been messaged by men that the 1st email they mention their possessionsflowerforyou I think some people do use what they have in order to get what they wantflowerforyou

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Sun 04/12/09 05:07 PM



Why wouldn't I?

Money isn't what makes the person.flowerforyou


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blushing blushing
yeah right... tell that to the thousands of people who are trying to keep up with their neighbors.... we only wish it were really true that money doesn't make the person. if nothing else there is always hope.flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

seahawks's photo
Sun 04/12/09 05:09 PM
even if she didnt work, just a nice lovin gal to greet me when i got home, i would so love that .!!!!drinker drinker

Gossipmpm's photo
Sun 04/12/09 05:09 PM



Please miss tina just find me a man that works!!!!!!



In this economy lots of people losing their jobs...
flowerforyou I'm thinking she meant a man that won't work Patsflowerforyou I think we all know you're a great catchflowerforyou in fact you are one of the good men i was talking aboutflowerforyou


Thanks miss tina
That's what I meant. Men round here won't work. Sorry pat never meant to offend you or anyone!!
Love to all

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Sun 04/12/09 05:09 PM

flowerforyou I've been messaged by men that the 1st email they mention their possessionsflowerforyou I think some people do use what they have in order to get what they wantflowerforyou
you think?frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated

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Sun 04/12/09 05:11 PM

even if she didnt work, just a nice lovin gal to greet me when i got home, i would so love that .!!!!drinker drinker
That's all I ever hoped for...frustrated but I am retired so I can greet her at the door ..if .... she wanted to work.. :banana: :banana: :banana:

Dan99's photo
Sun 04/12/09 05:11 PM
Only if she had big boobies

misstina2's photo
Sun 04/12/09 05:11 PM
Edited by misstina2 on Sun 04/12/09 05:12 PM


When they ask how much I make... its a done deal...I am out of there. to many people who claim to be looking for a relationship base it on material things/ finances.


I can support myself and even 1 other person if need be. to me its an issue I have about dating sites.


I've supported myself and two others for about 20 years...
I am just really surprised that anybody would even ask this! I apparently am seriously out of touch...

On the other hand, asking what someone does for a living seems natural (we tend to spend a lot of time at work) and that too has been shot down in a couple of forum threads as being gold-digger-ish.

I guess I'll never figure out the rules! tears
flowerforyou I think after getting to know someone for a little bit and they haven't told you what they do for a living it would be ok to ask.I think outright asking how much a person makes is not my biznessflowerforyou

seahawks's photo
Sun 04/12/09 05:12 PM


even if she didnt work, just a nice lovin gal to greet me when i got home, i would so love that .!!!!drinker drinker
That's all I ever hoped for...frustrated but I am retired so I can greet her at the door ..if .... she wanted to work.. :banana: :banana: :banana:
yup

misstina2's photo
Sun 04/12/09 05:13 PM

Only if she had big boobies
laugh laugh laugh laugh

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 04/12/09 05:13 PM

When they ask how much I make... its a done deal...I am out of there. to many people who claim to be looking for a relationship base it on material things/ finances.


I can support myself and even 1 other person if need be. to me its an issue I have about dating sites.



drinker

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Sun 04/12/09 05:13 PM




Why wouldn't I?

Money isn't what makes the person.flowerforyou


flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou



blushing blushing
yeah right... tell that to the thousands of people who are trying to keep up with their neighbors.... we only wish it were really true that money doesn't make the person. if nothing else there is always hope.flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou


Well we weren't talking about generalization. It was about what I would do. Let's be honest. I had money, left it. I didn't take the house, the cars or the business. I just took my son and I get no child support. I left everything else behind. Material things are not important to me. flowerforyou

I wish I could help what the world does. But I really am only concerned with how I live my life and the role I play in society. flowerforyou

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Sun 04/12/09 05:14 PM



When they ask how much I make... its a done deal...I am out of there. to many people who claim to be looking for a relationship base it on material things/ finances.


I can support myself and even 1 other person if need be. to me its an issue I have about dating sites.


I've supported myself and two others for about 20 years...
I am just really surprised that anybody would even ask this! I apparently am seriously out of touch...

On the other hand, asking what someone does for a living seems natural (we tend to spend a lot of time at work) and that too has been shot down in a couple of forum threads as being gold-digger-ish.

I guess I'll never figure out the rules! tears
flowerforyou I think after getting to know someone for a little bit and they haven't told you what they do for a living it would be ok to ask.I think outright asking how much a person makes is not my biznessflowerforyou


good for you wish more thought that way.. I don't have a problem telling someone what I make .......when the time calls for it.. But for it to be known before you even date? buh bye

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Sun 04/12/09 05:17 PM





Why wouldn't I?

Money isn't what makes the person.flowerforyou


flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou



blushing blushing
yeah right... tell that to the thousands of people who are trying to keep up with their neighbors.... we only wish it were really true that money doesn't make the person. if nothing else there is always hope.flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou


Well we weren't talking about generalization. It was about what I would do. Let's be honest. I had money, left it. I didn't take the house, the cars or the business. I just took my son and I get no child support. I left everything else behind. Material things are not important to me. flowerforyou

I wish I could help what the world does. But I really am only concerned with how I live my life and the role I play in society. flowerforyou
tr.... this is generalizations. here and yet some3 specific points about it. Not everyone out there is materialistic. Its nice to see some aren't BUT the vast majority are.. its just a fact of life I suppose. No offense to you or anyone else here...

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 04/12/09 05:17 PM
I stopped looking for someone when I lost my job in october, I wouldn't feel right about it.

misstina2's photo
Sun 04/12/09 05:19 PM




When they ask how much I make... its a done deal...I am out of there. to many people who claim to be looking for a relationship base it on material things/ finances.


I can support myself and even 1 other person if need be. to me its an issue I have about dating sites.


I've supported myself and two others for about 20 years...
I am just really surprised that anybody would even ask this! I apparently am seriously out of touch...

On the other hand, asking what someone does for a living seems natural (we tend to spend a lot of time at work) and that too has been shot down in a couple of forum threads as being gold-digger-ish.

I guess I'll never figure out the rules! tears
flowerforyou I think after getting to know someone for a little bit and they haven't told you what they do for a living it would be ok to ask.I think outright asking how much a person makes is not my biznessflowerforyou


good for you wish more thought that way.. I don't have a problem telling someone what I make .......when the time calls for it.. But for it to be known before you even date? buh bye
it should be about getting to know someone and their goals in lifeflowerforyou

galendgirl's photo
Sun 04/12/09 05:19 PM

I stopped looking for someone when I lost my job in october, I wouldn't feel right about it.


Just don't avoid meeting someone as an opposite extreme. Ya just never know what life has in store... And I'm sure that the job situation will turn around.

flowerforyou

misstina2's photo
Sun 04/12/09 05:21 PM

I stopped looking for someone when I lost my job in october, I wouldn't feel right about it.
flowerforyou Pats you're going to find a job and any woman who doesn't appreciate you for who you are and not what you make aren't worth it anywaysflowerforyou these are difficult timesflowerforyou most people are understanding flowerforyou

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Sun 04/12/09 05:22 PM






Why wouldn't I?

Money isn't what makes the person.flowerforyou


flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou



blushing blushing
yeah right... tell that to the thousands of people who are trying to keep up with their neighbors.... we only wish it were really true that money doesn't make the person. if nothing else there is always hope.flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou


Well we weren't talking about generalization. It was about what I would do. Let's be honest. I had money, left it. I didn't take the house, the cars or the business. I just took my son and I get no child support. I left everything else behind. Material things are not important to me. flowerforyou

I wish I could help what the world does. But I really am only concerned with how I live my life and the role I play in society. flowerforyou
tr.... this is generalizations. here and yet some3 specific points about it. Not everyone out there is materialistic. Its nice to see some aren't BUT the vast majority are.. its just a fact of life I suppose. No offense to you or anyone else here...



Oh none taken at all. I was only proving a point. There are some that really don't care about material things. It is sad to see the ones that do. flowerforyou flowerforyou