Topic: check me out. need advice and honesty
kellie615's photo
Thu 04/23/09 12:17 PM
i am new to all this online dating think. i need some feedback on my pic and things i wrote. i am not getting any mail. be honest and tell me what is wrong

TattooedDude81's photo
Thu 04/23/09 12:20 PM
It takes time...sometimes alot of time. I've been here a year and a half and haven't met anyone IRL yet, but I've made friends! Friends are always better off sometimes. Post in the forums and get to know people!

lilith401's photo
Thu 04/23/09 12:22 PM
Um, the writing part could be improved, as well as the amount you wrote. It's very very brief and impersonal. But really... you're married.

If you've been separated for a long time or there are extenuating circumstances..... you need to explain. Otherwise, most folk won't date married people.

no photo
Thu 04/23/09 12:23 PM
Maybe mention more of your interests besides your family, like what you enjoy doing. And, can you get a photo where your eyes are more easily visible? The glasses kind of get in the way.

And, welcome, best wishes, and hope to see you more on the forums. Sometimes that helps to get you known, people see more of what's going on in your personality. flowerforyou

kellie615's photo
Thu 04/23/09 12:29 PM
thanks for the advice and i will get a new pic or 2 and say more on my marriage circumstances. :wink:

lilith401's photo
Thu 04/23/09 12:30 PM
Good luck to you, welcome to the forums....!

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 04/23/09 12:40 PM

i am new to all this online dating think. i need some feedback on my pic and things i wrote. i am not getting any mail. be honest and tell me what is wrong
flowerforyou welcome and good luckflowerforyou

no photo
Thu 04/23/09 12:44 PM
Welcome and Good Luck..flowerforyou

Kuuleinani's photo
Thu 04/23/09 02:14 PM
Its whats on the inside that counts...Know you are blessed and so shall you be..flowerforyou

Loyaldad08's photo
Thu 04/23/09 07:26 PM
Hang in there! I'm going into my 12th month of seperation, and I know how tough it is! I wouldn't spill your guts about it - let them ask.
How about a big, toothy smile pic? And one of you at work or play.