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Topic: whats up with babies daddys nowadays?
Lfer Joined Wed 12/17/08 Posts: 467	Fri 05/15/09 04:37 PM
For example, the father of my daughter left as soon as we both found out I was actually pregnant, because before hand I had my doubts, nonetheless. Now, hes back with his girlfriend that he got with immediately after breaking up with me and let me tell you all she is THE definition of white trash, well like my said, "trash deserves trash." but thats not the point. Now, there getting MARRIED in September, they have four months to plan a wedding, as he once even called? or even had the courtesy to even ASK how both "his" daughter and I were doing? I'm glad I was the only adult in that whole relationship. Because I love her more then my own life. And the kicker, I'm glad his name isn't on the birth certificate. But, fellas, if your going to get a girl pregnant, MAN UP and take the responsibility to help raise the child or the other alternative, adoption, but I don't have the courage to do so with my little girl, I'm way too attached now.

TJN Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 6745	Fri 05/15/09 04:40 PM
Way to group all men in one category! There are some of US DADS out here that go above and beyond with our children!!!!!!!!!!!

Lfer Joined Wed 12/17/08 Posts: 467	Fri 05/15/09 04:41 PM
Way to group all men in one category! There are some of US DADS out here that go above and beyond with our children!!!!!!!!!!! The more MATURE men, yes, I agree with you on that.

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Fri 05/15/09 04:41 PM
Sorry to hear that he is not being there for his own child. As far as men go. Not all are like this. I moved almost 2 years ago from Cali to UT to take care of me son and i still am even though i'm not with the mother. It's sad to say in reality now a days, well at least out here. Most men don't man up. But know there are some that do and take care of there own.

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Fri 05/15/09 04:44 PM
For example, the father of my daughter left as soon as we both found out I was actually pregnant, because before hand I had my doubts, nonetheless. Now, hes back with his girlfriend that he got with immediately after breaking up with me and let me tell you all she is THE definition of white trash, well like my said, "trash deserves trash." but thats not the point. Now, there getting MARRIED in September, they have four months to plan a wedding, as he once even called? or even had the courtesy to even ASK how both "his" daughter and I were doing? I'm glad I was the only adult in that whole relationship. Because I love her more then my own life. And the kicker, I'm glad his name isn't on the birth certificate. But, fellas, if your going to get a girl pregnant, MAN UP and take the responsibility to help raise the child or the other alternative, adoption, but I don't have the courage to do so with my little girl, I'm way too attached now. ....I don't get women pregnant. I'm 43 and kept my pecker in my pants. Just so I wouldn't have to see stuff like this.

Lfer Joined Wed 12/17/08 Posts: 467	Fri 05/15/09 04:44 PM
For example, the father of my daughter left as soon as we both found out I was actually pregnant, because before hand I had my doubts, nonetheless. Now, hes back with his girlfriend that he got with immediately after breaking up with me and let me tell you all she is THE definition of white trash, well like my said, "trash deserves trash." but thats not the point. Now, there getting MARRIED in September, they have four months to plan a wedding, as he once even called? or even had the courtesy to even ASK how both "his" daughter and I were doing? I'm glad I was the only adult in that whole relationship. Because I love her more then my own life. And the kicker, I'm glad his name isn't on the birth certificate. But, fellas, if your going to get a girl pregnant, MAN UP and take the responsibility to help raise the child or the other alternative, adoption, but I don't have the courage to do so with my little girl, I'm way too attached now. ....I don't get women pregnant. I'm 43 and kept my pecker in my pants. Just so I wouldn't have to see stuff like this. Good, thats being responsible.

trsmith22 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 5959	Fri 05/15/09 04:45 PM
Sorry to hear that he is not being there for his own child. As far as men go. Not all are like this. I moved almost 2 years ago from Cali to UT to take care of me son and i still am even though i'm not with the mother. It's sad to say in reality now a days, well at least out here. Most men don't man up. But know there are some that do and take care of there own.

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Fri 05/15/09 04:46 PM
It takes 2 to tango.

Mayhem_J Joined Mon 07/21/08 Posts: 14265	Fri 05/15/09 04:47 PM
Hes not on the birth certificate? So hes paying any child support?

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Fri 05/15/09 04:47 PM
I'm sorry you're going through this. Glad there is at least one adult in it too. I know you are only meaning to speak about your situation since some men aren't like you describe. Unfortunately, many are. Men and women both have to be responsible.

Lfer Joined Wed 12/17/08 Posts: 467	Fri 05/15/09 04:47 PM
Well hes dancing with his now, fiance, because shes pregnant.

Lfer Joined Wed 12/17/08 Posts: 467	Fri 05/15/09 04:48 PM
Well hes dancing with his now, fiance, because shes pregnant.

Mayhem_J Joined Mon 07/21/08 Posts: 14265	Fri 05/15/09 04:48 PM
Hes not on the birth certificate? So hes paying any child support?

Lfer Joined Wed 12/17/08 Posts: 467	Fri 05/15/09 04:49 PM
No, because he told me he wasn't going too pay child support.

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Fri 05/15/09 04:50 PM
Hes not on the birth certificate? So hes paying any child support? She can put any name on that birth certificate.

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Fri 05/15/09 04:51 PM
For example, the father of my daughter left as soon as we both found out I was actually pregnant, because before hand I had my doubts, nonetheless. Now, hes back with his girlfriend that he got with immediately after breaking up with me and let me tell you all she is THE definition of white trash, well like my said, "trash deserves trash." but thats not the point. Now, there getting MARRIED in September, they have four months to plan a wedding, as he once even called? or even had the courtesy to even ASK how both "his" daughter and I were doing? I'm glad I was the only adult in that whole relationship. Because I love her more then my own life. And the kicker, I'm glad his name isn't on the birth certificate. But, fellas, if your going to get a girl pregnant, MAN UP and take the responsibility to help raise the child or the other alternative, adoption, but I don't have the courage to do so with my little girl, I'm way too attached now. I took responsibility in not having a kid, won't have a kid for fear I will turn into my father...and I cannot allow that to happen...

Lfer Joined Wed 12/17/08 Posts: 467	Fri 05/15/09 04:51 PM
All it has is my name and I couldn't be prouder to say that.

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Fri 05/15/09 04:51 PM
I tire of having someone elses irresponsibility shoved down my throat and being blamed for it. Its a copout. It pisses me off.

durtydduck Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 1972	Fri 05/15/09 04:51 PM
Your "rant" is warranted and precise I never once thought you generalized or grouped all men together. Its a growing problem with men today they want the action and even some brag about how many kids they have floating around. To those men. all I can say is this is where gun control is applicable. It sickens me to no end the lazy azz wipes that do this. I know that its a two way street and the women involved could be using contraceptives to combat this. As well as the man could. .. Someday men and women both will realize when they are younger its not so coll to be raising a kid on their own.

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Fri 05/15/09 04:51 PM
Has this guy ever heard of birth control?