Topic: How MUCH........
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Sun 05/31/09 08:27 PM
How much would you give up for a distant relationship?

Would you move to another city?
Give up a job?
Etc.....devil

beautyonthefire's photo
Sun 05/31/09 08:30 PM
If it were a job only I would move but I have lots of family in my area and that is what would make it tough. I guess it depends how far!

Jess642's photo
Sun 05/31/09 08:33 PM
I wont give up the couch if I am cranky with him, and he's in the kitchen...


...that's about all the distance I can manage at the moment...bigsmile


whatssuup's photo
Sun 05/31/09 08:36 PM


I wouldn't give up anymore than I could afford to lose

scttrbrain's photo
Sun 05/31/09 08:37 PM
Jess....does that mean you don't love me anymore?? waaaaaa
I still wubs you.:heart: flowerforyou

Kat

Jess642's photo
Sun 05/31/09 08:39 PM

Jess....does that mean you don't love me anymore?? waaaaaa
I still wubs you.:heart: flowerforyou

Kat


I still love you Kat.....and go to the doctor!!! ( in my best stern mummy voice) :wink: laugh :heart: :heart:

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Sun 05/31/09 08:40 PM
he gave up pretty much everything, including the west coast for the east...and let's just say, you don't know someone until you live together...so you should tread very lightly with an LDR. not saying it's impossible, and i'm sure for some it would work out, but before you uproot, be damn sure the guts feeling it.

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Sun 05/31/09 08:54 PM

he gave up pretty much everything, including the west coast for the east...and let's just say, you don't know someone until you live together...so you should tread very lightly with an LDR. not saying it's impossible, and i'm sure for some it would work out, but before you uproot, be damn sure the guts feeling it.



It really is all a gamble...things can go not the way you had hoped so that is a good reminder to only risk what you can afford to lose. On the other hand, the risk can sometimes be worth it. My sister met someone from the opposite side of the country, he moved here and they've been together for almost 2 years now. You just never know!

eileena9's photo
Sun 05/31/09 08:57 PM
I'm more than willing to move to Idaho from NY but in this crappy economy I can't afford to give up a job that I have put 19 + years into. Especially since the money would be so much better there than here, my salary comes with me. So I stay here and wait for a transfer and he knows exactly why I haven't left yet.

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Sun 05/31/09 08:57 PM
Edited by Up2Us on Sun 05/31/09 08:59 PM


he gave up pretty much everything, including the west coast for the east...and let's just say, you don't know someone until you live together...so you should tread very lightly with an LDR. not saying it's impossible, and i'm sure for some it would work out, but before you uproot, be damn sure the guts feeling it.



It really is all a gamble...things can go not the way you had hoped so that is a good reminder to only risk what you can afford to lose. On the other hand, the risk can sometimes be worth it. My sister met someone from the opposite side of the country, he moved here and they've been together for almost 2 years now. You just never know!


Oh....you're.....So innocent....so sweet.....devil
Life is like a box of chocolates.......flowerforyou
What if your allergic to chocolate.....devil

I've been burned so many times.... My Nickname is Smokey....laugh:banana:

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Sun 05/31/09 09:13 PM
Edited by beautyonthefire on Sun 05/31/09 09:14 PM



he gave up pretty much everything, including the west coast for the east...and let's just say, you don't know someone until you live together...so you should tread very lightly with an LDR. not saying it's impossible, and i'm sure for some it would work out, but before you uproot, be damn sure the guts feeling it.



It really is all a gamble...things can go not the way you had hoped so that is a good reminder to only risk what you can afford to lose. On the other hand, the risk can sometimes be worth it. My sister met someone from the opposite side of the country, he moved here and they've been together for almost 2 years now. You just never know!


Oh....you're.....So innocent....so sweet.....devil
Life is like a box of chocolates.......flowerforyou
What if your allergic to chocolate.....devil

I've been burned so many times.... My Nickname is Smokey....laugh:banana:



haha...I'll admit I was speaking a pretty positively...maybe annoyingly so? haha That is just my attitude today...tomorrow, the world will be ending.

Riding_Dubz's photo
Sun 05/31/09 09:26 PM
what she look like devil devil

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Mon 06/01/09 05:07 PM
Edited by JDR1976 on Mon 06/01/09 05:09 PM
I have met someone from a dateing site let me take that back we never met but we always talked over the phone and we been doing that about 5 years now and he wanted me to come where he is at but let me get back to your subject! no you should not move from where you live to be with someone!!! I did that lol and that was for my dad!!!!!! He lives in kentucky and I moved from Milwaukee I knew noooooooooo one there and the city bus system was not right and most of all it cost big time!!!!! it cost me $1014.00 by the time it was said and done! and I was not happy!!!!! if you do move to be with someone think hard about it cuz it will change your life big time!!! But I know finding someone that is right for you in your city,town is hard just like tryin to find a job but you just gotta keep looking and you will find someone!!!!!!!!!! I hope this helped??? if not sorry!

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Mon 06/01/09 05:19 PM

How much would you give up for a distant relationship?

Would you move to another city?
Give up a job?
Etc.....devil


If I feel it's worth it...I would give up whatever is necessary!