part of loving someone is expecting nothing back in return from them, a giving of yourself without conditions.

don't you think that as you get older, the women that you meet might have children that have already left the home and are living independent from their mother? would that still pose a problem for you?

Wow there may be hope for me yet Lex I need the name of that site heck if they matched you with 3 people there is still hope for me. hehehe

It isn't about that, per se -- although the argument could be made that, even when they're "gone," they're not really "gone" -- it's about the mindset involved.

Hey, I'll be happy to send you the info if you like!

Really, the only reason I'm on there is because they have tests that I find interesting. I did meet one person from that site, and it was one of the worst experiences of my life....

I sometimes wonder if my odds are even that good. I just feel like there are some deal breakers that I didn't think would be that unusual must be. I have a hard time believeing that at least a few people that have not;
(1) Been and addict to illegal substances or booze or tobacco
(2) Been arrested
(3) Lost their job or never had one
(4) Abandoned their family
(5) Found it imoral to serve their country
(6) Become homeless or are
(7) Found it acceptable to wait until at least be divorced before looking for a new partner
(8) Are not actively mentally ill or catagious
(9) Decided that dateing is to Evangilize their religion OR
(10) Find it necessary to punish me for treatment of a partner that I have never engaged in.
I am not saying that is and inclusive list but is even that unrealistic?

I'm thinking I may have to loosen up on the Brown Sugar-Cinnamon Pop-Tarts requirement....






I meet that one but probably none of the others.