I have met this guy, but not from here. He told me that he is in the Air Force, but now in the Reserve. Well, we have IM each other for one day and we have sent message on another site only one day. He have ask me for my phone number and I did not want to give it to him at first, but I decision to give it to him. One day he call and we talk for a little while and I have not heard from him, so he text me me and told me he was out of town and he will send me the hotel room number and phone number. One day he have call me and I think I heard him tell someone in the background he will put me on speaker phone and when I caught on I have text him about it and curse him out, because at this time I just tried of all the BS with men. So, I have apologize to him about cursing him out. I told him that if he want to talk then he know my number, because I wanted to leave the ball in his court. So, He is always telling me how busy he is and I understand that, but when I am online I see that he is online and I am like if he is online then he could at least send me a message or call just to say hello. We are not even trying to get to know one another(well him). He text me one night asking me do I want to come visit and I told him I would love to, but I have a 12 yr old. My thing is why you want me to come and visit and you have not made the effect to get to know me. By the way I did ask him did he try to put me on speaker phone and he still did not give me a anwser, but yet he try to make me feel bad about cursing him out. I just believe if someone is interested in you then they will show it. I wanted to ask him if you are so business like you say you are then why are you on the dating site looking for a wife or long term relationship. That means you are not going to have any time for you SO or wife. I am tried of guys that is not trying to get to know me, because they are trying to make me out to be a horrible person. When I ask these coward something they want to turn the tables on me to make me feel bad and they don't answer my questions. Do you all think I am wrong?

He's not really into you. You may want to keep looking. There's a real good man around the corner while you're waisting your time with this one.

Ummm....WHAT?

drop him

Just be careful...........Lotta guys, and gals to play games.....Maybe consider talking online more before making the move to see him in person.......Just my opinion.....

Yeah, he sounds kinda flaky to me and not really into you...I'd move on.

This is y I wait awhile before I give anyone my number .and i don't text.Be safe everyone.

I know it sound confusing, but I just got tried of writing and it was a lot to it.

He may not even be in the army and the thing about hotel, NEVER, meet somewhere where there's allot of people like a restrant. Go alone you may end up in pieces or in a river.

Get to know a person on line before giving out personal info such as ones phone number,you have to be careful when meeting people on the internet.

I try to do that at first, but I will do it this time. Sometimes some of these guys do not give you time enough to get to know each other up here or anywhere else. I just don't know anymore and I am just tried of trying to date.

It's only confusing because I'm a man and we're not very bright I'm afraid...

I know it was a stupid move on my part and trust me I will not give out my personal infro again.

I was not going to meet at a hotel, but I think he wanted to meet me at his home. He really did not get into details. Where he live at, that is my hometown. I have seen pic of him in his uniform. I know I do need to be careful. When he was going to visit me, I was going to meet him at the mall.

Probably best to get this one out of your head. If you are still trying to understand why he acts the way he does, you probably never will. Don't waste your energy. Sounds like a major game player or something worse.

You are not wrong in your thinking...you are spot on.

He is not for you....whether he is genuine, a player, or whatever, he is not for you, you've already figured that out.