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I have recently meet a very lovely lady who I think could be well worth my time and energy. The bad part though is that she is pregnant from her cheating EX. She says she does not want a man in her life and she wants to take care of the kid on her own. I am showing her I am there for her and willing to help her, I have seeked some help and found out the best course of action in my opinion.
1. Drop off flowers at her house. 2. Give her 3 Days to think. 3. Call her and let her know I'm there for her. 4. See if she changes her mind. What else can I do after step 4? |
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or you can just respect her wishes, be her friend and let her deal with the drama she has goin on right now.
i mean.. if i were her, i'd be pissed that you didn't respect what i already told you i needed. tell her you're there for her as a friend. that if she needs you .. you're on top of it. but don't try to change her because she's probably goin through hell right now. |
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#1 rebound crap will leave you heart broken
#2 internet porn |
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I have recently meet a very lovely lady who I think could be well worth my time and energy. The bad part though is that she is pregnant from her cheating EX. She says she does not want a man in her life and she wants to take care of the kid on her own. I am showing her I am there for her and willing to help her, I have seeked some help and found out the best course of action in my opinion. 1. Drop off flowers at her house. 2. Give her 3 Days to think. 3. Call her and let her know I'm there for her. 4. See if she changes her mind. What else can I do after step 4? you know not many guys would do this. i had a friend in highschool and yrs later after she had her first child she met her husband, but she was already pg with her 2nd child with someone else child.. her husband took full responsabilty of both those kids and claimed them as his.. how awsome can that be..... step 4... be there at the hospitol |
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You seem well-intended but I wouldn't force the issue by using the aforementioned "plan." I'd just give her my number and tell her to fire off a call whenever she wants to talk/vent, etc. Let her know you really hope she calls but want to respect her need for some space.
If she wants you, she'll call. |
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my cousin followed the steps u did then would back off for a week or two. he anonmysly left food n money for her and went through those 4 steps. today they r happily married an have 4 kids. but it not the same with all cases especialy if the x was abusive or used her.
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or you can just respect her wishes, be her friend and let her deal with the drama she has goin on right now. i mean.. if i were her, i'd be pissed that you didn't respect what i already told you i needed. tell her you're there for her as a friend. that if she needs you .. you're on top of it. but don't try to change her because she's probably goin through hell right now. i agree; if you can't respect her wishes, that's not being much of a friend. if she changes her mind, i'm sure she'll let you know. 
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If you guys have been talking, she already knows that you are there for her and will come to you if she's ready
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I think Ill just leave the flowers and call her later, if I can be there for the birth I plan to be!
>.> That sound ok? |
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I think Ill just leave the flowers and call her later, if I can be there for the birth I plan to be! >.> That sound ok? How well do you know her? Giving birth is a very personal time to a woman. I hope you don't mean that you'll be there in the delivery room if you don't know her well. |
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Viper you are 19 yrs old, may I ask how old she is?
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Edited by
viper11025
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Thu 07/23/09 11:17 PM
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In general, like outside in the waiting room.
21.....her Ex cheated on her with her own mother.....she really hates guys right now. |
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C'mon Winxie .... What's wrong with a good ole' fashioned public birthing?
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C'mon Winxie .... What's wrong with a good ole' fashioned public birthing?  
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This whole situation is so mixed up...I don't know what else to do...
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This whole situation is so mixed up...I don't know what else to do...
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In general, like outside in the waiting room. 21.....her Ex cheated on her with her own mother.....she really hates guys right now. CLASSY!!  I think I saw the Springer episode on this. |
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In general, like outside in the waiting room. 21.....her Ex cheated on her with her own mother.....she really hates guys right now. OMG!!! |
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Be careful,protect your heart.Your entire future could depend on decisions you make now.One enormous guilt trip(self imposed) could be sneakin' in.
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I am a hopeless romantic some say, I want to be that knight in shinning armor sometimes. I just want to do what I can and then see if she follow through the rest of the way, you know?
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