Topic: IS THERE SOMETHING WRONG WITH ME?
mysterious30's photo
Tue 07/28/09 12:31 PM
I have been on here about a month to a month and a half. And I have not been emailed lol i have not been talked to at all. Is there something wrong with my picture or my profile?? Im just curious.

Riding_Dubz's photo
Tue 07/28/09 12:33 PM
i been here for over a year what's wrong with me surprised surprised

mysterious30's photo
Tue 07/28/09 12:36 PM
I see nothing wrong with you. But i figured i would have been emailed or something like that i mean i figured something is wrong with me lol

chickayoshi's photo
Tue 07/28/09 12:36 PM
I think it would be better if you found some more pictures to up load of yourself. Give the guys some more views of yourself. Smiling pictures...pics with friends...or just some crazy picture that you like that doesn't have to have you in it. Hope that helps.

motowndowntown's photo
Tue 07/28/09 12:37 PM
Edited by motowndowntown on Tue 07/28/09 12:38 PM
I have been here for eight months and have never gotten an e-mail either. Relax, it takes time. Join in on the forums and let people get to know you.

misswright's photo
Tue 07/28/09 12:40 PM
Jump into the forums. Post your thoughts. Let people get to know you and you'll start making friends. Attitude plus effort equals results. You can't win if you're not in the game.

Just my thoughts. Good luck.

Innocent81's photo
Tue 07/28/09 12:41 PM
I have only been messaged by like 3 guys, and Im just looking for friends! It takes time, from what I can tell, either that or all the guys are shy..lol

southern_bee's photo
Tue 07/28/09 12:46 PM
we all have something wrong with us were just one big dysfunctional happy family so if your looking for a man or friends just post a lot more and get more active

GuardianAngelMan's photo
Tue 07/28/09 12:56 PM
Edited by GuardianAngelMan on Tue 07/28/09 12:57 PM
Everthing takes time, no matter how many pictures you put up on here yur going to still get some people that will judge you. All I can say is say what is in your heart and maybe someone will find your heart. Be yourself and always be kind no matter what.

mysterious30's photo
Wed 07/29/09 05:14 AM
I appreciate all your advice. I have posted more pics. And I am going to be patient....And all that good stuff. Thanks!!!

BonnyMiss's photo
Wed 07/29/09 05:16 AM
Edited by BonnyMiss on Wed 07/29/09 05:18 AM

Jump into the forums. Post your thoughts. Let people get to know you and you'll start making friends. Attitude plus effort equals results. You can't win if you're not in the game.

Just my thoughts. Good luck.


I agree....... Forgetting my manners.

no photo
Wed 07/29/09 05:54 AM
Chat Global, Date Local.

You may have changed your account, because it says you signed up 7/21/09, which is about a week.
Have you searched the men in your area and seen how many are in your area and are active on the site?
There may not be many guys in your area.
Getting active in the forums seems to help, kind of a fun way to 'see' someone and be 'seen' too.

A bit more in your profile might help too.

I have been here almost two yrs, and have only met two people, and that was in the last three months.

Good Luck.

Fun4Fun2's photo
Wed 07/29/09 11:24 AM
Just an idea...always thinking positive and be honest with your self. open your ideas... ask your self what makes me "me" and why would someone want to know me?. overall.. your a sexy and intelligent nothing wrong there...go with the flow...

Good Luck :)

malektaus's photo
Fri 07/31/09 08:41 AM
i haven't been emailed once either...oh well if it happens it happens...

no photo
Fri 07/31/09 08:53 AM
Welcome and good luck,to you all :smile:

no photo
Fri 07/31/09 09:19 AM
do u mean like a hit on u email or something?

PATSFAN's photo
Fri 07/31/09 09:27 AM
That's just how it goes on these sites

heavenlyboy34's photo
Fri 07/31/09 09:29 AM
OP-don't be shy. Start messaging people and you'll probably get some back. I don't see anything wrong with you either. :)