Topic: Long Distance Relationships
Winx's photo
Thu 07/30/09 11:21 AM



LDR's are not for me.


What if they have a closet full of Spam?laugh



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MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 07/30/09 11:23 AM



LDR's are not for me.
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I knowdrinker
bigsmile Some of them are willin to travelbigsmile

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 07/30/09 11:26 AM




LDR's are not for me.
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I knowdrinker
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LeAiTàeRiSpEtTo20's photo
Thu 07/30/09 11:26 AM

How possible is it for you to keep one? A major turn off for guys i meet here is that im not even in the same continent riht now. yeah i know its a bit too much to ask and i know its hard but somehow im willing to try it for the first but apparently no one else is :(
Well if they like you enough, they should give it a try, everything is worth going after, no matter how far, specially someone you like.

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 07/30/09 11:27 AM





LDR's are not for me.
drinks Chickz wanna meetchadrinks




I knowdrinker
bigsmile Some of them are willin to travelbigsmile



scared Stalkersscared
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papersmile's photo
Thu 07/30/09 11:32 AM


How possible is it for you to keep one? A major turn off for guys i meet here is that im not even in the same continent riht now. yeah i know its a bit too much to ask and i know its hard but somehow im willing to try it for the first but apparently no one else is :(
Well if they like you enough, they should give it a try, everything is worth going after, no matter how far, specially someone you like.


just to fly from toronto to odessa (texas) costs about $1,000 bucks each time. i can only imagine a flight to south america!

if one wants to maintain a somewhat healthy relationship, seeing each other at least every other month, it adds up. if a couple doesn't have extra cash at their disposal, or can't budget the expense, i wouldn't get involved with someone that far away.

MsCashmere's photo
Thu 07/30/09 11:34 AM
its about $1000 to Guyana( my country) nonstop too. i used to live in NJ thats why i put my location as NJ...

Dan99's photo
Thu 07/30/09 11:34 AM
I agree, you need a certain amount of cash if you are going to get into a decent LDR, if both people are always skint its gonna be impossible to maintain a relationship that you can call 'real'.


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Thu 07/30/09 11:35 AM

its about $1000 to Guyana( my country) nonstop too. i used to live in NJ thats why i put my location as NJ...
SO YOU CAN MOVE TO MICHIGAN..................:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 07/30/09 11:38 AM
huh Ware in South america duz she live?huhGeorgia?,Alabama?,Missisipi?Lousiana?huh

JustAGuy2112's photo
Thu 07/30/09 11:38 AM

its about $1000 to Guyana( my country) nonstop too. i used to live in NJ thats why i put my location as NJ...


Ummm....my skills at geography are pretty bad...but isn't Guyana in Africa...not South America???

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 07/30/09 11:39 AM


its about $1000 to Guyana( my country) nonstop too. i used to live in NJ thats why i put my location as NJ...
SO YOU CAN MOVE TO MICHIGAN..................:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:
smitten I WANT 2 HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH YORE TRACTERsmitten

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Thu 07/30/09 11:40 AM

How possible is it for you to keep one? A major turn off for guys i meet here is that im not even in the same continent riht now. yeah i know its a bit too much to ask and i know its hard but somehow im willing to try it for the first but apparently no one else is :(

OP I was all set to come in here and post very seriously and honestly. Till I went over you profile, I mean I read each and every word. I took some time and really looked at your pictures. I think if a guy did what I did these might be some of the questions that would through his mind.

You state in your profile not interested in a sexual hook up {paraphrasing}. Yes alot of your photos' are very very suggestive in nature. Also I am not sure which one is you. I could very well be wrong some of the photo's to me look different in bone structure and eye shape.

AGAIN I WANT TO BE PERFECTLY CLEAR...I AM NOT IMPLYING OR INFERRING IN ANY WAY SHAPE OR FORM YOU ARE NOT ON THE UP AND UP.

Now, I live in a remote place I have done a few ldr's. It is very very hard to do, and there has to be a light at the end of the tunnel which one is going to move. Who is going to do most of the traveling? Can you both be brutally honest with each other. Be real from the start, can you deal with the lonliness that comes and goes. How often will you see each other. All these things have to be taken into account.

good luck I hope you find what you are looking for.

Dan99's photo
Thu 07/30/09 11:40 AM


its about $1000 to Guyana( my country) nonstop too. i used to live in NJ thats why i put my location as NJ...


Ummm....my skills at geography are pretty bad...but isn't Guyana in Africa...not South America???


It is South America, maybe you are thinking of Ghana?

JustAGuy2112's photo
Thu 07/30/09 11:41 AM



its about $1000 to Guyana( my country) nonstop too. i used to live in NJ thats why i put my location as NJ...


Ummm....my skills at geography are pretty bad...but isn't Guyana in Africa...not South America???


It is South America, maybe you are thinking of Ghana?


Ah. Ok.

That's probably where I got fouled up.

I was too lazy to actually look it up...lmao

Thanks, Dandrinker

silly's photo
Thu 07/30/09 11:41 AM
I just started talking to a man that lives in s.c.Will only be friends.But then again u never know what the future will be.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Thu 07/30/09 11:43 AM


How possible is it for you to keep one? A major turn off for guys i meet here is that im not even in the same continent riht now. yeah i know its a bit too much to ask and i know its hard but somehow im willing to try it for the first but apparently no one else is :(

OP I was all set to come in here and post very seriously and honestly. Till I went over you profile, I mean I read each and every word. I took some time and really looked at your pictures. I think if a guy did what I did these might be some of the questions that would through his mind.

You state in your profile not interested in a sexual hook up {paraphrasing}. Yes alot of your photos' are very very suggestive in nature. Also I am not sure which one is you. I could very well be wrong some of the photo's to me look different in bone structure and eye shape.

AGAIN I WANT TO BE PERFECTLY CLEAR...I AM NOT IMPLYING OR INFERRING IN ANY WAY SHAPE OR FORM YOU ARE NOT ON THE UP AND UP.

Now, I live in a remote place I have done a few ldr's. It is very very hard to do, and there has to be a light at the end of the tunnel which one is going to move. Who is going to do most of the traveling? Can you both be brutally honest with each other. Be real from the start, can you deal with the lonliness that comes and goes. How often will you see each other. All these things have to be taken into account.

good luck I hope you find what you are looking for.


It doesn't help her cause that she states that she has ' self esteem issues ' IMMEDIATELY after saying that she thinks she's " more hot than pretty ".

As a guy, I read that and just kind say WTF??

MsCashmere's photo
Thu 07/30/09 12:01 PM
lol maybe i should erase whats on my profile cuz u ppl have too many questions, by now ppl should know that human beings are generally complicated and slightly contradictiong based on moods n circumstances. and sitka they are all me u need to look at those pics as close as u looked at my words :)
and just a guy being physcially attractive has very straight forward characteristics eg nice ***, legs lips breasts and i admit that i may have some of those as opposed to being pretty which in peoples eyes have many more characteristics to dall under... im just saying... please ppl dont take everything so literally

no photo
Thu 07/30/09 12:06 PM
It is possible to love from far away, unless only the physical attracts somebody you can fall in love with a person far away.

Will it work or not well it's the same odds as a regular relation (slim) but still possible.

Winx's photo
Thu 07/30/09 12:16 PM
Guyana is next to Brazil and Mingle has a setting for Brazil. Just saying.